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Thaniyah_K thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I UNDERSTAND EDUCATION IS ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN A PERSONS LIFE!!!
My sister was 18 when she got married, now she is a fully qualified Gynocologist, she completed her studies after she got married.
I don't think there is anything wrong getting married and completing your studies, it makes me think of those unfortunate not to be able to study!!!
As for Anant and Navya, the situation is making Anant propose, he's not doing it for fun is he?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmmik

I UNDERSTAND EDUCATION IS ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN A PERSONS LIFE!!!

My sister was 18 when she got married, now she is a fully qualified Gynocologist, she completed her studies after she got married.
I don't think there is anything wrong getting married and completing your studies, it makes me think of those unfortunate not to be able to study!!!
As for Anant and Navya, the situation is making Anant propose, he's not doing it for fun is he?


That is very nice to hear such a successful story...Your sisters achievement is commendable...

But I have also seen, people going into marriage at early age only to find out, after some years, they should have completed their studies or studied further before getting married. Studying after marriage requires lot of support not only from the parents but also from the spouse. Studying after marriage requires more effort from a girl than boy because her responsibility would have increased now.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I do not think he is getting married now. He is talking about his girl for the future. I am sure we will see a committment from ANYA towards each other first and then long engagement once families have approved.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I do not see any problem if the two ties the knot. A few months ago Anant was getting engaged to Shagun... the proposal was very much against his wish or will... however, at that point of time he did not have the courage to voice his opinion and had to succumb to his family members' whims and wishes. If he would have got married, he would have either continued his studies and on completion wd have joined the family business. Today against all adversity if Anant decides to embrace Navya in his life I would give him all the credit that his intention is genuine... besides facing all the odds at one blow the boy has now come to that edge where he cannot turn back and he is behaving like a grown up serious matured lad who is now set to face the world and protect his own love from all the odds in life... If he can face the challenge and can master the courage I would give him full credit. The story is not about his completion of studies or his earnings, he is from a affluent background and somehow will be able to earn his living. But what has happened in his life he cannot hide or runaway from the situation...He has left with no choice now... He loves Navya and to protect her and their love, he has to declare his decision for marriage...I am sure at least two three people from their respective families will come forward to support them... yes, Anant would require financial stability and I am sure Mohan and chachaji can support him by allowing him to join the family business or help him otherwise...His own mother can support him...At least if one family member supports them in their decision ultimately the oppositions will have to accept them...but how will the story progress if Navya and Anant give up at this point? Rather they should prove that unitedly they can support each other and conquer the love and respect of their family members...Think about it guys... I have full faith in CVs...I am sure they will not disappoint us...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Even I felt the same that they are too young this is not the right time to get married. at present they should focus on their study and their career. Moreover Anant is just 19 and the legal age for boys to get married is 21 so he has to wait for atleast 2 yrs and has he thought that what if his parents throw him out of the house then where is he gonna stay, what is he gonna eat and how is gonna take care of Navya if they get married as he is not yet financially independent.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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NIce post rightchoice!

BTW I like your choice of username 😃...You just HAVE to live up to it and ask the question "Kya yehi hai right choice?" hai na? 😆...I agree with your viewpoint but I suppose we live in a completely different world from the bajpais and mishras with regard to education, marriage and work... Both families do not expect these 2 to ever work independently and plan to get both of them " married n settled" anyway, regardless of whether there was a lovestory in the background or not...So, in that way Anant may think he's hit upon the perfect solution...

But on principle, NO, not a solution at all.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: zwitterion

Even I felt the same that they are too young this is not the right time to get married. at present they should focus on their study and their career. Moreover Anant is just 19 and the legal age for boys to get married is 21 so he has to wait for atleast 2 yrs and has he thought that what if his parents throw him out of the house then where is he gonna stay, what is he gonna eat and how is gonna take care of Navya if they get married as he is not yet financially independent.


And a new serial called 'Balika Var' starts in Navya;)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: navyaalex8

NIce post rightchoice!


BTW I like your choice of username 😃...You just HAVE to live up to it and ask the question "Kya yehi hai right choice?" hai na? 😆...I agree with your viewpoint but I suppose we live in a completely different world from the bajpais and mishras with regard to education, marriage and work... Both families do not expect these 2 to ever work independently and plan to get both of them " married n settled" anyway, regardless of whether there was a lovestory in the background or not...So, in that way Anant may think he's hit upon the perfect solution...

But on principle, NO, not a solution at all.


Ya, I like my user name...some where I read the quote, In Life you make right choices or spend time in turning it right...there you go, I should put it in my Signature
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Newly_Born

I have been thinking the same since yst.

Why CV's are in hurry to get them married ? Have they don't any other track to show.

It seems that navya will get married to anant and will come to her sasural...and she and anant will be continue to their studies...will go to college together...Beside this she will try to win anant's family member's heart. Its only my P.O.V.


for me i think Anant will prove his family that his relation with Navya isn't an ordinary one! I think the CVs are trying to get both of em' engaged cuz after all the 3rd year in collage has started and it'll be ending by december so yay!! i think Mohan will get Anant in the office work and things willl settle!
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Posted: 13 years ago
#20
at ths time ..i guess yes ...after all wht happen ..i thn anant want to bring navya reputation in front of every one ...if all tht ws not happen th matter will be diff

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