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Preet

@Preet078

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Posted: 14 years ago

#11

Nice Post... as usual...👏

Motherhood have lots of shades...ie love ,affection , care, fear , tension and now one ding add 2 this is weapon (emotional blackmail)...

V always blackmail our parents wid our tears..to understand us or 2 agree wid us...but meeta use d weapon motherhood to ans dis...from meh perspective she is not right ,but from mother point view whatever she done is right...She thinks as all mother think child is always remain child for them n parents decision always right for them..dey never think and take any decision wrong for deir child..Meeta presently on dis stage.She takes time to understand navya and her decison..and for this navya have to put her perspective infront of meeta..no other solution for dis..

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sajni786

@sajni786

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Posted: 14 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: Newly_Born
Nice post.

thank u 😳

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sajni786

@sajni786

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Posted: 14 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: Aanchal15
A scintillating post as always, Shilpa👏👍🏼...
Meeta's actions are understandable...as a mother, she feels she has to be a bulwark, between Navya and Anant - the only way that she can repossess her strayed daughter, but she is unable to gather, that all her actions, are in actual fact, tormenting, her own flesh n blood.😭.She is.a classic example of being at cross roads, for she is unable to comprehend as to how to bring this matter to light , before the family... I felt you were swaying between her actions...not all surprising, coz, that is, how I felt, too...😕

@ bold
very well put Anchu...
Meeta is going thru what we call a reflex action of shock...or rather aftermath of the initial shock...She is like that tigress who protects its baby from any unknown sound approaching it and as a mother...its very natural for her to do so...and like I mentioned in my earlier replies...if looked upon from the motherhood perspective...she is justified...but can motherhood be excused if u look at the fact that she is human first b4 anything and putting another humam thru a mental n emotional torture is as such...not right...
Thats why I feel...Meeta today used motherhood as her weapon to justify her actions...and whether or not her this action can be justified...is a universal recurring debatable topic till date 😳

thanks for the reply sweetz 🤗

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sajni786

@sajni786

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Posted: 14 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: Preet078
Nice Post... as usual...👏

Motherhood have lots of shades...ie love ,affection , care, fear , tension and now one ding add 2 this is weapon (emotional blackmail)...
V always blackmail our parents wid our tears..to understand us or 2 agree wid us...but meeta use d weapon motherhood to ans dis...from meh perspective she is not right ,but from mother point view whatever she done is right...She thinks as all mother think child is always remain child for them n parents decision always right for them..dey never think and take any decision wrong for deir child..Meeta presently on dis stage.She takes time to understand navya and her decison..and for this navya have to put her perspective infront of meeta..no other solution for dis..

@ bold...
aha!!!...so basically its tit for tat 😆😆😆
But on a srs note...I guess u can call it fair n square then...if the children can use their "being the child" as trump card to get away with things n get things done...then I suppose...a mother is has the equal right to deploy her motherhood as a weapon...
Wat gets at stake in both cases is the very basic essence of being a human and understanding human sentiments...

Thanks for the reply hun 🤗

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sajni786

@sajni786

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Posted: 14 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: pgdn
Nice post 👍🏼

thank u 😳

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Mridula

@imnowhere

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

#16

So nicely written Shilpa😊
I am known for finding faults with others and being judgmental. But I am very much confused with the show these days(I am liking it though) as I fail to distinguish between the right and the wrong. So I'm trying to view things through the spectacles of u people in the forum. But u people are so convincing at all ur points that I landed up being all the more confused. I am at a loss on what to comment.
Hats off to you all!!!!!!!

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laddoo598

@laddoo598

Sparkler

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Posted: 14 years ago

#17

Shilpa beautifully written as always..For me Meeta's approach is a bit strict but its justifiable nonetheless..She is just trying to protect Navya from the big bad world out there..She still thinks of Navya as a child who doesn't know whats good and bad for her..Had she sat down and though about this whole scenario with a cool head for once then she wouldn't have imposed her decision on Navya without even giving Anant a chance to prove himself..

Meeta's emotional state right now can be summed up quite nicely:

1)Shock (check)
2)Denial ( She is going through it right now)
3)Acceptance (It will come when Navya tells her that Meeta too has changed)

You know what I love about the currect track? There is no clear line between right and wrong..I can't blame Meeta for reacting the way she did, and I can't blame Navya either for agreeing to Meeta's rules meekly..They are each right in their own place..Both of them are still trying to find the balance between tradition and modernism..

With that said and done, thank you for the awesome post and keep writing..🤗

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navyaalex8

@navyaalex8

Voyager

+ 2

Posted: 14 years ago

#18

Hi Shilpa, lovely post!

I pretty much agree with the above viewpoints esp pixigirl's...All of our parents have screwed us up at some point or the other to a greater or lesser extent...😊...unfortunate but true...but usually with 'daadi sab jaane' good intentions...it doesnt excuse them but we wanted a REAL show!

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ashakd

@ashakd

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

#19

Shilpa( sajani) , read u r post last nite, but had no answer. Today after reading every ones pov, I pretty much agree with all.

@ tanu...well said, the current scenario, each one is right, Meeta as well as Navya. Now we need to see how the cvs balance it.

@ Nisha...all parents have some time or the other taken some bad descisions about us in life, which they thought was right, but turned out to be wrong in the long run...couldnt agree with u more.

Shilpa, I think its a cycle. As a daughter, I have questioned my parents action sometimes, and never liked their descisions. But today as a mother, even I am in the same deliema. I want to do it right, but I dont know why? even with the best intentions, I mess it. Even though it is a serial, it has raised many a doubts in my mind, which hopefully as the show proceeds, am able to clear my thoughts .

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pixiegirl

@pixiegirl

Sparkler

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Posted: 14 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: navyaalex8
Hi Shilpa, lovely post!

I pretty much agree with the above viewpoints esp pixigirl's...All of our parents have screwed us up at some point or the other to a greater or lesser extent...😊...unfortunate but true...but usually with 'daadi sab jaane' good intentions...it doesnt excuse them but we wanted a REAL show!

Thank you Nisha, that is so sweet of you. I am so glad, you understood what I was trying to say...

Life is never black & white, we cannot be so judgmental all the time. I love the current track, b/c it is so real... even though, we may not exactly see it in that way, b/c we're so biased in our opinion b/c of our love for AnYa. Blame it on the ultra cute lead pair 😉

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