Parents are everything to a child and not having one of them is the worst thing a child can face. That certain emptiness of not having one of them...looking at your friends parents and thinking that may be if my father was there, i would have bonded with him like that too. Its unimaginable...nothing can fill the place of a parent. I cried my heart out at bharti performance and felt so bad for her. She was so right when she said, when mom puts a hand on head, it feels like world's all tensions are gone and when a dad puts, you feel secured. Anybody can relate to this statement so well. And i cannot even imagine how horrible is it for children who never got that hand on their head. She broke after the act, it must have badly affected her...the whole rehearses, performance ...everything. She must have went through a lot inside to deliver this. She might have learnt to live without her dad but still that emptiness remains, i know because i have closely witnessed this. The proof that she so badly wanted and choosed a life partner who could somehow fit into her dad's shoes too shows how much she wanted to have her dad in her life. She misses his presence madly. I am sure her mother fulfilled responsibilities of both parents very well but one still can;t deny...the absence is heart wrenching. I am happy she got a loving partner and is doing good for herself today. My question is why that girl had to went through it. Why...she performed this...She is a confident women who has achieved quiet a lot in life ...then why she has to face this here at Nach Baliye. Just because this topic will touch me as a viewer, she went through all this misery just to make me(viewer) feel connected. I want to really tell these shows choreographer and actors themselves...audience can easily connect to good dance as well. We here dont want actors to go through such troublesome time with an aim to impress audience. I am habitual of seeing a strong bharti, i can't see her break like this. Such sensitive topics should not be used for dance performances i feel...you can always use an imaginary thing for emotional acts. We do relate to movies which are not reality, we can relate to imaginary acts too. Just felt bad that such a sensitive topic was touched and thinking of the emotional trouble she might have faced while rehearsing this as an individual ...i feel even more bad. I dont know i am being too emotional or what...but i felt like she paid the price of signing a contract with Nach Baliye.
Edited by EtherealRati - 8 years ago