Originally posted by: darsh333
My pleasure girl😊
You skipped the hug😆it was an okay hug..like a friendly hug😊
Awkwardness i agree..i didnt feel that old connectivity coz of the same reasons you mentioned.
Neil is a mess and he isnt the old one who was once clearcut about who he loved when he saw Juhi alive then.
Hi
I don't think Neil is confused about his emotions, he clearly knows for whom his heart yearns and longs for, and he clearly knows that he doesn't have any feelings for Mithali. The thing is he is kind of defeated now, he thinks things can't be fixed now with Avni, and it was clear when he asked her kis mod par agaye hum so he is doing things out of obligation and commitment but he is at fault, because he knows a loveless marriage is not the solution and it will be torture for him and it would be unfair to Mithali, he should not have been guilt ridden with Mithali's talks about promises and commitment and her hurt, he should have called off the engagement now especially when she gave him a chance to do it. It was his chance to come out of the mess he got himself into. He will only be miserable and make Mithali's life miserable not that she is innocent either. I mean she knew what she was getting into, Neil's actions speak louder than any words he tells her, I mean it would be silly to think that a man who couldn't move on in 10years and kept living in his wife's memories leaving everything else in this world would think about another woman now that the love of his life is alive and they even have a kid together.
So the comparison with Juhi is irrelevant here I feel, because even here he knows he doesn't love Mithali. If we go by feelings then even during Rhea track he was going ahead with his engagement/shaadi despite having feelings for Ananya/Avni, it's just that then he didn't realise or admit it to himself that he had feelings for her but he clearly felt cornered when Neela ma back then too told him that he loves Avni.
Anyways I might be wrong, but I feel it's a very tricky situation, but I hope he himself realises that a loveless marriage is a wrong decision, it would be torture for him and unfair to Mithali, this is the same man who didn't go back to Juhi just for the sake of Mishti because he loved Avni and he explained to Avni that Mishti can't be happy if she sees her parents in a loveless marriage but again things were perfect between him and Avni then, yet still Neil should understand once and for all that more than commitment, trying to move on with another woman when you love another one is a very wrong decision and it will only result in all the parties being miserable.