Why am I against any adoption track of Mishti - Not a negative Post

I am writing after a long time on suggestion by someone to express my views on Why I am against any adoption track? Please bear in mind that this is not any negative or bashing post but just putting forth my views. Ever since Mishti track started there have been lot of fears and discussions or debates on adoption track. Everyone had the fear that she will be adopted. And with her picture floating in the social media sites, it came back again. Please note this is no bashing but putting forth my views.

Firstly any adoption track is not logical track for the simple reason that Mishti's father is still alive. That is the biological father. And if she needs protection from the father against the abuse, District Child Protection Unit decides on it after hearing it. And if she needs protection as per the latest Juvenile Act 2015 she can be placed in an institution or foster care(temporarily). Foster care is again in the process of evolution in India and there is no program as such which has started yet in large scale. It is last year that Government is working on drafting it and implementing it, but Foster care is very temporary.

For Mishti to be adopted, Vidyut has to surrender all the rights on her. He will be given 2 months of grace period and in the court/District Protection Unit/District Working Committee/District Magistrate he has to sign the final surrender deed. I know cases where father who had murdered his wife, since he did not sign off the surrender deed, he could get the children sent back to his family. No one can do anything. For a child to be legally adopted, one needs No objection certificate which says she is legally free for adoption. Even for abandoned children, full attempts are made to search for the parents including placing ads in daily newspapers, and police investigating into it. Only when there is no hope the matter is placed before the District Protection Unit/District Working Committee/District Magistrate to get no objection certificate

Adoption is not a easy thing, there is lot of preparation, ground work that goes. Home studies are conducted, then again court/District Protection Unit/District Working Committee/District Magistrate studies or scrutinizes your fit or eligibility before legalizing the adoption.I understand there are lot of misrepresentations in the shows and I have seen it myself wherein in one show they showed biological parents landing up at adoptive parents house after adoption, which is not possible. Once court passes the order, biological parents cease to have rights and they need to approach the District Working Committee and court with valid reasons.

But I am raising this and objecting to this because shows are misleading people. So much so people are not even aware that CARA has become central function for adoption including Family adoptions or Step child adoptions. They think it is an easy process and get frustrated by long waiting periods and administration process. This leads them to resort to illegal routes of adoption where they pay money to hacks. They don't realize that these hacks actually steal the children, buy children from parents under duress to complete others' family. The Government, activists which include Adult Adoptees, parents are fighting against these irregularities. This is fact wherein recently 16 children were rescued in illegal adoption racket, of which some of the children had lot of trauma as they underwent separation twice. This racket came into light when one of the child was stolen from the mother in the temple.

Creative liberties are taken, yes true, but it is our collective responsibility as well that we don't show wrong messages to glorify something. I mean to glorify adoption we can't show wrong message. Sorry long post

That way Avni would not be in jail in the first place, all they had to do was prove her innocent, Juhi track could have been sorted in one go, 1 DNA test and thats it track over par Juhi track went on for 4 months.

To drag a track everything becomes absolutely illogical. Even this Jail track is not completely logical. No guarantee what will happen after the Jail track ends.

Yes logic and serials don't go hand in hand but should not the buck stop somewhere. Misrepresentation to glorify adoption as nayisoch creates problems rather than solving. Is it not the collective responsibiliy to ensure wrong message does not go out or child' interests are protected. Activists all over are fighting against irregularities because children rather than getting families are becoming victims of forced separation, depression and identity crisis. Hague Convention of which India is a signatory and UHRC global organizations are bringing in guidelines to protect the children interests. Child trafficking need not be with respect to prostitution only but also adoption primarily irregular adoption.