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+1Originally posted by: arshisfan
Guys while I know what Neil did is wrong, I don't want it to be another I won't forgive you thing. Let me explain, hiding the truth from Avni for so long is wrong, once the purpose of her being safe was fulfilled she should have been told the truth instead of letting her think that the man she loves mistrusts her, but in this hurt and pain I don't want Avni to regress and CVs to make it another Neil pacifying Avni mission, I'll tell u why! I need Avni to understand her contribution to the situation, where she went wrong as well, what Neil did here was after the entire situation was created, I also want her to understand the importance of not letting ur past control you or make u ignore other glarring things, yes given her past, her insecurities and hurt are understandable, she has preconceived ideas that she doesn't deserve happiness, that no one really remains in her life, so when that button is pressed a little bit harder she gives up and starts believing it's the truth and that real love doesn't exist, but if she is proved wrong despite Neil's wrong ways I want her to also question why she couldn't see behind his facade, why she couldn't read his eyes and just saw doubt in them, actually she saw in his eyes her own inner fears and not the truth of his soul. I want Avni to be a better version of herself from this experience, if she should keep distance from Neil, it should be because she wants to come out of her trauma, to fight her own demons that prevent her from trusting fully, to have restrospection and introspection. Neil has always forgiven her easily, even when she married him dokhe se, he used to feel angry because she breaks his promises but he used to understand her, honestly any man would feel hurt when his lady breaks his promises but Neil has accepted this woman the way she is warna I would totally understand if he felt hurt after that scene where he said " ek bar ek bar meri bhare mein soch lena" and I don't want people to compare these practical promises to the promise of Neil of giving her a fairytale or making her happy because we know that it's not in our hands, it's very abstract, destiny tests u, u just can try to make the person happy but the real happiness of someone depends only on them it comes from inside, you will be happy the day u decide to be happy, but if you let your past, fears, insecurities and many mental hurdles take over u will never be happy no matter how others try to make u happy.
I want it to be a learning experience for both, Neil's main motto was honesty and transparency if he broke it, it's in part due to Avni's impulsiveness and breaking promises habit ( the other part is CVs wanting a real separation coz despite everything Neil has always been honest with Avni even after her doing impulsive things), how can he be sure if he told her on the spot she won't go behind Vidyut after promising she won't, but yes I totally disagree with him on keeping her in the dark after the arrest.
Guys I genuinely think that, it's not even a pro Neil vision, it's mainly for Avni, she should understand that not everytime her past will be repeated with the same outcome, if she adopts a different approach in her way of dealing with things even the outcome can be different, as I said I know it's easier said than done.
In a relationship trust is very important, no matter what, u can't assure me u won't do something, and then go behind my back and do it because of something from the past, not only once, many times, and u can't always take things at face values without considering other aspects.
For me the following dialogues were important to be analyzed by Avni:
Neil : ""Avni bohot dard diya hai maine tumhe, hum ek simple married life jee sakte thi, ek happy married life, lekin mere ateet ki aane se, Juhi ki aane se hamari life ulaj thi chale gayi, tumne Mishti phir bhi pyaar diya, Juhi ko support diya, uski madad ki, iss mein tumhari koi ghalti nahi, ghalti hai to sirf meri"
Neil : "Avni tumhe sabse zada pyar main hi karta hoon, sabse zada dokh main hi deta hoon. Ek baat yaad rakna Avni, chahe kuch bhi hojaye, duniya tumhari bhare mein kuch bhi soche ya tum meri bhare mein kuch bhi socho lekin phir bhi main hamesha sirf tumhe aur tumhe hi pyaar karonga"
I guess the six months without Neil contacting her not even once might have made her think he really meant it, though I feel her heart and even mind would still think that there is something that doesn't add up.
Anyways my point is I don't want them to get in another phase without understanding what went wrong in the previous one, both of them!
Let's say I have more a problem with the dialogues :
Originally posted by: -DragonFire-
The fact is if everybody becomes perfect and behaves the way they are supposed to behave in the show then the story will become very simple and we will have nothing to discuss😛
Originally posted by: vijaya138
Correct dragon! But what to do? 6 months he couldn't do anything to vidhyut. But with a piece of clothing he thought that avni is the one who is escaping.I feel only programming named avni is only present in Neil's brain now. Rest is effected with virus.Neil's brain works with logic only when it comes to avnis mistakes. Rest I don't know what to say