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First of all I would like to say is that this post is not to offend anyone but since past two days m seeing so many negative comments for Neil khanna which has compelled me to write this post .I want to say sorry in beginning if this posts hurts anybody.
First of all I want to say being a student of philosophy in past I know what God is .How it is defined in every religion so let me tell you one thing that there is one thing which every philosopher's agrees with his that Even God is not a perfect being .Had he been perfect then the world would have been perfect.till date their is not a single person on this planet who is born flawless.
Coming to the show Neil Khanna is a human being .He s jus like one among all of us .Bt yes there are some qualities which makes him different.
1) he takes stand for what is right n what's wrong which is Ethics ( the ability to distinguish between what's right n wrong ) so he s Ethical in his approach
2) He respects woman n dere self respect.( Living example he took stand for rhea wen Shweta refused to get her son engaged).
3) He knows how to stop somebody wen that person is wrong (stopping rhea from slapping or wen holding collar of Amol wen he said Ananya characterless )
4) Taking stand for his wife.when a girl is married the only person who can make a person feel like home is her husband.The faith with which she enters new house in on her hubby.Husband vows to girl's parents that he will take care n will support his wife in thick n thin .I don't need to give example how Neil keeps supporting his wife against all evil.
5)Every crime is not punishable.One can be counseled.If u remember how he told the man who murdered his wife in jealousy then u will remember what he told in the last
so above are few of qualities n I know dere are lots n lots of more thing to write for Neil Khanna n very honestly I can write a full thesis bt that will jus take away the essence for which I m writing this post.Having said that ,coming to the main purpose.Neil s girlfriend was Juhi whom he was in love with.N maybe he thought he will spend his entire life with her .Bt one tragedy jus took away his Life.The sort of same faith what his mother beared on her wedding day .bt then her mom got his dad who became her support system n filled the void of her dark past.Neil losing his gf could have gone into depression.He would have cursed himself n would have given up his life.may be he did not wanted to live.He was studying or preparing for MBA n would have thought of joining Dad's business bt then Juhi s death may have got him a feeling that this world needs good officer.If u have seen pre leap episode n wen Avni was sent in remand hall jus listen to what Rathore says to his fellow police man.Like Avni said he could have easily lived a life of comfort of joining his dad's business bt may be whatever happened his faith in judiciary never went on.why was it ? Do you guys realise ? It's all becoz Juhi had given him that strength.her love must have been so pure n she must have been such a positive soul that Neil never became negative.Bt yes dere are many things which definitely makes u remind of something.for eg Ganesh chaturthi festival.We do relate to if something bad happens on some auspicious day we just don't want that to celebrate.For eg one of my classmate lost her brother on Diwali so from that particular year she doesn't celebrate Diwali.One colleague of mine lost his best friend on his birthday so he never cuts cake .I was never aware of this n i forced him to celebrate so that we can have a memory from our MBA days he did jus for my sake .He came n cut the cake with class only for me.after few days he told me the real reason behind it n u know I felt really bad that day.My best friend s family are one of big shot ppl bt then they have the most simple wedding with jus few family member . Punjabis are known for big fat indian wedding but then die to some tragedy unknown they never celebrate wedding on large scale.My dad lost his brother during Navratri n he jus doens't like to celebrate this festival.Its been 23 years since he never celebrate this festival .He use to get angry on my mom if she use to fast by now since past 4 years I have been keeping fast for my brother n den my dad said that u do for ur brother but don't ask me to celebrate since this reminds me that my younger brother is no more .So coming to Neil he has emotions.he will definitely not be in position of what mental trauma is going through.like everyone says man is social being .he needs people.When the roadmap is not clear we take help of GPS so what's wrong if Neela maa told him how he has impacted life of Avni.A non believer in His supreme has started believing him.He never said that he will not tell Avni about Juhi he jus asked time so that wen he is sorted he can open n explain.Neil has healed Avni to that extent that now he has become her priority.She wants to go back to Khanna house n is ready to adjust .U think Avni was like that.apart from her Ayesha maa n Aman she never thought of anybody bt now Neil is her life.This is the impact of Neil in Avni's life.Neil jus went out.He could have easily blasted at Avni what Shweta thought Neil will do bt even that time he was in his sense.Wen u r not prepared for something the reaction is unusual since u r not in senses.Neela jus gave him the clarity.He then went n if you see in whole article sequence he was looking in Avni's eyes.Her happiness matters to him most.I seriously don't know bt why Neil is being thrashed.I lost one of my cousin in 2005 who had rare to rare disease a heart disease which was first case in India n very unusual case n which cannot happen to 17 year.His favourite movie that time was kal ho Na ho .u know whenever that movie is shown my mum never let us watch it since that movie reminds her of her nephew.Its very sillu thing bt she lost her nephew.There are many tragedy which can make a person or break a person.
So my post jus want to say that Neil is a human being n is all of us.I can totally relate to what he s going through.He s like one among us.Give a fair Chance.life is very short guys u never know when someone dear one jus goes away from life.If my posts has hurt anyone then m very sorry .It's a very long post bt jus want to explain Neil's emotion with my personal experience.
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