Neil Khanna is one among us n is not God - Page 2

You are absolutely right...All of us have feelings , emotions and so has Neil and he has full right to show his emotions..He cant be ignorant to his emotions for the sake of others but still he came for Avni to do Pooja...

👏 shikha nothing to add here as you've depicted neil's situation so practically n poignantly.

Lovely post shiks 😳

Originally posted by: sudha_suressh

Lovely post shiks 😳

U explained everything very well..

Well nothing add I was bit confused and upset with comments floating around here ..

I didn't liked much yesterday's Epi and I watched today's honestly I loved it ..Neil's actions and words made more sense to me and I can connect with him completely ..I was wondering I couldn't find anything wrong with him as fellow members mentioned..All I could see is Avni's Neil today .. Not many are criticising him it's just their POV ...Actually who doesn't like Neil khanna the entire forum is fan of him and latoo over him..Even Avni was criticised for not being romantically involved with Neil and sum understands why she was being like that..this was expected since this track is abt Neil's emotions abt his past and present..sum might react this way coz they were possessive of Neil's love for Avni ..we need to ignore and they will be ok wen this track ends ..

I appreciate ur efforts for making this post😳

Originally posted by: subiaman

such a positive outlook @sudhasuressh.. I also dont think any one was trashing Neil,, Everyone has their own view on how Neil should have reacted to the situation. We find fault with our favorite characters... Some days it is Avni, some days it is Neil... But in the end we all love Avneil 😃.. This is by far the best forum I have been involved in, the way we treat the leads and characters with respect...

Originally posted by: Dilara44

When you lose someone who is very dear to your heart (especially if that person dies in front of your eyes in a tragic way) it's not that easy to forget that person and move on... memories always haunt you everywhere... even after many years...

I guess the people who criticize Neil are just not familiar with this feeling... actually it would be odd if he behaved all normal and happy...

till now he was shown as a sensible but also as a sensitive boy... that would be the real character assassination imo...

Hi dear... that's a very personal statement. While I agree with TM that Neil is just a human being and that he has his faults and the way she can understand why he reacted the way he did, just the fact that one could not understand Neil's reaction because one hasn't gone through a similar experience is not right. I personally have experienced something similar and it took me years to come to terms with it: in fact you are right in that memories always haunt you everywhere. It could be random things that remind you of the person and the loss. But the way each one reacts is totally different. It need not necessarily be the way Neil reacted. Some people run away from it like Neil tried to do (and avoid things which reminds you like he does). some people are able to act normal and happy most of the time. They find an inner strength to deal with it. When you have the memories you don't necessarily break down each time like Neil did it yesterday. It could be the way he dealt with it today- facing it and trying to control our emotions for the sake of others and acting strong. So for me personally Neil's reaction yesterday didn't resonate very well. I am not saying he shouldn't be affected but the whole reaction was not relatable as a stand alone thing. Today when he came back after Neela gave that pep talk it made more sense to me. Just because one could not relate to one incident relating to Neil doesn't make you a Neil criticizer either. They may have different expectations from the character. To each his own!
I guess I am spending too much time on this forum divulging in too much personal details. Need to stop getting involved this much