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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: _OrChiD_



No, any sane person would see husband's insecurity and pain rather than EX. Sane person don't go away with ex when husband is about to apply med on wound, no matter how much you trust your ex, you should give priority to your character, rather than babying EX!!

Husband isn't additional subject, husband is MAIN subject!! EX is ADDITIONAL subject!!


First of all Ex and husband thing is secondary in shows like naagin. Secondly Any sane person who had gone through all this whatever bela went then it is still justified...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Surbhizoya

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Posted: 7 years ago
#23


The reason why I think she is not objecting is because -
She thinks Vik is going to go away in a day and she is confident that she can convince Mahir. Don't think she is doing this out of guilt or anything. She made it very clear to Vik that he is equally responsible for thier relation ending.

More than anything it is poor writing to show MU between them.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Avi99

If you are saying this on the basis of vikrant then i don't agree with you. Her feelings for vikrant has changed but her trust and the way she used to see vikrant as a person has not changed. For her vikrant was perfect for 100 year. She isn't dumb if she is dumb then she should be still confused between vikrant and mahir. Her vision is very clear, that she love mahir. you can see mahir pain but did you ever tried to see what bela is going through.


There is clear difference between trusting someone and being blind. We understand what Bella is going through. Her first love came back supposedly for her only to find that she has moved on. That too with that man who is supposedly his killer. She is feeling guilty about hurting Vikrant. It's but natural that she still trusts him as he has supposedly sacrificed his love for her happiness.

But the question here is of personal space. Her trusting Vikrant shouldn't make her blind to the fact that he is invading her personal space. Let's for get for a moment that Mahir exists in the picture. Let's forget that she is married. Let's forget that she is in love.

He is her ex lover. He shouldn't be touching her like he used to. His actions are clearly that of lover's. Tell me is it not inappropriate touching when someone continues to remain in your physical proximity despite you telling them that you are uncomfortable with it? I wouldn't go as far as calling it sexual harassment, but it is headed towards that in this weekend's episode.

Bella is dumb because she is taking Mahir for granted. She is unable to see that her actions are hurting Mahir beyond repair. If she can dismiss Vikrant in the privacy of her room then she can most certainly dismiss him in front of everyone. No need to insult him . A simple flick of shoulder to dislodge his hand. Small actions will help convey to people that she is uncomfortable. She is very clear as to what she wants. But her actions make it look like she is confused.

Just because she is feeling guilty, should she be okay with her ex lover's unwanted advances? Her inability to reject Vikrant openly makes her careless.

If she openly rejects his advances, and he still continues to come closer to her, then the family will know that Yuvi is being a sleaze. Right now it looks like Bella is two timing Mahir.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: _OrChiD_



No, any sane person would see husband's insecurity and pain rather than EX. Sane person don't go away with ex when husband is about to apply med on wound, no matter how much you trust your ex, you should give priority to your character, rather than babying EX!!

Husband isn't additional subject, husband is MAIN subject!! EX is ADDITIONAL subject!!

@bold 👏👏
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Posted: 7 years ago
#26

Originally posted by: Viddhi01

Hey dear we are not in against of bela either, we could never be. We the behirians love Bela as much as we love Mahir. And that's why her kind of negligence to the current rough situation is irritating us. Vikrant is a villain who is supposed to create misunderstandings between them, it's upto them how they tackle with it and save their relation.

Bela is our favourite still we are criticising her wrong doings doesn't make her less lovable ultimately.

Exactly...If I didn't love Bela I wouldn't be so frustrated with her right now..I guess we ARE seeing this from Mahir Pov, since we r feeling a very little bit of what all he must be feeling...But she IS being dumb..Ok so she can't stop vik...Fine...But the way she is protesting him behind closed doors, couldn't she atleast tell mahir that night confession was for him behind closed doors? Trust me Mahir ji, aap ko lagta hai main aisi hu, no need...Just use one sentence girl...That night I mistook yuvi for u and all this is mu...that's it...I guarantee Mahir wud hv melted like butter and vik wudn't win so easy...So yeah even if we understand why she is letting vik do this to her, she needs to spend one sentence that has nothing to do with vik or 100 yrs love and situation wud be better...I love her , that's why right now I want someone to shake some sense into her...She is already in over her head and there is no one to help her...She can't afford losing Mahir too...
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Posted: 7 years ago
#27

Originally posted by: Avi99


First of all Ex and husband thing is secondary in shows like naagin. Secondly Any sane person who had gone through all this whatever bela went then it is still justified...


Ex and Husband thing isn't secondary in this season. This season revolves around LOVE/MAHIR KILLING MISSION.

Even if this is secondary, still not justified. Wife is being touched by another man in front of husband is most disgusting thing. (Anyone can touch but there is difference between touch. I guess, I don't need to write the difference. We all know.)

I don't want to talk about real people, if anyone go through, their problem or how they deal! But if this happened in real life, divorce case would've been in court by now. 😆 So, yeah, I cant call them sane.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#28
marriage kabhi bhi ekta ke serial mai secondary nhi ho sakti .

some people r 2 obsessed by 100 saal ka pyar

bela herself know no man will tolerate such behaviour still mahir is tolerating

she said 2 vikrant that u said such a big thing that i spend a night with u but still mahir saved me from falling from stairs & was concern 4 my pain.
Edited by deepikagupta9 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: urmita

Exactly...If I didn't love Bela I wouldn't be so frustrated with her right now..I guess we ARE seeing this from Mahir Pov, since we r feeling a very little bit of what all he must be feeling...But she IS being dumb..Ok so she can't stop vik...Fine...But the way she is protesting him behind closed doors, couldn't she atleast tell mahir that night confession was for him behind closed doors? Trust me Mahir ji, aap ko lagta hai main aisi hu, no need...Just use one sentence girl...That night I mistook yuvi for u and all this is mu...that's it...I guarantee Mahir wud hv melted like butter and vik wudn't win so easy...So yeah even if we understand why she is letting vik do this to her, she needs to spend one sentence that has nothing to do with vik or 100 yrs love and situation wud be better...I love her , that's why right now I want someone to shake some sense into her...She is already in over her head and there is no one to help her...She can't afford losing Mahir too...

Mahir ji 😳😳
Baat karna to bahut dur ki baat Bela aaj ke baad mai tumhari shakal bhi nahi dekhna chahta..
In less than 4 ghante Bela Bela

Mujhe koi fark nahi parta Bela I don't care for you.
In less than aadhe ghante, ha thik hai na gusse me nikal jaati hai chaar baat sorry
😆😆 Kaha milega aisa banda, kisi ko pata lage to mere ko address de dena please.

P.s. Somewhere Mahir ji's mahirness is taken as granted even by his biwi ji.
Biwi ji ko television ke un so called dominating type heroes se pala para hota to she wouldn't be in so maje.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: Ash.raje17


There is clear difference between trusting someone and being blind. We understand what Bella is going through. Her first love came back supposedly for her only to find that she has moved on. That too with that man who is supposedly his killer. She is feeling guilty about hurting Vikrant. It's but natural that she still trusts him as he has supposedly sacrificed his love for her happiness.

But the question here is of personal space. Her trusting Vikrant shouldn't make her blind to the fact that he is invading her personal space. Let's for get for a moment that Mahir exists in the picture. Let's forget that she is married. Let's forget that she is in love.

He is her ex lover. He shouldn't be touching her like he used to. His actions are clearly that of lover's. Tell me is it not inappropriate touching when someone continues to remain in your physical proximity despite you telling them that you are uncomfortable with it? I wouldn't go as far as calling it sexual harassment, but it is headed towards that in this weekend's episode.

Bella is dumb because she is taking Mahir for granted. She is unable to see that her actions are hurting Mahir beyond repair. If she can dismiss Vikrant in the privacy of her room then she can most certainly dismiss him in front of everyone. No need to insult him . A simple flick of shoulder to dislodge his hand. Small actions will help convey to people that she is uncomfortable. She is very clear as to what she wants. But her actions make it look like she is confused.

Just because she is feeling guilty, should she be okay with her ex lover's unwanted advances? Her inability to reject Vikrant openly makes her careless.

If she openly rejects his advances, and he still continues to come closer to her, then the family will know that Yuvi is being a sleaze. Right now it looks like Bella is two timing Mahir.

@bold Yup. Leave Mahir ji for a second. Even I, a Bela shipper when see the situation positioning Mahir ji or any sehgal member I feel the same as if she is oscillating between two of the brothers.
Bela's intentions are pure no doubt but her reactions on certain actions are not.

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