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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: VARUNI2014


So according to u divorce us not an option .I find it regressive .then why divorce laws ..happily we can live in 1850 where there r no divorce laws and basically no choice after u r married ...

Adultery is a crime but divorce is not a crime in india.as long as u don't cheat u r partner u r entitled to leave in a honest way and start a new life THIS US REALITY


What is cheating?? Isnt loving your first lover after marriage to another person cheating or is just getting physical only is cheating??, For me marriage is a commitment which you should not enter if you dont want to take it. As no person has any right to spoil any third persons life by marrying and divorcing for no fault of his/ her.

It is for the same reason i dont watch the serial Silsila. I personally cant think of such a case.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: maharathikarna



What is cheating?? Isnt loving your first lover after marriage to another person cheating or is just getting physical only is cheating??, For me marriage is a commitment which you should not enter if you dont want to take it. As no person has any right to spoil any third persons life by marrying and divorcing for no fault of his/ her.

It is for the same reason i dont watch the serial Silsila. I personally cant think of such a case.


Bela married mahir because she wants to avenge viks death!the foundation of their marriage is based on revenge and hatred not love
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Posted: 7 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: durga33

@Missbaker I agree with u that first love is unforgettable. However I also agree that now she is married and in love with Mahir; she won't go back to being the same way as she was with Vikrant. Unless she divorces Mahir which is most likely not to happen. However UNTIL Vikrant true face is out in the open Bela will find herself in a conflict. She will feel guilty about loving Mahir and being with him while Vikrant was alive and thinking of her in her view. So she might show preference to Vikrant until his truth comes out in the open.
P.S. you should post some more on this forum. It's nice to read different POV 😃


thanks but i dont think people will welcome my opinions as i belong to the minority not a behir shipper u know 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: MissBaker


Bela married mahir because she wants to avenge viks death!the foundation of their marriage is based on revenge and hatred not love


Very true. It would have been a peice of cake had she not fallen in love with mahir. Then there would not have been any problem. Killing or leaving mahir. But that is not the scene here. How any body can say vikranth love for bela is pure is beyond my imagination. Only bela does not know it yet. She will come to know in due course.
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Posted: 7 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: VARUNI2014




U r analogy is completely wrong .in 1920 women never had a choice to choose first lover over marriage .Marriage is like a prison .they did not even have divorce option just now we have got divorce option and freedom to choose first love over marriage and surprising at this age and time people r calling that woman as characterless who has a right to choose what she has to do i.e continue in marriage or come out



But in case of behirs marriage it's not a prison.. they both love each other and are quite happy with each other
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: maharathikarna


What is cheating?? Isnt loving your first lover after marriage to another person cheating or is just getting physical only is cheating??, For me marriage is a commitment which you should not enter if you dont want to take it. As no person has any right to spoil any third persons life by marrying and divorcing for no fault of his/ her.

It is for the same reason i dont watch the serial Silsila. I personally cant think of such a case.


Silsila is different .cheating is when u do u r partner back without telling them honestly what's happening to u like in silsila kunal was sleeping with nandhini and dud not tell to his wife and was happily staying with her too .if kunal ..the moment he started having those feelings ..i.e that rain dance afterwards had told to Mauli honestly what's happening and asked her for divorce ..MAULI NEVER hAD to Feel Dhoka ..The Point That made Mauli feel Bad is NoT Kunal Choosing Nandhini But Her Best Friend And Hubby Cheating On Her Back ,Thats What SHE Said Clearly .


The moment u feel ..u start having feelings for u r first lover ..go discuss with u r wife or husband and take divorce and then marry u r lover ...this is not cheating and it is honesty
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Posted: 7 years ago
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No love is forgettable. We love people differently.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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@Missbaker also I'm part of the minority. I just care for the stories and suspense more than the romance. I also tend to get attracted to the villains more. This happens when I watch American tv and shows. So I'm not really feeling behir but I'm happy for the behir fans. 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: .SummerDays.



But in case of behirs marriage it's not a prison.. they both love each other and are quite happy with each other


But she has a choice when her first love returns .then she can break her marriage and go and that's doess not make her character less
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Posted: 7 years ago
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See i am no shipper. I like mahir at this point in story, as he is a good guy. Why should a innocent good guy needs to get hurt for some immature unfinished first love drama of anybody. If you strongly feel for your ex why marry y and spoil there life?. If you marry and spoil the life of a innocent third person what use is honesty??

Straight question, if given a choice would you choose vikranth or mahir as life partner knowing all their plus and minus qualities??
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