Mohan Bhatnagar: A case of low self-esteem? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Sunna_Deewani

I guess he does have a low self esteem of sorts. or maybe his father didn't support him. There was a longing in him, whenever he used to talk to FIL Ved Vyasji about Amar. How he talks proudly about amar. Mohan never got that. maybe it stems from there.

Or it could be a story device as the Cvs didn't dare to show a widow accepting a new man in her life easily without his extreme persuasions😕.

Originally posted by: Jaynragz

arrey yaar simple sa example deti hoon.. Talking about my certain mental friends ...fb par status update kartein hain..dhaansu sa...sabka like comment sab aa jaata hai..bus ek usi ka nahi aata ...jissey hum pyaar kartein hain... Hum wonder kartey rehtein hai usney update dekha bhi hoga ki nahi...woh humaarey page par aata bhi hoga ki nahi... sabsey tareef milti hai..but jabtak ussey yeh message tak nahi aata ...haan dekha tha tera update..tab tak sab meaningless hota hai...another example ... Ek ladki ko sab hot hot bolten hain...she shld b happy...but that one guy who likes intellectuality and hotness both in a woman..bas uski nazar nahi padhthi humpar...isi ko lekar rona jaari rehta hai...bus that one person whom we love..makes us not even enjoy all the praise n acclaim..its love...aur jab tak kisi ne accept karkey fir usi person ke saath unrequitted love se nahi guzrein ho..unko yeh baat samajh nahi aayegii..love makes the world go round...u mustv read this about love right...Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love."

Originally posted by: sen_madhuban

while you were sleeping...😳😳...

siggy of miss non sappy in love...😉😉...

love d movie...thanks for reminding me of it...will run & catch few scenes...

by d way doesnt even d lead in dis movie long for acceptance from father?...such irony...

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Ok so you're saying it's simply love...Love weakens a person to that point. I see.

Maybe I'm just not that sappy about love so I don't get it😆

Originally posted by: --Evon--

Nice post.. makes you think 😊

I think it's just his character, more than low self-esteem. But there's the issue that when he still has insecurities about his relationship with his father (like he said to Nanhi, he didn't know what a good father was, that's why couldn't be one to Addu). He never takes anything for granted.. like Megha's unconditional love/trust. He always tries to understand everyone (which is really frustrating!!)

I also think when Mohan accepts his faults, he accepts them like it's his fault, not like human beings make mistakes line of thought but MB is imperfect. I think that's his personality.

I do think CVs modeled Mohan after some tv serial Bahu with his unconditional love and occasional anger. Like he is suppose to accept all the scorn and go back when it's time forgetting everything. I like Mohan because he had the it factor, he had a strong personality but wasn't like most leads with arrogance .. I think he is different from most leads out there.