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Posted: 13 years ago
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Long post but, truely an awsome post !!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hello Four Square.

I agree with what ever you have written about others, but I completely disagree with your opinion about Mohan and Addu.


Sorry to say, You are totally wrong about Mohan. I think you should watch the show from the beginning to understand him better.😕

Mohan is the most wonderful and charming characters of the show. 🤗HE is the most rarest GEM and cannot be found easily.😍 Megha is one lucky lady to have him. She knows that very well, that's why, she fell in love with him (yes,not accepting it consciously). You should watch that scene in dhaaba where she regretfully says that she didn't understand him properly.

Mohan may be careless, clumsy, silly at times, but he is that way only with other matters, and all these qualities are opined when you meet this guy for the first time, but when you get along with him, when he opens up to you, you will understand him better🤗. If this wasn't the case, Megha wouldn't have made friendship with him and wouldn't have gone too far of being a fake wife and spend a night with him. You should observe, He is childlike, but not childish, innocent but not idiot, funny but not silly, innocent but not dumb and adorable&cute with his near and dear ones, becoz, he is very pure at heart and want to be free of all suffocatingly sophisticated behavior and mannerisms. We all are like him, we will be open and behave freely with our near and dear ones, becoz, the near and dear know you very well. You have observed or not I don't know, he behaves so maturely and responsibly with Nanhi but with the way she can understand him, he talk sense with that kid, He gives advice to her and also makes sure she understand the world better.😃

He cares and respects Megha so much, if not he wouldn't have helped her a thousand times. You probably haven't watched the earlier episodes, He observes and understands Megha's every expression and her pains and feels and thinks about them.

Mohan is, as a matter of fact, sensitive, mature, responsible, sensible, and is capable of giving a secure life for his loved ones,😍 he is very well aware of Megha's position and situation she is facing. You should watch the scene where he talks about this with his mom after rashmi's engagement.

Mohan's maturity and dedication towards his work can be seen in his office and all the staff respect him for his mannerisms and not for all that you have mentioned.

Mohan's behaviour with addu, is not shown well, becoz, he cannot get along with kids. there are many who don't know how to handle kids, that doesn't mean they will not forever, they will learn by experience. Mohan is a bachelor, what do you expect from a bachelor, there are bachelors who are fit for nothing but even they lead a decent life happily married. Life's experiences teaches everything.

I will write about Addu here itself, as I am tired, addu may not be aware of the murder of his dad, but he knows that his dad is being blamed for no reason and he hates those who talk bad about his dad. this happened with Mohan agreed, But when Mohan solved the case, and the Vyaases were praising him, no one took a little time to tell addu that how Mohan has made everything good for his dad and so on... this would've have made Mohan, a hero in that kid's eyes. Addu is not aware of the current happenings, but no one in the house bothered to tell him, not even Megha, Nanhi or jiji.


Now a days, Mohan's behaviour is shown as childish, foolish... Well, The main reason is the new CV's are spoiling his character, and he is not aware of what is happening around him as he was in hospital. Guru is also living with same MUs. There are few MUs which he is unaware and is flying high in the seventh heaven thinking about the marriage proposal. Nanhi's words confirmed him about his MUs. Who tried to clarify his MUs??? first of all, he doesn't even know he is living with big MUs. His mom, Jiji, Megha no one talked to him. papaji created some MUs and left. No one talked to him personally, no one visited him in the hospital, jiji would've come, jiji would've talked to Megha about this marriage, Mohan's mom never discussed about the insurance papers with Mohan... nothing happened. So, we have to see how the new CVs will still screw up our adorable Mohan Bhatnagar.

Comparing Mohan to Manav is a bad idea, Manav is elder and widower and he is completely different from Mohan. Mohan should be compared to some one like of his age and who is a bachelor.
😆

I have so much in my mind about Mohan to write, but am too exhausted to write, but we true fans of Mohan know him very well and that's satisfying... Its not just Mohan's adorableness, cuteness and his dialogues have attracted many girls to him, but also for his good nature and matured attitude towards everything. There are many who can write so much about Mohan, I have written just a drop of water of the whole wide ocean called Mohan Bhatnagar... Love Mohan to Death.😍😍

All you Mohan ki dewaanis, gopis, meeras, radhas, rukminis...
😆 common support me.🤗

Edited by mohan-sun-na - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#13
Mohan is not immature...he is a smart, straight forward, no nonsense guy. He believes in what he does and knows very well what he wants, his love for Megha is not love at first sight and dint happen overnight. He took time in uderstanding his feelings gradually and accepting them, knowing very well that he has to love not 1 but 3 people (Megha and her kids) and he does love her kids, especially Nanhi and as for Addu, he has made an effort to strike friendship with him. Mohan very well knows, how difficult it is in the society for a widow to get married and that is the reason he stood up for her, when Rashmi's mom said that Megha and her kids need "sahara". He immediately made it clear that she is his sahara and it is he, who has fallen in love with her.
The beauty of Mohan's love is that he loves Megha, for what she is, a strong woman, a loving mother, dedicated DIL and committed wife, to sum up a beautiful woman and for him it does not matter, what the world thinks, as he is ready to face it anyway.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Bravo four_square...BANG ON with your analysis!
I completely and truly with each and every word, actually every alphabet that has been typed out in this post...I have been quite distressed lately observing the huge number of Bashing posts that have originated coz of the developments in the last 2 weeks, particularly this week's episodes.

Even though I have to admit that the pace, feel and flavour of the show is definitely not the same as was the case originally (let me add that I have only started watching and following NBT in the last 3 weeks, since when I have managed to go back and get myself updated on the complete story), BUT as u pointed out, this track, if properly handled, should prove to be actually pivotal and important in moving this program forward in a logical n realistic way (i personally did not mind the Rashmi and Amar's mystery solving case that much, although i do agree they were dealt with in a relatively immature, abrupt fashion, but no complaints)! considering th emind boggling pace with which they have been dealing witht he issues int he last few weeks, I am praying and hoping that the creatives don't fall into the same trap and pace this very important issue and phase of the program logically and delicately. Really hoping that after today's outburst, people will start softening their stance towards Megha and atleast start understanding her turmoil!

I have been meaning to come up with a similar post since last night, I just came back from work and read this post and was so relieved to have seen this here! FINALLY, not alll hope is lost! I admire you for the amount of effort and work you have put into bringing this whole article together, it's actually funny and freaky when i realised how similarly we both thought...whilst i was reading your post, i cud anticipate what was coming ahead already as it seems like we both were exactly on the same page!

Good job, looking forward to your future analysis!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Meera, phulwa: who is saying Mohan is immature... it's his behaviour with Addu... which is problematic... why he always try to annoy him when he knows that Addu doesn't like to be called piddi... he should stop calling hima that... it's like aa bel mujhe maar...😆 He's deliberately becoming child-like in dealing with Addu.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: mohan-sun-na

Hello Four Square.

I agree with what ever you have written about others, but I completely disagree with your opinion about Mohan and Addu.


Sorry to say, You are totally wrong about Mohan. I think you should watch the show from the beginning to understand him better.😕

Mohan is the most wonderful and charming characters of the show. 🤗HE is the most rarest GEM and cannot be found easily.😍 Megha is one lucky lady to have him. She knows that very well, that's why, she fell in love with him (yes,not accepting it consciously). You should watch that scene in dhaaba where she regretfully says that she didn't understand him properly.
I completely agree at times Mohan displays amazing maturity.

Mohan may be careless, clumsy, silly at times, but he is that way only with other matters, and all these qualities are opined when you meet this guy for the first time, but when you get along with him, when he opens up to you, you will understand him better🤗. If this wasn't the case, Megha wouldn't have made friendship with him and wouldn't have gone too far of being a fake wife and spend a night with him. You should observe, He is childlike, but not childish, innocent but not idiot, funny but not silly, innocent but not dumb and adorable&cute with his near and dear ones, becoz, he is very pure at heart and want to be free of all suffocatingly sophisticated behavior and mannerisms. We all are like him, we will be open and behave freely with our near and dear ones, becoz, the near and dear know you very well. You have observed or not I don't know, he behaves so maturely and responsibly with Nanhi but with the way she can understand him, he talk sense with that kid, He gives advice to her and also makes sure she understand the world better.😃
I think he treats Nanhi as a mature adult rather than a child & expects that she would understand & won't mind being called chavanni. But with Addu it's a different case. He takes it as an offence whereas for Mohan it's like calling with payar wala naam as we call people at home with their nick names.
He cares and respects Megha so much, if not he wouldn't have helped her a thousand times. You probably haven't watched the earlier episodes, He observes and understands Megha's every expression and her pains and feels and thinks about them.

Mohan is, as a matter of fact, sensitive, mature, responsible, sensible, and is capable of giving a secure life for his loved ones,😍 he is very well aware of Megha's position and situation she is facing. You should watch the scene where he talks about this with his mom after rashmi's engagement.

Mohan's maturity and dedication towards his work can be seen in his office and all the staff respect him for his mannerisms and not for all that you have mentioned.

Mohan's behaviour with addu, is not shown well, becoz, he cannot get along with kids. there are many who don't know how to handle kids, that doesn't mean they will not forever, they will learn by experience. Mohan is a bachelor, what do you expect from a bachelor, there are bachelors who are fit for nothing but even they lead a decent life happily married. Life's experiences teaches everything.
As somebody already pointed out that Manav is a psychologist... he can beat even Megha in handling kids😆 So I'm not doubting Mohan's capabilities it's just his deliberate behaviour to offend Addu.
I will write about Addu here itself, as I am tired, addu may not be aware of the murder of his dad, but he knows that his dad is being blamed for no reason and he hates those who talk bad about his dad. this happened with Mohan agreed, But when Mohan solved the case, and the Vyaases were praising him, no one took a little time to tell addu that how Mohan has made everything good for his dad and so on... this would've have made Mohan, a hero in that kid's eyes. Addu is not aware of the current happenings, but no one in the house bothered to tell him, not even Megha, Nanhi or jiji.


Now a days, Mohan's behaviour is shown as childish, foolish... Well, The main reason is the new CV's are spoiling his character, and he is not aware of what is happening around him as he was in hospital. Guru is also living with same MUs. There are few MUs which he is unaware and is flying high in the seventh heaven thinking about the marriage proposal. Nanhi's words confirmed him about his MUs. Who tried to clarify his MUs??? first of all, he doesn't even know he is living with big MUs. His mom, Jiji, Megha no one talked to him. papaji created some MUs and left. No one talked to him personally, no one visited him in the hospital, jiji would've come, jiji would've talked to Megha about this marriage, Mohan's mom never discussed about the insurance papers with Mohan... nothing happened. So, we have to see how the new CVs will still screw up our adorable Mohan Bhatnagar.
To some extent you are right. CVs didn't indulged in showing details... that Jiji or Nanhi visited him in hospital. If FIL can visit they could have also visited him... I'm sure Indu couldn't say anything to them in such a situation.

Comparing Mohan to Manav is a bad idea, Manav is elder and widower and he is completely different from Mohan. Mohan should be compared to some one like of his age and who is a bachelor.
😆
True again... but who is trying to compare... it's vyas family who would try & compare Mohan with Manav...

I have so much in my mind about Mohan to write, but am too exhausted to write, but we true fans of Mohan know him very well and that's satisfying... Its not just Mohan's adorableness, cuteness and his dialogues have attracted many girls to him, but also for his good nature and matured attitude towards everything. There are many who can write so much about Mohan, I have written just a drop of water of the whole wide ocean called Mohan Bhatnagar... Love Mohan to Death.😍😍

All you Mohan ki dewaanis, gopis, meeras, radhas, rukminis...
😆 common support me.🤗


My points in Red. 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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four square...excellent and long post...i agree with many of your points and disagree with some as well ..but it is v interesting to see it from different perspectives...what one person doesn't see, another person sees...we need posts like this ..thanks a lot...
it is not necessary that we should all always agree with each other's viewpoint... what is so good is that we are getting to see from different perspectives each and everything...and the pleasure we get from both writing and reading...that is most important...pl keep on writing such long posts...
Edited by sitamma1 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i dont know i should post it here or not but i cant stop myself.sorry if i am hurting anyone but i myself need to clear somepoints.

mohan started his majnugiri only after the day when megha came bare foot running to stop him ,that gave him wrong hopes,before that he has decided that he will never disturb megha with his one sided love,he even cleared that to guru that he will suppress all his feeling because he dont want to loose her friendship.
mohan told those things to manav because he thoght megha has agreed to marry him otherwise he never did that,in dining table he asked megha to seat near him because of his open mindedness,but once papaji told about their culture he respected that,never argued with papaji with that.




you said megha is scared because of mohan's recent antiques that can leave a stigma on her character,but she never thought that when she go no pretending wife of mohan,spend a whole night with him under same roof,she never thought what people of her moholla will think about her when they get to know about it.

she never thought about her image when she stopped him stretching her hands in front of whole moholla,never thoght that she was a widow,a daughter in law,stopping someone like that can be misinterpreted by others?


i used to love megha's character because of her courage to do what she wants.i think she never cared what other will think,she even left her own mom dad because of love,came to a middle class family leaving her rich dad,i dont think when she married amar he was that well established,she married him not to get any financial security but because she loves him.thats megha for me.


i dont have any problem if she dont love mohan,you cant grow love for someone mechanically,but pleas have some respect for the person who has done so much for you and your family,if your son is misbehaving with a guest(not particularly mohan) atleast make him understand that its bad manners.its the same megha who forced addu to say sorry to mohan when he spoiled his bike seat.i cant match this megha to that megha.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Meera - I completely agree with Misty's views..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Well written and very long post. I agree with a lot of part of it.

But can not agree with you on Mohan Bhatnagar as immature, childish, careless guy.

@ mohan -sun - na, agree with wvery word you have said. This is the most adorable character on tv in india so far. But currently cvs of this show are on a mission to make an idiot majnu out of him. Sad.

Mohan an immature guy???
If convincing ones ex-girl friend on the eve of her engagement, when she is almost interested in coming back to him, that it is important to ask herself, ' kabhi socha ki mai tumhe kyon nahi chahiye?'
If asking such questions to dispute her irrational thinking is immature, then he is immature.

He is doing this at a time when he has developed feelings for a widowed mother of two kids, who is for reasons best known or perhaps unknown to herself, is pretending to be his wife on a couple of occassions. He would have easily accepted Rashmi back in life yet he convinces her in such a rational manner while respecting every emotion felt by Rashmi as well as himself. Is that an immature thing to do?

About this allegation that Mohan went to pursue the drug mafia story only to get confession from Megha. Please watch that episode again. He goes because its his job and we were told how he has done such things before. Life of a crime reporter is not simple and clean 8 hours job. It involves looking at the dirtiest and meanest parts of life. Watching them up close and personal and bringing them out in the open so that the bad gets punished. Now that is an immature thing?

Mohan as careless? Oh, he is a man who shared a room at a friend's farmhouse with a woman who was pretending to be his wife in front of those friends. And he did confess that he loves her in the farmhouse earlier. This woman sleeps in front of him and he carefully spreads a blanket over her as he sees her shivering. His body language never made her even little doubtful about if he would make any advances. This is not being careful, not being mature?

Thanks. Got to go in front of the tv to watch todays episode.

No offence on your opinions dear. I agree that he and addu is a big issue.he got to work on. He also has irrationalities. Every one has them. No one can be Mr. Perfect in real sense.

Thanks for your well argued post.

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