Well people r fuming now...Over the Megha, Manav, Renu, Vyas family even Addu also... Reason...Wohi purana...CVs showing their hero is suffering lot of pain--not only from bullet but also from the Megha and tough competition from the new entry...But thing is, this is inevitable and much needed,well obviously according to me...I'm big fan of Mohan Bhattnagar...When they showed lots of pain, tough jobs or humiliations are waiting for him, my heart also feel crying, but when think about it calmly, I think this track will happen to be the most important track for Mohan's life as well as Megha also... How??????
Let me explain...
Consider Mohan Bhattnagar...A happy go lucky personality...Clumpsy, straight forward, daring, cheeky, witty and a ardent follower of heart...Thats surely a passionate as well as heroic dreamy character...Because being a good boy/girl😆, we always have some inner wish to be like that kind of braveheart and maverick character, and that is the sole reason for loving Mohan so much...But tell me GUYS are these characteristics enough to make a girl completely confident about relying on him...Yes due to his colorful nature girls may attract to him but will she able to spend whole life with him????!!!! I think NO...Because in addition
to love, girls also seek some kind of security, dependence and assurance from whom, she is going to spent her whole life with...They r looking for some kind of maturity, responsibility, ability to meet the life challenges before uniting their life with that person...Because girls r much more intelligent and mature compare to a boy and they don't think by heart only but also by brain...Well it's my belief...
Now tell me GUYs how much heroic or romantic or maverick he would be, does Mohan show this kind maturity or responsibility which clearly shows that he is capable of taking the responsibility of a family...And the case here is much more complicated than a normal Man-woman love story and marriage...Here he loves a widow with two kids...Loving her is one thing...But marrying her or to spend entire life with her is completly different thing
and it needs much more maturity,responsibility, flexibility and a good understanding...But does Mohan able to show all these before Megha??????? No...not a single one...Rather whatever he did till now, is enough to reflect the opposite things...He is random, clumsy, chaotic...Doesn't follow any rules and make it's own...Discipline is like a extra-terrestrial things to him...His everthing is dependent on GURU in daily life...Except doing his job that is also in messy manner, he does nothing or more precisely don't know or don't want to do anything...Forget about other important things one must do for leaving,Mohan doesn't even know to tie his shoe (though learn recently:)lol)...Even his own mother consider him as nothing but another kid and so do megha also...We saw several times she consider him like addu...So how can Mohan expect to marry some one who is a widow of one of the most perfect man (as shown by CV) in world...Being a mother Megha has to think about her child first and she is doing that exactly...She thinks it rightly that how deeply Mohan can love her and her kids, he is not in a position to take the over weighted responsibility of marriying a widow and then to face the consequences of that...She truly understands that very nature of Mohan make him to indulge in a fight, a never ending and onesided fight with society, his family and the whole world which eventually devastat him, his life and parallaly Megha and her kid's life also...So to save Mohan and herself also she decided to marry someone else to pacify Mohan, may be not now, but after some time...Because time is the biggest medicine...
Initially for her child (and also for her Amar-prem) she has decided not marry again even if she is mere 28 and her whole life is still there...But the various events again make her feel love again...kise pata she might accept it also eventually if she got time to analyze and mental support from Mohan...But what she saw instead...She suddenly saw Mohan behaving like MAD, a teen age pagal deewana and did such antiques which everytime bring more pain,
disturbance and anxity in Megha's life...For his every doing Megha has to hear ugly blame, curse,taunt and rant from both Mohan's family(Indu) and Her family(Renu,MIL,sanjay)...Those who r ranting her for Mohan's pain, can ever understand how much humiliation and pain Megha has been passing through...And in this hypocrit society,a man can do anything but all the blame is always put on a woman and if she is a widow tab to koi baat hi nahi...For any kind of slip or deviation in man's character, every one blindly raise their fingers to her...We saw it from Indu's behavior...For everything in Monu's life she blames Megha...
need... How can megha agreed to marry some one who doesn't even bother to know or enquire her mental situation...Forget about enquiring, it's Mohan's repetative drastic acts which bring Megha to some extreme end, make her lost her all brain, make her adament to get out of this situation and this eventually lead her to take such hasty decession to remarry, not Mohan, but some one else, because by this time she got sure that Mohan may love her endlessly but can't have the ablity to accept her and then to face the society and other odd...Mohan has lot to go to accuire that capability...
Now at this context there is the entry of Manav...a sober, gentle and quite GUY, just 180 degree opposite to Mohan...He cleanness freak...But except that have all the qualities a mature person should have...Now people r fuming that CVs bring this character just as a contender for Megha and to humiliate Mohan and show him down...But GUYs, that's not true...May be those humiliation to Mohan r taking place during this track, but I think those r nothing but a by product, the original importance are much deeper...This character manav is much needed to bring Mohan out of his dreamland and show Mohan where he is standing actually...He only thinks about how to success his love without thinking exactly about whom he loves, thinking about her condition...
People were laughing that Mr. NRI comes to know that megha is disturbed by seeing her once...Ok...if u find it funny or illogical, then u should also raised ur eyebrrows when jiji or papaji or even nanhi come to know when she is in some dilemma or disturbance, just seeing her face...More over he is psychriatist...Get a hints of human behavior just by seeing them is a very primary step of their job...I have a relative who is a psychriatist and believe me some times I feel ki he can read the mind also...
Rather he is busy doing some childish acts like saying nanhi to tell her mother that she is looking beautiful, or bahre mohaale me try to travell in same auto or office mein giving card to Megha!!!!!!! He doesn't have sense ki those act can create how much problem for a woman specially a widow before society...And people will consider megha responsible for this, not Mohan...We all see the reflection of how samaj think about a widow through Indu's antiques... Mohan thought everything is funny and actually one can't expect more deepness than this from Mohan's character...Because he never learn to take things seriously unless getting some kinda shock...We see it his change of behavior when he found his mistake about amar's case or after that slap...But those were temporary and he takes no time to get back to his original nature...He even forget where and when to speak what!!!!! tues day the way he almost going to say manav about Megha that "ye mera..."Now can't u GUYS understand how much shamefull it is for a widow when someone suddenly comes from road and try to show her as her lover...How much humiliating...It is like puting black spot on her character...Everytime with his bakwash acts he make Megha scared,insecure and anxious...
Someone tell that ki in last day's epi Megha looked irritating after seeing Mohan...What else we can expect from her, haa???? Everytime Mohan comes before her,he brings problems, embarassment,humiliation for Megha...she remain scared all the time by thinking "what Mohan wiil do this time"????? Day after day this fear, insecurities converted to irritation... Natural...Why should she bear all odds for some others behooda works?????
entry , he spilled the beans... This small kids have very strong feeling about their like and dislike...Once they start to like or dislike someone or something it's very difficult to change...Consider the case of Nanhi...Whatever happened...whatever...She has been always there for her spiderman...No one can alter her choice, not even Manav...If it is understandable then why not the case of Addu????? Not looking for Addu's loopholes, let's concentrate Mohan childish nature...He never thinks about to be friendly with addu rather carry on his so called "bachchagiri" to tease him more...The way he comes up with nanhi, has he ever tried to do the same thing with Addu, ever tried to repair his disturbed relationship with addu, by thinking that ki after marrying megha he will also be a inseparable part of his life?????He wants to marry Megha...He is friendly with nanhi very much...Now after marriage surely there will be a biasness while treating the kids...Addu surely feel dejected, ignored...
Then...what will happen????? Does Mohan ever think about this kind of things ever????? I don't think so...Because he is treating life like a bed of roses where he and Megha will create heaven of love , aur baki saab ko maro goli...But he forget that ki rose has trone also and those who remain unware of that throne, he/she surely get blooded...Jab nanhi ne bataya ki without the consent of Kids Mega's marriage will never happen, and then Mohan feel like "potaoing" addu woh bhi temporary basis...And u called Megha a selfish!!!!!!
O.k this r not the bashing season of Mohan, rather I want to point out some of his weak points which coming out as the biggest obstacle before his love life...
So I must say this a very much needed track for Mohan's metamorphosis and will be very interesting to watch, after watching a no of crap track like Rashmi wala track or amar vyas case solving track, those were the most immaturely done track according to me...
U guys may be dejected, heart broken, painfull seeing Mohan's condition during this track and so was I while watching last day's epi...But then think it is needed...He need a competition or rather a big push in the form of competition with Manav which will expose his "khamiya" before himself...Yes he will be heart broken, he will be wounded, blooded during this process, but also accuire some nice characteristics which r very much needed to execute life and grabing those valuable properties a new complete Mohan Bhattnagar will raise his head,bounce back and assure his love to be completely depend on him...
I don't know whether CVs think about this way or not about this track, but I want to believe they r and I believe this track is going to be very much interesting to watch from Mohan's perspective...
what's wrong with Megha's action???? We and Mohan both have to understand after a long dillema if Megha agreed to remarry, that is also because of her kids security which she told in precap and what she untold is, it's for Mohan's sake because it is already proven that he can't take the responsibility to marry a widow with two kids...To Megha this marriage is not like a normal marriage, where she can romance with her hubby after marriage or live in a dreamland...No...certainly not...Rather this marriage is one kind of act or compromise for securing good future for her kids and partially for herself also...She told Mohan
rightly, that impulsive and random GUY like Mohan who went to get shot to fullfil his childish need forgetting his near and dear, does it reflect any maturity or ability to take responsibility of marrying a wodow... Megha already suffer from this kind of tragedy, see the darkest phase of life due to that tragedy, then how can she let some one to enter her life whose antiques can bring such tragedy again in her life, anytime... U may ask how can she forget everything Mohan has done for him????? No she doesn't forget anything...that's why she is trying to bring him back in the hard ground of reality, decided to move away from his life by
remarriage, though she never need that but do it to secure Mohan's life...Because she knows if she still there, Mohan will repeat his behooda activities again and again and craete problems for himself, her and for entire world...U can bash her and CVs for a mere reason that they r hurting Mohan, but I must salute them as they choose such track to give Mohan a reality check and also to learn him the way to move in life and take resposibility...
Now if somebody think that this a post is meant for supporting Manav over Mohan then i strongly oppose...No...It's Certainly not...Even in my last day of life, I will believe Mohan is the most beautiful character I have ever met in my lifetime...But even a gold has some impurity, similarly it's not possible that Mohan has all the good qulities...No one has it...U, me aur hum...no one...But we learn through various events, experience in life...Some of them may be sweet and some of them may be bitter...Same is happening with Mohan...He already got some sweet experience...Now it's time to pass through some bitter and who said this bitter experience may bring the most sweet experience for him...But to taste that one has to capable and exactly that is in the process...So, GUYS don't get dejected or dihearted
so early over Mohan's condition...I believe this will be some kinda "Ashirbaad" (not the official sponsor of NBT but the bliss) in his life...Now after some crap in Rashmiwala or after epis, I think we r going to see a very interesting epi where we can see some kind of metamorphosis in various character specially Mohan and Megha...And we know finally Mohan get his Megha in his life...Now if this happen so easily, in a straight forward manner, I think it won't be a treat to watch...Woh pyar hi ka jis me darar and obstacle na ho...Let's wait some time to get beautiful romance between Meghan...
Waise bhi sabre ka fall hamesha meetha hi hota hai...😉😉
Advocate Anjali Awasthi
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