Mohan Vs Amar : who is a better ? - Page 2

Originally posted by: priyu_friend

lekin ha kabhi, kabhi mujhe doubt atha hein, i dont know if its right to ask this question here , but amar aur megha ki love marriage thi kya??? megha ke mayeka ka ghar kaha hain?????

Originally posted by: Sunna_Deewani

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Yes it was love marriage and they went against the family and married. Thats why megha's parents never accepted her back.

I very well agree that Mohan is not the xerox copy of Amar, in every way he is exactly opposite of Amar and how will Megha fall for him. I could very well feel his pain when he said that no one can take Amar's place. He knows how Mr Perfect he was. But still he was the only one who without asking anything in return from Megha stood beside her in tough times especially in Pratik's case. Deep down in her heart she was literally shaken after this incident and he was the only person who morally supported her and made her strong enough to face Pratik again the very next day. He made sure that she doesn't get into any sort of trouble and was always there to help her. Take the office revocation, sending Megha home early when Nahi requested him without her knowledge. She still doesn't know about all these help which was given to her.

He mentions it to Megha in that chai dabba that one thing he has learnt from Mr Bhatnagar that if you are right then you need not be scared from anyone and that is I could say the base of Mohan for whatever he does. He goes on that foundation which his father has instilled in him. And that is what Megha also likes about him otherwise voh pura trust nahi karti Mohan per. You could very well see in the scene were she is facing Pratik the very next day and how Mohan supports her without saying any word but just by the assurance that he is there with her through eye expression.

Now if you compare Megha and Mohan they are exactly opposite. Megha is well balanced and Mohan pura opposite and I think that is were entry of Megha comes to balance his life. And as Mohan we all know he is a child at heart, he will instill that kid behaviour in Megha which I think she forgot to be after Amar's death. We can very well see how Mohan brings that part of hers in the Maha episode were they were stuck in the elevator. And the way he makes her laugh, does Megha consciously knows about it, I think so no.

He is total frank kind of guy and that is what a character of a true reporter should be, that's why he choose that profession. Sab kuch dil se karta hai and those people are very rare.

And to make a place in Megha's heart, he has already started making as if I remember correctly Megha herself mentioned that after Amar the person whom she trust completely is only Mohan. You can already see the person whom she used to hate, now has jumped upto that level. I would say it's a BIG leap. She tries to avoid him either by being rude or by giving family reasons but with no result and he somehow happens to come back in her life. It would be very hard for her to stay away from him. And upar se hum sab toh jante hi hai ki Mohan jiske peche pada samjo pad hi gaya. 😉

Yes but yeh ek hai ki, this is my view though that I don't think she will also accept him before marrying him, so shaadi toh zarori hoga as then he would be her husband and to start loving him then wont be wrong. In one of the scenes again if I remember correctly she tells Jiji bua that Mohan loving her is wrong then howcome she will start loving him(eventhough slowly she has already started without her knowledge), seems a bit unrealistic. And voh CV's kaise karenge voh dekhate hai.

whitepearl: Mohan is like a musk which gives fragrance to whoever he touches but they do not value his worth.

Very well said

Originally posted by: baby68

Very nice post!

I kept on thinking on the same lines yesterday. I have just started watching this show not too long ago but I have loved it since then.😊

Amar Vyas was a very good person and Megha is still in love with him which is very understandable.👏

However, Mohan has gone out of his way to help Megha. Her in-laws don't like him. FIL is ready to jump at him any minute and Mohan cannot breathe in his presence. Yet, he has digested all the insults, keeping Megha in mind and is going forward with his investigations .It reminds me of a line from Ajay Devgun in "Hum Dil De chuke sanam" where he tells Aishwarya Rai that love is all about giving. That is what Mohan is doing right now.

And I really hope Megha can reciprocate one day. I hope it happens soon.😊

Originally posted by: --khushi--

very nice post whitepearl ... i dont think they both r same...

Amar & Mohan r 2 diff personalities... and u defined it really well...

but one thing that i dont understand is be it similar or opposite where does it make any sense for love somebody???? as u said abt Amar "Very calm, controlled and dignified person in college and office; A well mannered, well dressed, soft spoken; Very caring, loving and giving in his every relationship. Well ! In all a happy person and yes, clean shaven too. " i agree on it but was this the reason for megha's love for him?? i mean she loves him coz he was soft spoken,well dressed, proud of the family etc ? then i think its not love, all she wanted was a man whom she introduce in society yeah meet him he is the handsome man of my life...

i know Megha is not like this...so for her m sure Amar's looks, clean shave, soft spoken weren't the parameters to love him... all that matters was emotions they share & care for each other... stand by each other no matter what ever the circumstances r... these things make a relation strong & ofcourse their palce in our heart...

now comes to Mohan what we r comparing that " An unorganised, vaguely dressed person with unkempt hair, loose shoestrings, hundreds of unwanted things carelessly stuffed in the pocket of jeans, have a mobile with a funny n weird ringtone, and not to forget a beard. "

these things doesn't matter to love someone... m sure if Megha can see all this with her 2 eyes than she is not blind to see what Mohan has done for her... he is always there for her... he cares for her & he respects her, protects her & have the guts to stand by her when even her own relatives were against her... doesn't all his qualities make him a lovable person???

now u said why Megha fall for Mohan...

the point is why not??? Mohan has all the qualities that u need to love a person but if u want a show piece to flaunt then u need a person to love who is a well mannered, well dressed, soft spoken; clean shaven too.

Megha don't have any reason to not to love such a caring person... as far as it concrened Mohan wants Amar's space in her heart, i dont think so...when he said nobody ever take Amar's place in her life, he meant even he dont want to take this place... why we think, to love somebody we need to forget our first love...Megha has the beautiful memories of Amar that she can't forget . re-marrying doesn't mean somebody asking u to forget ur first love...its just that if life is giving u second chnace accept it with open arms...

Originally posted by: Dee_76

I very well agree that Mohan is not the xerox copy of Amar, in every way he is exactly opposite of Amar and how will Megha fall for him. I could very well feel his pain when he said that no one can take Amar's place. He knows how Mr Perfect he was. But still he was the only one who without asking anything in return from Megha stood beside her in tough times especially in Pratik's case. Deep down in her heart she was literally shaken after this incident and he was the only person who morally supported her and made her strong enough to face Pratik again the very next day. He made sure that she doesn't get into any sort of trouble and was always there to help her. Take the office revocation, sending Megha home early when Nahi requested him without her knowledge. She still doesn't know about all these help which was given to her.

Thanks Dee...🤗.I am loving every word U have written...you revoke all the beautiful moments.

He mentions it to Megha in that chai dabba that one thing he has learnt from Mr Bhatnagar that if you are right then you need not be scared from anyone and that is I could say the base of Mohan for whatever he does. He goes on that foundation which his father has instilled in him. And that is what Megha also likes about him otherwise voh pura trust nahi karti Mohan per. You could very well see in the scene were she is facing Pratik the very next day and how Mohan supports her without saying any word but just by the assurance that he is there with her through eye expression.

Now if you compare Megha and Mohan they are exactly opposite. Megha is well balanced and Mohan pura opposite and I think that is were entry of Megha comes to balance his life. And as Mohan we all know he is a child at heart, he will instill that kid behaviour in Megha which I think she forgot to be after Amar's death. We can very well see how Mohan brings that part of hers in the Maha episode were they were stuck in the elevator. And the way he makes her laugh, does Megha consciously knows about it, I think so no.

You nailed it Dee!...comparing Megha and Mohan...the opposites ...and complimentary to each other.

He is total frank kind of guy and that is what a character of a true reporter should be, that's why he choose that profession. Sab kuch dil se karta hai and those people are very rare.

And to make a place in Megha's heart, he has already started making as if I remember correctly Megha herself mentioned that after Amar the person whom she trust completely is only Mohan. You can already see the person whom she used to hate, now has jumped upto that level. I would say it's a BIG leap. She tries to avoid him either by being rude or by giving family reasons but with no result and he somehow happens to come back in her life. It would be very hard for her to stay away from him. And upar se hum sab toh jante hi hai ki Mohan jiske peche pada samjo pad hi gaya. 😉

Bilkul saki kaha hai Boss!!! Mohan se peecha chudana aasaan nahin.😆

Yes but yeh ek hai ki, this is my view though that I don't think she will also accept him before marrying him, so shaadi toh zarori hoga as then he would be her husband and to start loving him then wont be wrong. In one of the scenes again if I remember correctly she tells Jiji bua that Mohan loving her is wrong then howcome she will start loving him(eventhough slowly she has already started without her knowledge), seems a bit unrealistic. And voh CV's kaise karenge voh dekhate hai.

Sau baat ki ek baat kahi Dee...Megha would not so willingly give in. yehi toh main kehna chahti thi ...Mohan is only a supporting pillar for Megha not the center pillar of her life. aur Mohan ko apni centre place banani hai Megha ki life main. Then only Mohan will get the due answer to his love.

whitepearl: Mohan is like a musk which gives fragrance to whoever he touches but they do not value his worth.

Very well said

Thanks once again dear.

Originally posted by: whitepearl

Thanks Khushi🤗 for such a wonderful reply. you have raise so many doubts and asked explanation..it shows you have tried to understand what I am trying to convey.

Now about the looks...I completely agree that looks does mot matter at all when you love somebody truly. My point was not that. I do not give much importance to looks of a person myself. I do not know if U r married but let me tell you that if you stayed with a person for a very long time, in case of Megha it is 11 long years, even if the person is not so good looking you kind of fell in love with the face of the person because that face represents the personality you are in love with. Ask any sane person who has been married to an ordinary looking person, if they would like to change their partner's face..through plastic surgery and get a beautiful face instead. The Answer would be 'NO'. So I am not telling that Megha loves Amar because of his looks. Let for example you have parents who are not very smart, ordinary homely people...would you like to change them for a better option? would you accept anybody else as your parent..No. But you can give the same respect and love to your in laws or to anyother person if that person's behaviour or character forces you to do that. In the same way Megha has been breathing Amar for 11 yrs of her life. Whenever she things of love, a husband , a son, a brother or a good man, its Amar's image that props in her mind not Mohan's. Amar is an ideal for her. I only spoke about exterior to draw an equivalent difference of personalities of Mohan and Amar.

no dear m not married but i understand wht u r saying... for anybody who love, looks doesn't matter... now giving choice for better option... here no choice of option...the scenario is diff here Amar is dead... and Mohan loves a woman, it doesn't matter to him if she is a widow...

to change him for better option scenario only come if Amar is still alive & mohan giving her proposal ok this n that things make me better than Amar & now would u like to love me??? i may sound stupid but i think theres no que. of change somebody for better choice...

Now about Mohan, just because Mohan has been kind, helpful, concern and loves her, Megha should reciprocate his love. How can a woman be in love with two men at the same time?...

i too agree she dont have to reciprocate if she dont love him... rahi baat loving 2 men at the same time, then Amar is past though his love is not so Megha wont need to forget his memroeis ever... but she is actually forcing her self to not to love Mohan coz she loves Amar... for me what i feel is she too started feeling for him but dont want to accept(may be m wrong, its just my view)... she dont need to love somebody coz he does but she dont need to forcfully ignore her feelings either... actually the reason of all this confusion is we dont know Megha's feelings yet...its still a question mark for us... we all r just asuming what we think(like she loves Amar only, or she loves him but dont want to accept etc.)

She can love Mohan as a friend but not as a lover. She knows Mohan loves her...and she somewhat sympathises with her may be she respects his feelings..but she has to forgo her past to enter into the future. She can't be in love with Amar and Mohan at the same time...and right now she is still in love with Mohan. She craves for him, lament for her lost love, wish Amar is with her...How can she reciprocate Mohan;s love now? She trust him, rely on him, feel secure when he is around. There is definately a bond but not all bond are to be named as Love...

i really liked this line... i dont know what to say abt it...as i think all realtions can't be named as frnds either... i understand Mohan do everything for her coz he loves her but why do Megha crossed her limits to help him? isn't it she too somewhere reciprocating???

when one side she says Amar used to bhagao rats for her & on the same time she is asking him to do as Amar used to do... isn't she is already started giving him Amar's place in her life?

things for her will only change when she will start loving Mohan as she loved Amar. We cannot forget our first love, we can keep it alive for the rest of our lifeo,if a person dies. And that's what Megha is intended to do she wants to live with Amar's love for her life.

loving as frnd..somehow m not agree here as even frnds do have limitations... that i personally think Mohan-Megha are comfertable with each other as more than frnds(like allowing Mohan to help her to find Nanhi. then pretik fiasco. she chose to hide it from her family whom she consider everything but on the same time Mohan was with her...than Meghan posing as couple...and being with Mohan on terrace at 01:00am mid night... wasn't it something more than u do for just a frnd?) all such incident matter more when u belongs to a orthodox middle class family... so somewhere i fell the comfort they share is more than a frnd wala comfort... all incidents make me think she is just dont want to accept her feelings...

And what about Mohan? Does an adorable person like Mohan deserves an half-hearted love? He is neither a replacement for Amar nor he is a mere replica for Amar. Will it not reduce Mohan's importance as a person. Does he not deserve complete, undivided love of Megha?...

ofcourse not... once when Megah will realise she too loves him, m sure she will completely dedicate towards her love... and for this she dont need to forget Amar she just need to understand Amar was past & Mohan is present & future...

I love the part you said about remarriage...yes every person has a right to have a second chance if a person is willing to. But right now Megha is neither willing nor ready...That is my purpose to draw a comparison between Amar and Mohan...this new love that's knocking is so different than what she had...and it would take a lot of time for Megha to accept a different perspective in her life. ...she would eventually , I wish fall in love with Mohan but not so soon...not so eaisily...she is resisting strongly.

thats exactly what story is all abt... how love blossom even in Autumn... Megha is sooo strongly dont want to fall in love but will she really??? in future tarck all we gonna see is how Megha too falls for Mohan... she realise her love for Mohan & that ppl get second chance too... its not always that love happens once only...

hope m not pakaoing u with my rants...actually i myself a very confused person😆

i hardly stick to one thing, wanna say something else & end up messing all

my thoughts 😆