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Posted: 13 years ago
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It may not be a very relevant post right now amidst Nanhi's kidnapping and Amar's facts coming out but I was just pondering over this thought for quite sometime and yesterday when I saw Megha reliving those loving moments, I was forced to rethink about possibility of Megha falling for Mohan. It is not that I don't want it to happen, I am dying to see them together but yesterday I felt Mohan was a complete outsider in that house. Not only I, but I felt Mohan also felt he is a complete outsider not only in their house but also in Megha's life. He saw Amar's shadow everywhere. The place his heart is dying to capture is already possessed. It is not empty! I guess that is why he said ' Nobody can take Amar's place. No matter how much he wants to take Magha's pain upon himself, he just cannot because the woman he madly loves is still emotionally and mentally somebody's wife. Megha has not beenable to detach herself from Amar. If not the person himself but she is still married to his memories. And Mohan will never be able to find his place in Megha's life until and unless Megha herself makes room for him. But will Megha ever be able to detach himself from the memories of the one whom she loved and worshiped...and that too, for a person who is exact opposite to her late husband's persona? Amar Viyas, the reason of pride for Viyas family, was an ideal son, brother, husband and father. Very calm, controlled and dignified person in college and office; A well mannered, well dressed, soft spoken; Very caring, loving and giving in his every relationship. Well ! In all a happy person and yes, clean shaven too. How can one not be madly in love with such a lovable person even after his tragic death? Does Mohan with all his happy go lucky image, can ever be able to outshine such wonderful memories. Mohan is a complete contrast of Amar. He is a rebellion, a go getter, a lion that cannot be tamed for his traits; he speaks his mind and heart no matter what others think.( All always been misunderstood, be it by his father, mother or Megha and her family ); He is rigid when it comes to his principles. ( He did not leave his country even for his love ) ; Never compromise with his professionalism even if he has to pay a personal price for it.( He wanted to help Megha and her family but didn't' because all the evidences were against Amar's case), A very blunt man with a ultra honest tongue that offends more than pretends. An unorganised, vaguely dressed person with unkempt hair, loose shoestrings, hundreds of unwanted things carelessly stuffed in the pocket of jeans, have a mobile with a funny n weird ringtone, and not to forget a beard. Am I not forgetting many others too! I wonder how such a man would ever be able to cast a niche for himself in Megha's heart as a lover! Megha find a good friend and well wisher in Mohan but will she find a soul mate in him too. Will she ever be able to see the golden heard hidden beneath his not so appealing countenance. Will she be able to see true difference that gives Mohan an edge over Amar beside these perceivable things? He has remarkable patience to wait for other person to understand him. He patiently waited for Megha's approval for him. He patiently waited for Papaji's approval for permission. He knows exactly how to deal with person's emotion though he does not show it. In spite of he being misunderstood all the time his sense of handling people at situations is amazing, be it Adu, Nanhi, Renu, Papaji, his boss, Guru, Sanjay or tanu. If he has patience to wait, he also has endurance to let people be not so respectful towards him. He is beyond the greed of good self image. Life has not been very favourable to Mohan but he stick to his positive and happy outlook. Mohan is fearless when it comes to seek justice. He can go up to any extend to unveil corruption and lie. And that what probably gives him an edge over Amar. That's something Amar could never do. Amar knew about the corruption and the lives in danger because of it but he probably could not muster the courage to open his mouth in time. May be out of fear for his family or some other reason but he lost the opportunity to be bold and lost his life too. On the other hand Mohan is leaving no stone unturned to get justice for Amar and many lost lives. Will Megha ever understand this? Will she ever be able to value Mohan for what others never did apart Guru? Will she ever fall for her ever- giving, never -asking in- return friend? (The only thing he ask for is '"yaar chai la"). Will a day come when she step out of the shadow of a man who loved her with his life to accept the love of a man who love her with his soul...his whole being for the eternity?

Sorry friend for this long post...but these are just a few thoughts. I do not know if it is right to compare the two but I felt this when I saw expressions on Mohan's when papaji said - " Sabko aisa beta nahin milta' for Amar. I wanted to tell Mohan," Tumare papa shayad jindagi bhar kastoori doondhate rahe par kastoori toh hamesha se unke paas hi thi, unka beta mohan , par woh pehchaan nahin paaye."...

Mohan is like a musk which gives fragrance to whoever he touches but they do not value his worth.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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we cant compare b/w Mohan & Amar... they both are diffrent in different view...every NBtian know abt that...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Loved reading ur post as always may be Megha will some day realize what Amar did was for his own family but what Mohan is doing is for others.Amar was having responsbilities being a son , a father and a husband what Mohan is doing is out of any boundation .Its not a must for him to prove Amar innocent yet he is leaving no stone unturned that shows he being dressed up as a carefree guy but he does care for people around him.I think Mohan and Amar are 2 persons in different attires and looks but have same feelings, emotions and values.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: manupriya77

Loved reading ur post as always may be Megha will some day realize what Amar did was for his own family but what Mohan is doing is for others.Amar was having responsbilities being a son , a father and a husband what Mohan is doing is out of any boundation .Its not a must for him to prove Amar innocent yet he is leaving no stone unturned that shows he being dressed up as a carefree guy but he does care for people around him.I think Mohan and Amar are 2 persons in different attires and looks but have same feelings, emotions and values.


Thanks Manu. U said what I wanted to convey. Mohan is not doing it for Megha or chavanni...he is doing it for many lives died including Amar in that mishap. I love this
I think Mohan and Amar are 2 persons in different attires and looks but have same feelings, emotions and values. ....God has uniquely created everybody and has given HIS basic characteristic in each human. How well a person built on it depend on person to person but a good person always adhere to such characteristics.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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really u felt dat dey r any different??...i mean beyond dere exterior appearances?...

dey both seem equally principled...a penchant for justice...a way with kids & even people...dere approaches r different...but dey cant b clones...dont dey both love/crave/appreciate a settled family life...dont dey both r sooo capable of showering der loved ones with utmost care & affection & understanding...

i feel dey r two very similar cores...just d packaging is different...

& u feel megha hasnt made space for him?...i thnk she already has...dey behave completely in a hubby-wife ways...reading each oders needs...being dere for each oder...going beyond all dere limits 2 support each oder...dey feel proud in each oders achievements & rebuking for dere faults...dey fight...make up...& den sooo intutively look out for each oder...

in d bus...mohan keeping a check on megha wen she is discomforted wth d cold...& megha looking towards him wen dat copassenger was irritating...even wen nanhi's call came & megha wasnt sure of d number...she looked up at mohan for approval & den gave him d phone soo naturally to comfort nanhi...

dey already share a life...dere respnsibilities...dere joys & sorrows...d word love is just so small to all dat meghan share...mohan has his own space...& megha just needs d closure at amar's case...2 finally embrace dis truth...d strength 2 look back fondly at ur past only comes wen d past is no longer sodded wth grief...wen d sense of justice & peace finally prevails...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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nice post whitepearl
amar is a very good person, as we all know it,
but mohan is also great person, though he's quite opposite to amar, but i value his principles and patience. he's fearless, and has a kind heart.

i remember amar once said , "agar iss duniya me apni achchai ke sath kadam badaoge tho tum achche logo se hi miloge",
and mohan says , "iss duniya mein hum apni achchai ke sath hi kadam badana chahiye, bure log milenge, zaroor milenge lekin kahi na kahi koi achcha insan bhi mil jayega"

some things are there bcoz i like mohan more

i dont think its anything wrong to compare both, but ya ab tho amar zinda nahi hein , and its going to be very difficult for megha to forget such a lovable person, even after 2 years from his death she still remembers each and everything about amar

lekin ha kabhi, kabhi mujhe doubt atha hein, i dont know if its right to ask this question here , but amar aur megha ki love marriage thi kya??? megha ke mayeka ka ghar kaha hain?????
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Posted: 13 years ago
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that was nice post and once thing i have always pondered upon not only with respect to this show but real life as well!!!!

Does a widow or anybody remarrying totally forget theri first love and does it in any way mean the first love is not true!!!!

Or is they still have the happy memories of first love the next one is not true

For example a woman or wife truly loves her husband and is ready to give herself and anything up for him and soon a child comes in their lives and undoubtedly both love the kid but does because of it mean they love each other any less or that they don't love the kid as they must love each other

I feel its the same case here Megha loved and Amar and was his wife and nothing can change that ...you cannot make her hate Amar or forget him altogether it was just a totally different phase of her life!!!

her different world!!!!

and yes now she will fall for Mohan!!!! and yes the fact that Mohan is complete opposite of Amar will strengthen the fact that she is not hanging to any memory of Amar and falling for him but loves Mohan for what he is not because he is shadow of Amar!!!!

Which is the reason this show is unique and totally superb...

I am love with this show...hope i get to spent more time here and throw of my addiction for another show !!!!


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sen_madhuban

really u felt dat dey r any different??...i mean beyond dere exterior appearances?...


dey both seem equally principled...a penchant for justice...a way with kids & even people...dere approaches r different...but dey cant b clones...dont dey both love/crave/appreciate a settled family life...dont dey both r sooo capable of showering der loved ones with utmost care & affection & understanding...


i feel dey r two very similar cores...just d packaging is different...


Ya I agree that ...They both are very similar but I an searching for something beyond similarity. There has to be something that is uniquely Mohan's . If Megha falls for Mohan because Mohan is exactly like Amar or that he reminds him of Amar then what about Mohan's identity. He cannot be used or accepted as a stepney as a son or a husband or a father.

& u feel megha hasnt made space for him?...i thnk she already has...dey behave completely in a hubby-wife ways...reading each oders needs...being dere for each oder...going beyond all dere limits 2 support each oder...dey feel proud in each oders achievements & rebuking for dere faults...dey fight...make up...& den sooo intutively look out for each oder...

Yes I agree to every word that You said...but is is not how we behave with our very true or best friend?...Is all this not just an aspect of husband as a friend?...where is the love that one seeks as a partner? Megha does feel for Mohan but only as a friend. Look at the way she was admring Amar's towel, the photo, the bedsheet...Amar is all over her...where is Mohan?...He is still outside the window of her heart just peeping inside wanting for an invitation which he is not getting so her walked away.

in d bus...mohan keeping a check on megha wen she is discomforted wth d cold...& megha looking towards him wen dat copassenger was irritating...even wen nanhi's call came & megha wasnt sure of d number...she looked up at mohan for approval & den gave him d phone soo naturally to comfort nanhi...


dey already share a life...dere respnsibilities...dere joys & sorrows...d word love is just so small to all dat meghan share...mohan has his own space...& megha just needs d closure at amar's case...2 finally embrace dis truth...d strength 2 look back fondly at ur past only comes wen d past is no longer sodded wth grief...wen d sense of justice & peace finally prevails...

I do want things to be as you said ...I wish every word u said to be exactly the way it is...but I still don't see Megha in love with Mohan...what I see a lonely wife still mourning for her lost husband. May be I'll get some revelation if I watch it more carefully.


Thanks Madhu for such an insightful discussion...It helped me understand megha's character more deeply.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: uniquebluerose

that was nice post and once thing i have always pondered upon not only with respect to this show but real life as well!!!!

Does a widow or anybody remarrying totally forget theri first love and does it in any way mean the first love is not true!!!!


Or is they still have the happy memories of first love the next one is not true

That is a very deep question Bluerose. I do not know how to reply but one thing I m sure of is if you have a first love and you have truly deeply loved that person, you can never in your life forget it. It becomes a part of your personality and when that part of your personality goes away, a part of you goes with him/her leaving avoid in your life. Now this void may or may not gets another occupant I do not know but time is a big healer they say and someday if God blesses you, a true occupant may fill that void.

For example a woman or wife truly loves her husband and is ready to give herself and anything up for him and soon a child comes in their lives and undoubtedly both love the kid but does because of it mean they love each other any less or that they don't love the kid as they must love each other

I feel its the same case here Megha loved and Amar and was his wife and nothing can change that ...you cannot make her hate Amar or forget him altogether it was just a totally different phase of her life!!!

That's why I said time is a big healer and if God choose Mohan to be the channel for her happiness in life...then nobody can stop it not even Megha herself.

her different world!!!!

and yes now she will fall for Mohan!!!! and yes the fact that Mohan is complete opposite of Amar will strengthen the fact that she is not hanging to any memory of Amar and falling for him but loves Mohan for what he is not because he is shadow of Amar!!!!

Well said dear.👏

Which is the reason this show is unique and totally superb...👍🏼

I am love with this show...hope i get to spent more time here and throw of my addiction for another show !!!!



Thanks Bluerose...for making me have another perspective.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Very nice post!

I kept on thinking on the same lines yesterday. I have just started watching this show not too long ago but I have loved it since then.😊

Amar Vyas was a very good person and Megha is still in love with him which is very understandable.👏

However, Mohan has gone out of his way to help Megha. Her in-laws don't like him. FIL is ready to jump at him any minute and Mohan cannot breathe in his presence. Yet, he has digested all the insults, keeping Megha in mind and is going forward with his investigations .It reminds me of a line from Ajay Devgun in "Hum Dil De chuke sanam" where he tells Aishwarya Rai that love is all about giving. That is what Mohan is doing right now.


And I really hope Megha can reciprocate one day. I hope it happens soon.
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