Can we blame Megha..it happens to all

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Rolzz

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Posted: 13 years ago

I was just thinking about why Megha is oblivious to Creepy's intentions and one thing just struck me, It happened to all of us at some point right? We might have interacted freely with a male friend but someone else pointed out later that his intentions are not good, he is talking shit behind your back...

or it so happens that one day he make a move on you, and you are left dumbstruck thinking "how did I miss the signs?? How dumb was I??"!!! 😡

I know It happened many times with me and my friends...I am sure we all were in that situation at some point!!

Also when someone pointed it out to us , what was our first reaction? ... Denial!!!! Whether the someone was our best friend or sister or boyfriend or MOM 😕. Why? Coz the thought never crossed even in our wildest of dreams that the accusation seem atrocious!!! Or we dont want to admit that our judgement could be wrong!! In the denial process we tend to find blame with the someone no matter how close they are to us!! We blame on Jealousy, bad mouth, hate whatever comes to our mind!

So the same is happening to Megha as well... Even though, we on the other end of the TV can make out his intentions thanks to the camera angles and BG music, Megha on the other end dont have a clue...😉

Keeping all our Love for Mohan ❤️❤️❤️ aside, lets think from Megha's perspective for a minute 😊

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VJ-LNMDJ

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Posted: 13 years ago

Its true, this happens , especially when one has a clear heart , we fail to imagine that the other person may be thinking such horrible things ...Megha would never ever stoop to such things , so she cant imagine...

But I do hope she see it soon now and this doesnt go on long, I cant bear to see her being taken advantage of by that creepo !

VJ

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Rolzz

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: VJ-LNMDJ
Its true, this happens , especially when one has a clear heart , we fail to imagine that the other person may be thinking such horrible things ...Megha would never ever stoop to such things , so she cant imagine...

But I do hope she see it soon now and this doesnt go on long, I cant bear to see her being taken advantage of by that creepo !

VJ

True Vj...even i cant bear to see that Creepy looking at Megha... Megha is only for Mohan to admire 😃

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-RadhaRani-

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Posted: 13 years ago

mohan ne to ek hi baar mein pratik ko pakad liya.but megha or kitne chance chahiye megha ko?

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Khushi

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Posted: 13 years ago

@ Rolzz :- well said dear...i cant deny that it never happened in my life but the point is i might be un-aware 1 or 2 time...but i have full confidence that i cant be so dumb to understand after 4-5 incidents... first he held his hand on her shoulder , ok not a big deal then everytime calling her in his cabbin... even ppl in the office were talking kitna kaam karenge... then offering lunch & then dropping home...dear in all incidents Mohan was aware and failed pertik's plan...but not even a single time Megha had a doubt on pertik just coz he is her frnds hubby... its ok she can't doubt on him, but my prob is the character they showed Megah as, how can she be agree on everything so casually... atleast when it happened to drop her home & taking pics , these 2 reasons r fare enough to say no... and ok if i still wont doubt him & somebody tell me abt him then i might get shocked & dont believe on him but why should i blame him for something he hasn't done...

and u said "the thought never crossed even in our wildest of dreams that the accusation seem atrocious!!! Or we dont want to admit that our judgement could be wrong!! In the denial process we tend to find blame with the someone no matter how close they are to us!! We blame on Jealousy, bad mouth, hate whatever comes to our mind!"

i think this happen when we love the person badly and dont want to listen a single wrong thing abt him...and this is not the case for Megha... she has reason to dont believe Mohan but she doesn't have single reason to blame him

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fatim30

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Posted: 13 years ago

👍🏼 rolz ..i never doubted my friends hubby and will never ..but its true that we betrayed by ones whom we trusted most..so i think megha behaviour is justified ...and yes she will come to know about prateek, thoda wait karo😆

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Rolzz

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Posted: 13 years ago

mohan ne to ek hi baar mein pratik ko pakad liya.but megha or kitne chance chahiye megha ko? [/QUOTE

Men understand men the best 😃

Also Mohan's antenna is highly tunned towards Megha...so he is more aware of her surroundings that she herself 😉

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SStephy

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Posted: 13 years ago

Of course Megha is not the one to be blamed...these things happen and not everyone are so great at predicting what the other person's intentions are. If any one is to be blamed, it is Prateik...

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-RadhaRani-

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Posted: 13 years ago

dear megha taking now to much time she look like out of her character ...she is very strong intelligent brave woman. how she can be so fool in this matter.

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Rolzz

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Posted: 13 years ago

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@Khushi: All your arguments are justified..still I cant blame Megha completely also 😕

Agreed, the taking pic was over the top and should have rang bell..but then again this is her first job, she may not be aware of what is the appropriate limit for Boss..

In my first job our sr male colleagues used call us as "sweety", "honey" etc... I was very appalled to see that initially (and even got into some embarassing situations ) but I realized eventually that "appropriate behaviour" is a work place is different.

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