Dayita Desai (dayita) - Condolences! - Page 5

Hello Dear Friends.....

As some of you already know, I am Badi.. mostly known as Himesh Reshammiya's international fan and have been an active member of the HR fan club right here at the music corner.

I am saddend by my dear sister Dayita's departure. I had the opportunity of communicating with her during her final hours. She did not depart defeated, she departed as a brave human being. We have a lot to learn from her life and also her death. As you can understand I am not mentally stable to make a long post but I want to let you know that I have spoken to her mother in India and she has confirmed that she decided to engage in a wishful death. This was her wish and her family knew about it. Her cousin Vipool has also confirmed this. I know her best friend Sudha made an announcement of this before.

She loved you all and was attached to all of you very much. She was very responsible and wanted to finish all her responsiblities before her departure. And she did. I am very honoured to have known her through this forum. She showed us all how to live in the moment. I know for some of you this is a total surprise but she did not let any of you know because she did not want any of you to feel bad.

For AR fan club members, she tried to take the fan club to 150 pages but she could not make it. Friends, as I do not know much about AR but lets please try to take the club to 150 pages.. at least, this is the best we could do. Please support me on this.

For HR fan club members, she did bid good bye -please check the final post on part 3 - she said good night to all. That was her way of saying good bye to you all.

As you can imagine her family is trying their best to cope with this tragedy. Her best friend Sudha is also trying her best. So am I.... I am sure with god's grace we all will come through this in time... At this time we need each others love and support...

Friends and loved ones... live each day to the fullest... live your very best life..have fun.. be nice and kind to your self and others... always treat others with kindness... show them your love and tell people you love them if you do.. dont hide your feelings... Dont be stingy to give out or show out your love.. Be careful when you say negative things about any one.. for we never know what people are going through at any given time....I know everybody comes to this forum for love and friendship... I have found some great friends here... and thank you all for your love and support...

Lets all take a moment of silence to show our respect to our great friend and sister Dayita... may her soul rest in peace... May she be happy where ever she is... She lived her very best life and lived every moment to its fullest.... She is a a true hero....She is my hero... She will be a guiding star to all of us...Dayita.. I love you sweet sister... You will continue to remain in my heart and I know you are already in a better place....I can feel it... May you be happy sweetie...

Now, lets also take a moment to pray for her family...For her dear mother, father, brother, bahbi and cousins, friends and other loved ones... this is a very difficult time for all of them... lets pray them peace and courage... lets be sensitive to their feelings for they are in pain...

Thank you all for your understanding... may you all be at peace... love you all....

Badi.......

Originally posted by: badibanga

Hello Dear Friends.....

As some of you already know, I am Badi.. mostly known as Himesh Reshammiya's international fan and have been an active member of the HR fan club right here at the music corner.

I am saddend by my dear sister Dayita's departure. I had the opportunity of communicating with her during her final hours. She did not depart defeated, she departed as a brave human being. We have a lot to learn from her life and also her death. As you can understand I am not mentally stable to make a long post but I want to let you know that I have spoken to her mother in India and she has confirmed that she decided to engage in a wishful death. This was her wish and her family knew about it. Her cousin Vipool has also confirmed this. I know her best friend Sudha made an announcement of this before.

She loved you all and was attached to all of you very much. She was very responsible and wanted to finish all her responsiblities before her departure. And she did. I am very honoured to have known her through this forum. She showed us all how to live in the moment. I know for some of you this is a total surprise but she did not let any of you know because she did not want any of you to feel bad.

For AR fan club members, she tried to take the fan club to 150 pages but she could not make it. Friends, as I do not know much about AR but lets please try to take the club to 150 pages.. at least, this is the best we could do. Please support me on this.

For HR fan club members, she did bid good bye -please check the final post on part 3 - she said good night to all. That was her way of saying good bye to you all.

As you can imagine her family is trying their best to cope with this tragedy. Her best friend Sudha is also trying her best. So am I.... I am sure with god's grace we all will come through this in time... At this time we need each others love and support...

Friends and loved ones... live each day to the fullest... live your very best life..have fun.. be nice and kind to your self and others... always treat others with kindness... show them your love and tell people you love them if you do.. dont hide your feelings... Dont be stingy to give out or show out your love.. Be careful when you say negative things about any one.. for we never know what people are going through at any given time....I know everybody comes to this forum for love and friendship... I have found some great friends here... and thank you all for your love and support...

Lets all take a moment of silence to show our respect to our great friend and sister Dayita... may her soul rest in peace... May she be happy where ever she is... She lived her very best life and lived every moment to its fullest.... She is a a true hero....She is my hero... She will be a guiding star to all of us...Dayita.. I love you sweet sister... You will continue to remain in my heart and I know you are already in a better place....I can feel it... May you be happy sweetie...

Now, lets also take a moment to pray for her family...For her dear mother, father, brother, bahbi and cousins, friends and other loved ones... this is a very difficult time for all of them... lets pray them peace and courage... lets be sensitive to their feelings for they are in pain...

Thank you all for your understanding... may you all be at peace... love you all....

Badi.......

Very well said Badi!!!!😭

This is to let you know further she did not forget about any of you... she mentioned to me that she loved you all. She was thinking about you all and did everything possible to make her departure easy for you all.

I am copying her final pm and there is a beautiful poem for you all and some pictures and siggies too.

Sent: 05 November 2006 at 11:24am | IP Logged

Di..Plz reply..

http://s85.photobucket.com/albums/k43/dayita_desai/

All siggies of the album is 4 u all

When you would miss me plz read these lines...

Sach Hai Ke Dil To Dukha Hai
Hamne Magar Socha Hai
Dil Ko Hai Gham Kyon
Aankh Hai Nam Kyon
Hona Hi Tha Jo Hua Hai
Us Baat Ko Jaane Bhi Do
Jiska Nishaan Kal Ho Naa Ho
Har Pal Yahan Je Bhar Jiyo
Jo Hai Sama Kal Ho Naa Ho

This is for u all..U Jem, Ash,Celina, Dhruti...

Love you di

Bye

Dayita

Originally posted by: badibanga

This is to let you know further she did not forget about any of you... she mentioned to me that she loved you all. She was thinking about you all and did everything possible to make her departure easy for you all.

I am copying her final pm and there is a beautiful poem for you all and some pictures and siggies too.

Sent: 05 November 2006 at 11:24am | IP Logged

Di..Plz reply..

http://s85.photobucket.com/albums/k43/dayita_desai/

All siggies of the album is 4 u all

When you would miss me plz read these lines...

Sach Hai Ke Dil To Dukha Hai
Hamne Magar Socha Hai
Dil Ko Hai Gham Kyon
Aankh Hai Nam Kyon
Hona Hi Tha Jo Hua Hai
Us Baat Ko Jaane Bhi Do
Jiska Nishaan Kal Ho Naa Ho
Har Pal Yahan Je Bhar Jiyo
Jo Hai Sama Kal Ho Naa Ho

This is for u all..U Jem, Ash,Celina, Dhruti...

Love you di

Bye

Dayita

yes badi di this will stay close to my heart forever... i feel like she is here with all of us😊 beautiful... heart-touching post di...RIP my sweet dayita di😭

Thanks guys for giving us more information about Dayita...hope her family is has the strength to cope with this big loss

Thanks Badi .. that is absolutely true ... love everyone as there would be no tomorrow !

God bless her soul and her family ! Amen ..

But that song .. 😭 😭 -- Love you Dayi !

Such a shocking news. May God rest her soul in peace and give strength to her family and friends to cope with such a tragedy.

may god give peace to her soul

Hona hi tha jo hua hai??Good
Us baat ko jane bhi do
Jiska ka nishan kal ho na ho??
Is it really that easy Dayi??

RIP Dayi.......Miss u....