SaJan - He Gave Her Those Dreams .... - Page 4

Originally posted by: aarthi.ramani

@ BOLD can i take the liberty to say I AGREE 🤣

Yes dia gunji and her dreams has aways been different and so has been Sam and thats what makes Sajan different - class apart ... it so shows their inner self .. even if u notice Sam voiced the same views of the marriage like her expect it was a indian wedding version... with few close friends and relatives, not much of halla gulla and simple yet perfect one .. hence he was all for it not just because she wants it but thats how they wanted it ... hence he says marriage at temple or chruch doesnt matter ... its what she wants .. because he knows from where she is coming from..

okies did i make sense dia .. ??

hehe ... you made perfect sense, Aaru ... 🤗

@bold ... exactly ... everyone saw of course that Mayank supported Gunjan ... but that was the first thing I noticed ... Samrat telling Gunjan that there won't be too many people at their wedding, just friends and family ... he knows her so well, knows exactly what she would want ... and he wants the same thing ... because that's the way they have always been - very, very private ... and she has never been flamboyant, even though he is ... and he loves her this way ... simplicity is her hallmark, always has been ...

and the second bit ... I simply loved him when he said ... mandir ho ya church, it's Chashmish's happiness which matters the most to me ... 😍😍😍 ... what Gunjan wants is THE most important thing for him ... everything else is secondary ... in fact of no importance ... her dreams are his too ... and that's why, although he was initially shocked at the thought, agreeing to it came almost instantly ... nothing else matters to him but her happiness ... especially for the biggest day of their lives ...

Originally posted by: princessyashika

woww guys beautiful views...though earlier when charmz told on the forum that sajan r gonna have a church wedding i was a bit confused if that wud b perfect 4 sg ornot but now with yesterday's epi n all ur posts i know that its d best thing for sg...a beautiful n serene church marriage.
lately i have also realized that the whole concept of a church wedding is also so in synchrony with the whole sg relationship...sg have always been a very private couple...who always spoke heart to heart...w/o the insecurity of what the other will think or perceive abt their flaws or shortcomings.The best example being the recent sg scene wherein sam confesses to gunjan-his most special frnd, that how much nervous he is abt the wedding...that made him scared if again he wasnt going into his shell of running away from a marital commitment n if his love for gunjan was diminishing, to which she made him realize that he can doubt his own love for once but never can she😳 so again here i think NO other guy cud have dared to confess this to his wud b wife...but sam he knew there is no solution to any of his nervousness or confusuion accept his chahsmish so he said it straight to her. Thats the way sajan connect....directly...heart to heart...w/o any ifs n conditions.N thus this so beautifully justifies the concept of the church wedding....coz in church wedding unlike the hindu marrage all the vows are taken by the bride n groom themselves...I am not saying that i dont like the vows taking prt of a hindu marriage but just that the way vows r taken in a christian wedding is perfectly suited for sg. The bride n the groom look into each other's eyes....n commit a relationship of a lyftime n beyond... thats why in my view, the christian vows taking ceremony...where both the bride n groom r free to confess n commit anything to each other straight from their heart n soul...whatever they feel...how they look upto their future life with each other...the basic values they will always try to pump in their relationship......all this IS what just perfectly suits sg's unique telepathy.

yashi, beautifully written .... 👏

@red - i think this was what we were missing the most in season two ... the loss of that communication between them, that was what made Sajan so different and unique .. though the struggle to get back that communication in itself also made for a wonderful journey ... THE best thing about their relationship is that they are best friends ... and I am so very glad and grateful that the CV's remembered this and brought it back just in time for the end ...

and yes, the vows really seems so suited for Sajan ... they have done this time and again ... the promises they made on the first date, when she asked him to always be her best friend, the promises they made to each other on 1st Jan - a date we all remember 😳 ... again the promises they made during the proposal last Thursday ... they have taken their vows time and again ... now they will take them one final time, never to break ...

can't wait for the wedding now!