why Gunjan does not believe Mayank - Page 10

Originally posted by: wait

but mayank has seen nupur with his own eyes, he is right when he said ke mein akela parh gaya hoon, he has nobody's support.
gunjan still has support of other people, her love is alive and with her.

Who does she have???? She's been pushing away her love for 3 years due to that one accident, and you say she's not alone? Which "other" people are you talking about? She never even got the chance to vent her grief on Nupur's death, she locked it all up inside her to portray herself as strong in front of Mayank, and you say she's not alone?

Originally posted by: wait

but mayank has seen nupur with his own eyes, he is right when he said ke mein akela parh gaya hoon, he has nobody's support.
gunjan still has support of other people, her love is alive and with her.

Support of who? Everyone is rebuking her for not believing that Nupur could be alive.

@DiyaS: Well said. WHY would Nupur be away for so long? GuNur were inseperable and for these past 3 years Gunjan has to spend everyday without the two most important people in her life. Its A LOT to take in. She can't just believe it as if these past 3 years meant nothing.

Originally posted by: Shivani1arti

dear did u see the episode where nups b'day is celebrated???? there gunjan was crying & mayank who's supporting her....it's mayank who supported her...he never told to break-up with sam....he later even wanted to patch-up things btw sajan....now gunji may not b a bad sis coz she left sam...but gunji has now got the support of sam..see whenever she likes she hug him & whenever she wants scold him & then apologize...frankly i don't understand sg now nor i care but u surely don't understand mayu..he was a reserved kinda guy..who just loved a single girl in life..who taught him to live.love& laugh...he has lost his wife...whom he married after almost loosing her......anyways when mayu was playing cupid btw sg-did any one bothered about him..how is is living without any love in his life????

Waah. You remember that one instance when Mayank supported Gunjan, and you have no memory of the three years when Gunjan was the only support Mayank had. Mayank loved a single girl in his life, but that girl was also Gunjan's single sister.

Originally posted by: ght_sajan

i agree that gunjan can get really pessimistic at times....but one can't label her a bad sis & sis in law...........she used to be meek previously but has certainly changed over the years.....she is no longer the meek gunjan we knew she has become quite assertive now.......if you have followed season 2 closely you'll know that she always lent her support to mayank....why else do you think mayank is so hell bent on convincing gunjan''...he needs his friend & sis in law by his side to get back the love of his life............

I havent been following Season 2............until last week..............all i read was updates.......and from what i get, though she has become assertive...........the negativity is still there, it refuses to go away...........

She was not lending support, she needed it herself........... and moreover........... i think as Mayank said yday, smetimes u just listen to ur heart.......


But i m not saying she is wrong, thats her character.............. she will not believe in positive things until proven........... like she cudnt believe that Samrat loves her...................

All i m saying is being a counsellor, and handling ppl..........she must knw gentle ways.............

Originally posted by: DiyaS

I think apart from the fact that Gunjan is scared to raise her hopes in case they might be shattered, is another very simple and very HUGE reason ... she CANNOT believe that her sister, who was her best friend and mother figure rolled into one, could actually spend three years away from her without letting her know that she is alive ... she has spent those three years in utter hell, has cut herself off from Samrat, tried to hate him ... just because she felt it would be an insult and a betrayal of the memory of her sister .... she has changed herself ... in her own words, tried to become more like Nupur

so she finds it completely unbelievable that Nupur would be able to live for three whole years without letting her know that she is alive ...

that is something even I find very difficult to comprehend, and I think the cv's will have a lot of explaining to do on this one ... to justify Nupur's behaviour on this ...

Because Mayank and Nupur's relationship has always been turbulent, but Gunur's relationship has been shown be ideal ... even if Nupur felt that Mayank, for whatever reason, had abandoned her, could she really feel the same about Gunjan? On what basis? And that is what Gunjan cannot believe, that her sister could ever, ever be alive and not be in touch with her ... so the only explanation is that she's NOT alive ... that girl Mayank is seeing, is not Nupur ... and that is also why the anger is surfacing ... how can anyone believe that Nupur could be alive if she hasn't come back to them ...

This is from Gunjan's pov ... as we don't know what Nuour's pov is yet .. and why she took this step ... and aren't we all waiting to find out the reason that Nupur didn't return? Aren't we all convinced there HAS to be a reason?!
Hope the cv's have formulated a good one for this ... cos this is the most important link of this track ...

fantastic diya...........you said it all........now i guess all the queries regarding gunjan's behavior will be answered.........the people who think rationally will understand for sure...can't say much about the rest

for ONCE can't we look at this situation frm Gunjans POV??
she just doesn't want to HOPE...coz she doesn't hav the strength in herself to hope and then get those hopes shattered...coz shes alone...despite hav Mayank.....shes alone...coz mayank probably wudn't understand her!! and besides whenever she has hoped they've always been shattered!! like during rose day...she thot that sam was gonna propose to her but he didn't...that time though she still had some1 to share her pain and sorrow with....who does she hav this time?? just look at all sides of this track...and u'll get why Gunjan doesn't believe Mayank!!

I agree totally Diya. It's impossible to believe that her sister stayed away from her for 3 years. How can she believe that she's not thought of meeting them even once?

@NidzCole_ArTi: Its her own insecurity of losing Nupur again and it doesn't matter WHO tells her that she maybe alive, her mind is not willing to believe it. Why should Gunjan HAVE to support Mayank as if she is the secondary person? Why should she have to falsely support him when in reality she has known Nupur much longer than anyone else. Why should she have to act as a pillar for Mayank? She was doing that for these past 3 years but now she is suddenly wrong for feeling that fear of losing her sister again. Why isn't anyone supporting her now?

There's a reason why they say doctors should not treat their own family ... I think the same applies to counsellors. You can advise other people, with your own experiences, you may even be much more understanding ... but when it comes to oneself and one's own loved ones, then it's very difficult to maintain any objectivity.

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

@NidzCole_ArTi: Its her own insecurity of losing Nupur again and it doesn't matter WHO tells her that she maybe alive, her mind is not willing to believe it. Why should Gunjan HAVE to support Mayank as if she is the secondary person? Why should she have to falsely support him when in reality she has known Nupur much longer than anyone else. Why should she have to act as a pillar for Mayank? She was doing that for these past 3 years but now she is suddenly wrong for feeling that fear of losing her sister again. Why isn't anyone supporting her now?

Call me Nidheya.😊
Why is she unwilling to believe it? She has known Nupur for more than Mayank, I agree, and I am not saying she has to act as a pillar for Mayank.
She doesn't even have to support him, all she has to do is trust him, because from what we know of his character, he is not the kind to have illusions with the mind. Out of the blue after 3 years he isn't going to start imagining her.

All she has to do is to believe him and not try to say that he is losing his mental stability.😊