MayUrians plzzzz help me. I need it desparately.

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Prachi

@preitygal99

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Posted: 15 years ago

It' been a month today but still i m not able to cope up the loss of my fav character Nupur from the show.

I thought that its a matter of time n i will b fine within few days. I never ever got so attached to the fictional character. I myself know that being so much emotinally attached to a imaginary character is not good but i cant help myself n cant cheer up no matter i indulge myself in anything.

I m having my holidays n i m not able to njoy them. I was a girl who always liked to socialise n enjoy my holidays. Today is the MayUr confession anniversary n i was going thru my fav old episodes but instead of enjoying them i cried n cried bitterly.

My behaviour has changed in this one month. My parents are damn worried that wat so drastic has happened to me. I cant dare to tell them that i m suffering from Nupur's loss. I m sure if i tell them this they will take me to the counceller. bcoz my attitude has changed so much. I too m aware of my changed behaviour n trying hard to b normal again but all in vain. I just cant focuss on anything I do.

So today i thought y not to take help from my IF friends who may b suffering from the same feeling n surely they may suggest me the ways to cope up the loss.

Guyss plzzz help me. I need ur help desparately.

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ratilover

@ratilover

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: preitygal99
It' been a month today but still i m not able to cope up the loss of my fav character Nupur from the show.

I thought that its a matter of time n i will b fine within few days. I never ever got so attached to the fictional character. I myself know that being so much emotinally attached to a imaginary character is not good but i cant help myself n cant cheer up no matter i indulge myself in anything.

I m having my holidays n i m not able to njoy them. I was a girl who always liked to socialise n enjoy my holidays. Today is the MayUr confession anniversary n i was going thru my fav old episodes but instead of enjoying them i cried n cried bitterly.

My behaviour has changed in this one month. My parents are damn worried that wat so drastic has happened to me. I cant dare to tell them that i m suffering from Nupur's loss. I m sure if i tell them this they will take me to the counceller. bcoz my attitude has changed so much. I too m aware of my changed behaviour n trying hard to b normal again but all in vain. I just cant focuss on anything I do.

So today i thought y not to take help from my IF friends who may b suffering from the same feeling n surely they may suggest me the ways to cope up the loss.

Guyss plzzz help me. I need ur help desparately.

Hun, even I went thru the same thing for more than a week after we found out that Rati was leaving. The best thing to do would be to distance urself from everything to do with Rati / MJHT just for a week. Stop coming to the forum. Stop watching the show. Just do other things read...watch something else on TV. In a week's time u fill feel much calmer. Then u can return to the forum and help us get Rati back.

But for the time being, distance urself so u can bcom ur normal self again and use the time to calm urself down then u can strt seeing things more practically

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syeisha

@Syeisha_Maini

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Posted: 15 years ago

the best way to cope with it is do what I did. Even I cried BITTERLY after Nupur's death. The best is to participate in the MISSION TO GET HER BACK, because each mail or call you make, maked you feel proud, and makes you feel like you are one step closer to getting Rati back on the show. And trust me the fun we make of the Chindi Chors, really eases the pain. So participate in the mission, it will make you feel better that "YOU" are trying to get your favorite character in the show. Send a mail to the CV's expressing your changed attitude, and grief. Message them. Call them. It all makes a difference, and helps you feel better.😉

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Prachi

@preitygal99

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: ratilover

Hun, even I went thru the same thing for more than a week after we found out that Rati was leaving. The best thing to do would be to distance urself from everything to do with Rati / MJHT just for a week. Stop coming to the forum. Stop watching the show. Just do other things read...watch something else on TV. In a week's time u fill feel much calmer. Then u can return to the forum and help us get Rati back.

But for the time being, distance urself so u can bcom ur normal self again and use the time to calm urself down then u can strt seeing things more practically

Yes I do cum to the forum to read the FFs n SSs but not so frequently.

I hav already quitted MJHT after she was shown dead. I hav not seen a single full episode after that. Yes i do stor n see one or two scenes if i see Mayank or Nupur's flashbacks.

But i hav stopped watching it as i used to do it earlier.

Still i cannot find peace for myself.

Thanks for ur help.

I think i will take ur advice i will try to b away from anything related to Rati n MJHT

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Payal-15

@Payal-15

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Posted: 15 years ago

all MN fans are depressed with this fact.......but lets just try to fight for her by sending mails and all........i don't think Myur story has ended.........

Come on!!! your a NUPUR fan .....try your spirit.........Be positive...........She will come back!!!!

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Ridhi.

@Ridhi.

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Posted: 15 years ago

by god i m seeing my reflection in ur words.

i thik the fact y we got more connected to nupur bcoz of ARTI i mean dey made mayur so realistic.

dats y nupurs death was like loosing someone near to u.i never felt dey were fictional,but cvs made me to realise that.

all i can say u is think there r so many ppl who r suffereing from same condition but dey never gave up.

so we will try until we suceed.try to cheer up ur mood by making fun of some losers

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anupama

@anu-radha

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Posted: 15 years ago

pls don't lose your hope dear we all are with you

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sonalkhanna_19

@sonalkhanna_19

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Posted: 15 years ago

I am too going via a similar phase. In order to console myself, i am keeping myself busy by sending n no. of mails to CVs, PH in order to get my Nupur(Rati) back in MJHT. Just join the Mission to get our Rati back, then u will definitely feel relieved and more active.

In order to regenerate urself just start sending mails to the CVs and PH and take a step ahead towards our Rati(Nupur).

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prerna_agrawal

@prerna_agrawal

Voyager

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Posted: 15 years ago

oh dear!!........ well i am also too attached to these fictional characters 'mayur'....... just like u....i 've also not been attached to any other character before........ i know its not easy to forget.....but u know u should try!!....... try watching comedy shows or movies...... stay away from romantic ones....... do try n forget it dear..... otherwise it will affect ur future...... ur career!!!........ in which class r u??