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Originally posted by: talkativetaurus
@ yashika - u misunderstood the 2nd part ... i dont say tht gunjan shud forgive sam so easily. but if a girl who trusts her bf to such an extent to make such commitments shud easily trust her bf for the accident! i fully agree the way u said... they were comitted emotionally n their souls were so connected... such connections are sure pure to even forgive when a mistake like accidents happen. but this is not poss.... thts where my point is.... relationships r not so even pure , there is always a line....
i hope i m making it clear...
i will make it simple like this.
gunjan comitting herself = gunjan forgiving sam
gunjan not forgiving sam = a second thought b4 comiting herself
(equation based on the connectivity of the relationship they have)
here i m not speaking abt sam commiting himself bcos its not sam who has to forgive her!
ok yashika you are telling that one should be allowed to do this things before marriage because they love someone...........sorry i totally disagree...........what about parents..........what about sanskar..........and about boys............sam was that type of guy who can commit such mistake.........boys never care ......he was never shy ...........moreover girls are more protective and you too know that well....................could you commit that mistake without thinking once about your parents...........i cant........actually never..........chahe kitna bhi pyaar ho............marriage ka certificate jaroori hain.............especially for hindu girls............i am not that open minded........neither gunjan was earlier ................Originally posted by: princessyashika
its not like that dear...its not that the love which is pure doesnt have to do it...its that bcoz love is pure it doesnt stop u from being so close.let me ask...why r u guys saying it to be wrong??? just bcoz they were not married right!! but internally and emotionally...they had comitted their souls to one another...and such love doesnt require worldly commitments. and yes she trusted him...but for heaven sake she has lost a sis who was like mother too her...!!! she cant forgive him that easily...bcoz she asked him to drive slow...!! i know it was just destiny but just for one sake if we imagine to be at her place(i never wanted to use this comparison but i think we really need to UNDERSTAND her after this)...lets say that if bcoz of my elder bro who was driving his car very fast..we met with an accident...and my family got badly injured...i was asking him to drive slow...but he didnt listen...wud i forgive him that easily??? and that too if someone loses a loved one forever due 2 such negligence...will forgiving be so easy???
its easy to talk abt logistics when u r not the victim...but just understand her....the girl who loved a guy 2 the extent that she went on trusting him 2 the limit of being so close 2 him...how she wud have been so far from him???? it feels so sad u know..everytime all nupur fans complained that gunjan wasnt a gud sis...she never used 2 understand nupur...and now when she has sacrificed her very reason for survival just bcoz she cant live a happy life with a guy who is someway responsible for the negligence that lead to her sis' death...u guys r blaming the same girl????
this is contradictory!!!
yup i agree...............dear now if you think about the situations..........start blaming others...........its wrong...........sam never did it intentionally............he was not at fault..........this is no way of showing your love for your sis..................every life is precious..........gunjan made sammy to love death...............if he would have died with in three days.............one more life would have been lost.............Originally posted by: me_mohit
awesome post dear!!!!!
yes.....death can't be stopped!!!!In d last 1 yr I lost my Dadu,Dadi and Chachu! We tried a lot....we made it sure dat dey get d best facility...d best treatment in hospital...we spent lakhs for their comfort....but we were not able to stop dem....dey went coz God called em'!!!!D day I lost my Chachu....evry1 was sayin ki ghar ko buri nazar lag gayi hai...1 saal aur 3 log nahi rahe!!!!!I was very much depressed and tensed for my luved ones who were left......I toked to my Dad and he told me-" Beta,Death is in God's hand!For God,world is lyk a computer....d moment he presses 'DELETE' key...d person is gone forever!Many a times it happens dat even after serious acidents ppl survive....it's b'coz God pressed d 'SAVE' key instead of 'DELETE' "Dat was d day i understood d theory of life and death!No 1 can be blamed!!!! Evrything done by God is for d wellness of Human BEings....!!!!!
i dont want to speak about pure love...........cant understand all this fake..........but yup marriage is a beautiful relationship and if love was that pure.why cant people wait.....it wrong for me..........will always be...............you need to care about your parents..........and what about her sis.............did she ever cared about telling all this stuff to nupur..............nupur is the same sister na............for whom she is making sammy life miserable.....................i cant say that the big mistake was not mistake...............i cant debate on this topic...............Originally posted by: princessyashika
i disagree dear...well i think its easy to misunderstand her...first for what happened that night...why only gunji??? if u wanna blame then blame sam as welll!!! isnt it his responsibility too to understand things abt society and all...why only the girl is responsible???most of u being girls saying that shocks me!!! so guys if u think its wrong then blame both sajan and not just gunjan...but in my view there is nothing for which they must be blamed. sometimes things are very much circumstantial...and u cant have a bound on them. that night sam had proposed gunjan...it was a commitment made from his heart and soul.gunji asked him twice...are u doing it on will??and he proved that yes...he really wants 2 marry her.
actually dear u havent caught gunji's charcater in the right way...she was shy...what does this mean????? this means THAT she never lived according to the fake rules of the society.
what do we guys do??? we change ourselves to suit to the outside world...even forget our true selves in order to make our selves "SUITED"...but gunjan she was never that one...she always did what she thought was right. there never used 2 be a girl in excel 2 say no to samrat's frndship...but she said...coz at that time that was right...!!!
so in my view even if she let sam close to her...then it was just coz
she didnt consider it wrong...coz she trusted him to the extent that the fake rules of society didnt bother her.whats disgusting for us was a
moment of purity...of eternity for her. i think this cant be explained in words...coz its just a feel...and its emotion and intention that makes it so pure.
as far as gunjan punishing sam is concerned..then i think she is doing this just coz she loved her di very much...she cant accept a happy life when her di and jiju's life has been shattered.she is punishing herself too. i am not saying sam is at fault but even she is not.
because girls are more protective,.........gunjan was someone from morena whom her parents trusted a lot...........samrat even was not living with his parents and boys care a little about these things................i can blame sammy too....................i never said ki only gunji was responsible ,..............but i think gunji should have stopped samrat..............Originally posted by: me_mohit
i agree wid yashi on dat night thing......y alwayzz gals?????????/
and d accident .......neither sam can be blamed nor any1 else!
surbhi and talkativetaurus gave you awesome answers.............i dont think my interference is required.............and let me clarify talkativetaurus and me are sajan fans more than mayur.........and we never criticised gunjan..............Originally posted by: princessyashika
its not like that dear...its not that the love which is pure doesnt have to do it...its that bcoz love is pure it doesnt stop u from being so close.let me ask...why r u guys saying it to be wrong??? just bcoz they were not married right!! but internally and emotionally...they had comitted their souls to one another...and such love doesnt require worldly commitments. and yes she trusted him...but for heaven sake she has lost a sis who was like mother too her...!!! she cant forgive him that easily...bcoz she asked him to drive slow...!! i know it was just destiny but just for one sake if we imagine to be at her place(i never wanted to use this comparison but i think we really need to UNDERSTAND her after this)...lets say that if bcoz of my elder bro who was driving his car very fast..we met with an accident...and my family got badly injured...i was asking him to drive slow...but he didnt listen...wud i forgive him that easily??? and that too if someone loses a loved one forever due 2 such negligence...will forgiving be so easy???
its easy to talk abt logistics when u r not the victim...but just understand her....the girl who loved a guy 2 the extent that she went on trusting him 2 the limit of being so close 2 him...how she wud have been so far from him???? it feels so sad u know..everytime all nupur fans complained that gunjan wasnt a gud sis...she never used 2 understand nupur...and now when she has sacrificed her very reason for survival just bcoz she cant live a happy life with a guy who is someway responsible for the negligence that lead to her sis' death...u guys r blaming the same girl????
this is contradictory!!!
thanks for agreeing dear..............that means we are quite similar persons............Originally posted by: samratrocks
omg...really touching n sweet..
luved ur post...gues wht?? i too relate to the chaaratcer of gunji...but yes, she has changed a lot.... really a lot
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