Gunjan ----a changed one...... - Page 5

Originally posted by: princessyashika

no dear u r misunderstanding the type of commitment...letting herself close 2 him was a commitment bcoz she trusted him blindly as a guy...u know what i mean...in terms of a girl's
limitations.but this trust is not the same.if today someone comes 2 her and says taht he has misbehaved with ash...she wud never beleive that....that was the trust on him as a girl.but this trust is different...all trusts are not same. the trust i will have on my dad and my friend will be different...so her trust on sam for being close 2 him was different and taht trust still exists...but this trust has broken coz he didnt abide to her advice of driving slow coz of which nupur lost her life.

sorry...........am totally unable to understand your way...........mind not working.........

Originally posted by: surbhi123

ok yashika you are telling that one should be allowed to do this things before marriage because they love someone...........sorry i totally disagree...........what about parents..........what about sanskar..........and about boys............sam was that type of guy who can commit such mistake.........boys never care ......he was never shy ...........moreover girls are more protective and you too know that well....................could you commit that mistake without thinking once about your parents...........i cant........actually never..........chahe kitna bhi pyaar ho............marriage ka certificate jaroori hain.............especially for hindu girls............i am not that open minded........neither gunjan was earlier ................
and dear the accident mainly took place because gunjan was talking.............you cant ever blame sammy dear............you can never..........guinjan was at the most fault...........why the hell she was talking while sammy was driving,............moreover damini tried to explain beautifully that death is not under once control.............gunjan insulted sanu relationship............yup i would have forgive that brother as i well knowing that he would be the most hurt...........the feeling that he was driving would have been killing him more...................i would have supported him..........dear damini has actually faced the situation...........look few pages back..........she knows well how does it feel...........

and moreover how much nupur is criticized as a sister to i well know..........so dont tell that gunjan was not a good sister and all...............there was atime when forum was anti nupur actually............

and contradiction is in the views of the people on this forum..............when pehli baar happened...........than intimacy was not taken lightly..........and now such a big mistake is taken so lightly...........and tell me dear if sam would have died actually as what is he trying right now............what would gunjan have done............the answer is nothing............she would have killed sam...........but ofcourse no one will look at that expect and will be after sam ............

the show faced two totally different aspects .........and damini was just trying elaborating them............

surbhi thnx for ur reply dear but...u r taking it in a wrong way.the first thing i said was..."whatever happened between sajan was CIRCUMSTANTIAL"...such things are never under control...!!!
that was at the spur of the moment.i know what u r saying abt parents and limitations for an indian girl is correct but some relationships are much above this u know.its difference in just pov...thats where the meaning of the word..."SOULMATES" comes into existence.yes for the world she was wrong...i know for anyone except HER she was wrong...even if nupur wud have come to know this she wud have said 2 gunjan that whatever she did was wrong...but for herself she wasnt!!! and here is whats the difference...her love was too above these limitations...what was wrong for world was a just a pure moment for HER 😳.

Originally posted by: Damini2000

surbhi and talkativetaurus gave you awesome answers.............i dont think my interference is required.............and let me clarify talkativetaurus and me are sajan fans more than mayur.........and we never criticised gunjan..............

and surbhi is not that kind of person who will criticize gunjan just for the sake of nupur or anyone else.............she is a mayurian but never ever bashed sajan till i know...............

Thanks for supporting damini..............well till i know yashika know me well........she was not taking about us actually............

Originally posted by: princessyashika

surbhi thnx for ur reply dear but...u r taking it in a wrong way.the first thing i said was..."whatever happened between sajan was CIRCUMSTANTIAL"...such things are never under control...!!!
that was at the spur of the moment.i know what u r saying abt parents and limitations for an indian girl is correct but some relationships are much above this u know.its difference in just pov...thats where the meaning of the word..."SOULMATES" comes into existence.yes for the world she was wrong...i know for anyone except HER she was wrong...even if nupur wud have come to know this she wud have said 2 gunjan that whatever she did was wrong...but for herself she wasnt!!! and here is whats the difference...her love was too above these limitations...what was wrong for world was a just a pure moment for HER 😳.

............if it was right for her............she was not gunjan...........gunjan was the one shown who love her family the most .............yaad hain starting of the show...........pyaar......family se...............or i would say yashi.........i cant understand........small to understand such things........its better for me to stay away..........but my mom too watched and she was like what murder they have done of gunjan..........and i think at least my mother is big enough........she asked me to stop watching such crap........and i respected her pov............i respect your too..but our pov are not same.........😛

I want to leave the intimate part away but want to comment on gunjan in S2...
Firstly I do not like her wardrobe..The dress she is wearing is not worn i day to day life...I mean who wears long skirts everyday. ..not practical..
anyways I think she has really suffered a big loss..nups was like a mother to her...but somehow the part of her blaming Samrat for the accident is not looking right..I think this part is poorly scripted..people are unable to sympathize with her pain ...
Maybe she has locked her feelings ...but still we are unable to see her pain..
Blaming someone for an accident is a very serious thing....I could have still understood if she would have forgiven Samrat and told him to stay away since she cannot forget the incident..but gunjan blaming Samrat is looking odd.... Samrat cannot change this ...if people don't forgive him..he cannot move on...
The scenario shown is not an uncommon one..it has happned in one of our family friends house...but nobody blamed the person driving the car since uncle went into severe depression instead the family focused on getting him out of depression..
By blaming Samrat ,Nupur cannot come back....circumstantially lot of things cannot be changed...but Gunjan is not attempting to understand it

Originally posted by: surbhi123

Thanks for supporting damini..............well till i know yashika know me well........she was not taking about us actually............

thnx for supporting surbhi..damini i now dear...i was not trying to pinpoint u guys...what i meant was that saying that gunjan is at mistake isnt right acc. to me...i am just trying to say that gunjan is doing all this for nupur only.she cant accept a happy life with a guy bcoz of whose negligence
her di died. and gunjan wasnt talkin with sam but was asking him 2 drive slow...and it was she only who saw the truck bcoz of which sam took the turn else the car wud have collided head on with the truck and all of them wud have died.

Hey Damini...

I disagree with some of your points.....

yes gunjan is a counsellor....she is counselling the ones who are in distress or depression because they have lost something that was precious to them in their lives.....

she is on the same boat as them.....she also has lost an important person...that is her sis....she is counselling others....but there is no one to counsel her.....

she listens to all the problems, fears...that the person has...and advice them on how to move on in life....but when it comes to herself.....nobody was there to lessen her pain....or share her grief....and tell her the ways to move on.....right now....she is the one who needs counseling sessions more than Samrat or Ash....she has created a wall around her....where no one can enter......which is dangerous for her.

ok guys we shudnt fight u know...its just bcoz of OUR different povs...we cant change each others...just can explain our views.seriously if even everyone of u will try and convince me that gunjan was wrong...i wont be convinced coz acc. 2 me she wasnt..and same with me...i know i wont be able 2 convince u guys. bcoz u r right in ur own way..so we shudnt fight. i just hope that cvs in future do enough justice to her character from everyone's pov.

Originally posted by: princessyashika

ok guys we shudnt fight u know...its just bcoz of OUR different povs...we cant change each others...just can explain our views.seriously if even everyone of u will try and convince me that gunjan was wrong...i wont be convinced coz acc. 2 me she wasnt..and same with me...i know i wont be able 2 convince u guys. bcoz u r right in ur own way..so we shudnt fight. i just hope that cvs in future do enough justice to her character from everyone's pov.

first of all...........discussing and fighting are two different words.............i dont think there was any fight in my topic............and moreover yup i dint made the post to change someone opnion but to share mine...................so i always respected your pov...........moreover the topic was much much concerned about accident thing more.....................
sorry if i ever hurted someone with my comments.............sometime i really go crazy ......

Originally posted by: surbhi123

............if it was right for her............she was not gunjan...........gunjan was the one shown who love her family the most .............yaad hain starting of the show...........pyaar......family se...............or i would say yashi.........i cant understand........small to understand such things........its better for me to stay away..........but my mom too watched and she was like what murder they have done of gunjan..........and i think at least my mother is big enough........she asked me to stop watching such crap........and i respected her pov............i respect your too..but our pov are not same.........😛

sur we are to sisters actually........i always love the way you reply.............i agree d of pov is the point here................