Gunjan ----a changed one......

i like sajan a lot.............and especially sanaya............i have followed her from her very first show...................

Gunjan was a character who was always near to me...........as i am more or less like gunjan in my real life only...................but i cant no more think of comparing the character with me..............i am too a shy and quite reserved girl like gunjan............was in the starting of the show...........i was more attracted as i liked sanaya already...............and the role was damn close to heart...........but as the story moved on..........gunjan changed............but not actually.............yup she was open with her friends like me..............but not with the whole world.............her nature always was reserved............she used to share her secrets with samrat and her gang only.............gunjan character was not having many shades as a shy girl cant be converted to a open girl so easily..........i know this really well..............but she found a friend .............a soul mate..........who understands her well...............she fall in love with him...............and a sweet bond of love blossomed.............sajan love .........there was a great depth in the relationship.................they never ever fought on little things......................actually they had fought only 2 and 3 times in the season 1 only............they both sacrificed many things for each other.............change themselves to comfort the other............... as it is said one can only change for the one he loves the most.....................

Than this relationship got through a big step which was actually never expected from a girl like gunjan...............a girl like gunjan in real life can never ever dare to spent a night with her love before marriage even...................no one can trust a person to this extent................and if trusted ..than loce means doing such things kya...............cant samrat and gunjan have wait for their marriage...................but as it was a show..........many on the forum tell that gunjan completely trust sam.............which made me think so .................that yup its just a show..................there can be some facts...............but no gunjan was not gunjan anymore.................not for me atleast..................season 2 proved me right.............the way she put the blame of nups death on samrat ....................she was never able to understand samrat.............her dialogue that our love ended with the end of di............was so hurt wrenching..............was sam planning for nups death .............dont sanu share a great relationship..............but no ...........sam was blamed ..............

Even sam needs support..........even he loosed nupsi..........but no...........he was blamed..............


Let me tell you a small story my friend shared with me....................

once there was a crow and a bhavishyawani was done that the pigeon will die on tuesday ..........a cheel was there who took the responsibility that she will not let the crow died...........and someone blessed him that she can see yamraj now.............at mid day cheel saw yamraj coming near to the pigeon.............she immediately took the pigeon in her arms took it miles away in caves and block the gate of the cave........leaving a little space for pigeon to breathe .......and was satisfied that she was able to save the pigeon...........she come back at the place where she saw yamraj .........yamraj was still standing and laughing at cheel...........she asked yamraj that why are you smiling.........i saved pigeon from you ..........you should cry...........the yamraj told her..........that god is great...........when the time of end come..........nobody can save you from death...........i was imagining standing here that how will this pigeon die as i was knowing that a cat will eat it..........but that cat was miles away in the cave..............thanks to you...........that you took the pigeon in that cave..........now the cat can eat it...............the cheel run towards the cave but till the time it reached ...........the pigeon was dead.........................

now tell me guys was it cheel mistake that the pigeon died.............cheel did so much efforts to save him but she was not able to...........she become the main reason of her dead ..........but was she aware............can she be blamed ..........a big no.............so the moral is no on can stop death from coming..........its god's decision..........no one can be blamed.............imagine if that cheel blame herself will it be right............similarly death was not in sam control..........it was written from god or nupsi...........sam was never the reason...........accidents are not in anyone control............what was the meaning of saying we trusted that the car was in sam's control ............really..........till i remember sam was looking back as gunjan was talking to him when the accident happened..................so can she be blamed.........mayank sad sam driving can make him reach................so is he the reason of nupsi death...............no ..............than why sam was blamed by the great mind of gunjan..................and she broked the engagement and what worse she dint did with samrat...........

Well till i saw a episode.............gunjan is shown as a counselor........a counselor is a person who guides and she is guiding a girl ash that she should not blame herself for her parents death..........it was not because of her............and she herself never followed the thing ..........greatest thing....... she is blaming samrat............

Moreover now some majan things are spending..................i know they cant be a couple for sure............but till sajan are concerned............gunjan spoiled everything..................i know gunjan is not god and all..........but it was a very big mistake............sam is the same person whom she trusted so much..........moreover she is counselor..........he should understand all this well.......and she is telling ash the same thing too...........for me gunjan changed.............not a girl anymore whom i used to love................

Even mayank is having a soft corner for sam...........but gunjan,.........she dint even bother to look at the things sam was saying...........he was searching gunjan for supporting her............she is the person responsible for sam's condition.............i can well understand that lost her di but that does not mean that she can blame anyone for it..............

A really awesome post damini...............👏
i loved the story..........😆
yup you are right............death was never under sam's control............
sanu too shared a great relationship..............even sam suffered a loss................
he was treated wrongly.................
even i am reserved...........
if we only want to blame someone..............
than gun and mayu have equal share..................

Originally posted by: surbhi123

A really awesome post damini...............👏
i loved the story..........😆
yup you are right............death was never under sam's control............
sanu too shared a great relationship..............even sam suffered a loss................
he was treated wrongly.................
even i am reserved...........
if we only want to blame someone..............
than gun and mayu have equal share..................

thanks sur....................
thank that i got one comment atleast out of 98 views..............
yup my openion is same as yours...............
and if majan come together..........than to main kahu............
sone pe suhaga...😆😆😆😆😆😆😆
i was not able to compare my self with this gunjan.........
so thought of sharing............
i usually dont come on forum now................

will like you guys to share your views toooooooooooooo........................😛

Hey I feel its about our own set of morals and limitations which we set and at times our elders set for us.

Gunjan a small town girl, deeply rooted to her traditions and family values, as per that I could never expect G to do something like that.

Well love, pure love is no justification in my opinion and she is just 18 and she was intelligent enough to know what would be appropriate, would she able to tell her father what she did.

If I had done this, i would never be able to look into my uncle's eyes and ashamed of crossing my limits.

When we love, we know each other's boundaries and respect them. Here SG had no situation where they were about to lose each other or something like that, thus this event certainly was a major disappointment.

Originally posted by: Senny

Hey I feel its about our own set of morals and limitations which we set and at times our elders set for us.

Gunjan a small town girl, deeply rooted to her traditions and family values, as per that I could never expect G to do something like that.

Well love, pure love is no justification in my opinion and she is just 18 and she was intelligent enough to know what would be appropriate, would she able to tell her father what she did.

If I had done this, i would never be able to look into my uncle's eyes and ashamed of crossing my limits.

When we love, we know each other's boundaries and respect them. Here SG had no situation where they were about to lose each other or something like that, thus this event certainly was a major disappointment.

yup i agree...................totally .........no one on this forum actually can do something like this in real life............it just said its good........but in reality.......we all know the truth............and moreover dont you think this blaming is wrong............is this what love is ?????????????

And that trust is lost somewhere............now gunjan is a girl who has spent night with someone and now want to move on.........move on is damn difficult in such situations.....especially for girl like gunjan..........and she to started blaming samrat............and what not........

yup gunji was 18.........will not like to discuss on that because it will lead to fights only but yup i agree with you totally on this................

Hey Damini,

Well blaming is more to do with the new season and I haven't been watching. But well if your loved one does something wrong, you are bound to be mad and upset but if the love is strong enough it would still stay alive deep down regardless.

Blaming S here seems totally senseless. G blaming him totally and even M early so has been not properly explained and executed. End result is a product and the so called storyline which has been least impressive.

Originally posted by: Senny

Hey Damini,

Well blaming is more to do with the new season and I haven't been watching. But well if your loved one does something wrong, you are bound to be mad and upset but if the love is strong enough it would still stay alive deep down regardless.

Blaming S here seems totally senseless. G blaming him totally and even M early so has been not properly explained and executed. End result is a product and the so called storyline which has been least impressive.

even i am watching less..............i know but what is to do with the love which make you feel to die for three years............i dont want sammy to forgive gunjan..........while he is running for sorry behind gunjan which even is not effecting gunji.....................awesome na.............

i agree.........blaming is senseless............moreover when gunjan loved sam to this extent...........how can she blame him.............for what is she blaming...........if she thinks accidents are because of person.........why is she consoling ash................

awesum pst damini...andf i loved the story the most...
my mom also tells me that death is something even the worlds best doctor cant stop...so balming a person for someones death is the vaguest thing one can do...
i thought gunjan was more rational to relaise that!