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anuverma

@anuverma

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Posted: 15 years ago

#11

Absou rIght .. Gina... I don't think Sam is not at all immature or childish ...nor is he an egotistical person .. His only prlb is that he is head over heels in love with Gunjan.. & due to his childhood scars & the fact he had nearly lost her to death.. he has become very protective & possessive abt her. It's his fear of loosing her which is making him loose control , because for him that means end of living ......

.Also I feel somewhere in his sub - consicious he knows that Neil is a rival.. that's why he is scared because he cannot also understand or is able to express his feelings / fears
I also wrote this in Aahana's post that if it was a woman director , or some ugly old guy .. Sam would not b so hasseled due to the fact that Gunjan was giving him less time....so it proves he has no ego

So don't bother abt the people who are bashing Sam .. they don't understand the character that's all.... or mayb they don't have the sensivity in them to understand a story like Sajan 😉

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@spicyheart

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Posted: 15 years ago

#12

Yep i completely agree with you.....

To samrat......gunjan is his life.....the love he always wanted.....the love he always carved for......that love was given to him by gunjan

he always wanted someone to take care of him......when he acted that everything is fine....but hiding those feelings he felt.....he wanted someone to come.....look in his eyes n say.....tell me the truth i noe something is just not right......he wanted to share everything with a special one

N that special one became his chasmish......gunjan

He almost lost gunjan once......he has felt the pain........now on the very thought of gunjan leaving him forever.....scares him out of his life.....he just cant afford to loose her.....n the last few days when gunjan wasnt with him......his fear for him was coming true.......n afterall this issue watever he has done.....the way he behaved i wont call it "immaturity".....i would call it "insecurity"

Rhymes na😛

This is just another track guys.....showing how much insecure we become on the very thought of loosing our loved one......its just a phase which we all face in our life......so just keep watching n enjoy the reunion of theirs 😉

i just hope all his insecurity washes away.....n sajan together forever 😃

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surbhi tyagi

@EtherealRati

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Posted: 15 years ago

#13

yaar actually both sajan are correct in their own way..................nobody is wrong..............

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sharon

@sharonyaqoob

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Posted: 15 years ago

#14

hey sweety first of all great topic yr!!!!!!i tottaly agree with u i don't know y ppl are calling him imature???i mean if the fear of loosing is love is called imaturity then may be it is imaturity!!! but for me,every single guy like sam who love someone soo much would bahave the same.....for me its not imaturity its just how much he is possessive about chashmish that he don't want to lose her..............................

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aveksha

@aveksha

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Posted: 15 years ago

#15

Gina, I am completely with you. It is Samrat's insecurity and possessive nature for Gunjan make others think he is immature. First of all, all fingers are not same. Alike every person is different. No one can be compared. You're right Sam has done many things for his chasmish and so did Gunjan for Samrat. I love equally both Samrat and Gunjan. And to tell Samrat "childish or immature" is foolishness! I think it is right time for both of them to think towards their career. Gunjan is focusing on her film and she wants Samrat to think his career seriously so that they both can start their new life in better way soon.

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Naveen Arshad

@xaviara

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Posted: 15 years ago

#16

hey Gina !! I havent been online for the past couple of weeks, just joined back and couldnt resist replying to this topic !! I don't know what others are saying, so I will just state my POV.

First of all, the main problem right now is that no one as yet has understood the track completely, if they had, none of you would be bashing Gunjan, Sam or even Neil, because trust me Neil is not part of any love triangle. He is there to help indirectly, but this track and this story is about SaJan only.

I would have to disagree with you on one thing Gina, Sam is acting childishly and being extremely immature, but I don't blame him, he is acting this way because he is afraid of loosing Gunjan. But then again, its HIS FEAR that is making him act like this. It is not Gunjan's fault, because till now she has done everything in her power to make Samrat realize that SHE loves only HIM, but the problem is that how many times Gunjan tell him that, it wouldn't help HIM get rid of his fears, because at the end of the day his insecurities and fears is about loosing Gunjan, because he thinks he is not worthy of Gunjan, that's why Gunjan in her letter first spoke aloud his fears and then also guided him towards a solution to getting rid of his insecurities, and that is to find his own identity !! Because at the end of the day Sam doesn't have to prove he is the best guy foir Gunjan to either Gunjan, or to Neil. He has to prove that to himself, only then he will feel confident about himself. and get rid of all his fears and insecurities. That is why Gunjan didn't give in to his demand of quitting the movie, because she rightly said, that everything has always gone according to Sam's wishes, but She knows that won't happen always, and he has to learn the fact that things never go the way we want in life.

This track is about self realization, of all the main leads ! In SaJan case Sam's self realization will help in getting rid of all his fears, insecurities and demons about loosing Gunjan, because once he feels confident about himself, he wouldnt care if 100 guy like Neil come and tells him that they love Gunjan and want to marry her, because by then Sam would know that Gunjan loves only HIM, and that won't happen by Gunjan telling him that again and again, like she has been doing so far, that will only happen when Sam realizes his self worth, only then he would be able to see himself through Gunjan eyes.

Criticizing your favOrite character or pointing out his faults can have some really good results. Had Sam friends had not pamper his ego all the time and actually pointed out where he was wrong, HE would have been a different Sam when he met Gunjan, but he wasn't, and the fact that Gunjan always point out his shortcomings and faults is what made him fall for her, because SHE has always wanted him to be the best at everything, that is why even now she is still thinking about HIM and what' best for HIM !! That is why she is Samrat ki Chashmish and not any of US !!

This was my POV, i hope i didn't offend anyone.

Edited by xaviara - 15 years ago

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maria

@marisol45

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Posted: 15 years ago

#17

awesome post
completely agree wid u.
just bcoz samrat stands up for gunajn some ppl call him immature.
bt i completely wid samrat.anybody in his place wud've done the same thing

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riteshhere

@riteshhere

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Posted: 15 years ago

#18

I agree with your post totally.
Here neither Samrat not Gunjan is wrong. People react like Samrat in these situations. I can totally relate to him.
And yes he has a little kid inside him. Maybe because he could not have his childhood because of his parents so that kid still comes out. But we all know that very well and everybody adored that about him always. But having a kid inside and acting childish are totally different things. He is sure not acting childish.
Also Gunjan is perfectly right about her thing that they both have to find that other aspect of their life apart from each others' lovers. Only then they can have a beautiful future together.
I respect both Gunjan and Samrat's views and I support both of them. I only laugh at posts suggesting Neil is better for Gunjan or Sheena should come as good person for Samrat. Okay, do not know what Neil is upto. But even if he is perfect, nobody can't replace Samrat and Gunjan for each other.
Remember guys, they were, are and will always be soulmates.
Will edit more later.

Edited by riteshhere - 15 years ago