Identity Crisis & Life Imitates Art UPDATED - Page 2

Originally posted by: aashizin

aarthi you should hon it was good epi for those who r in love and facing their identity in form of other's view,other's expectation,other's direction but unaware of their own really identity hide in his/her love , you know confused feelings for identity but i am now more curious for climax 😃

very well said....i m also curious abt climax of this situation....

aahana.......awesome topic dear....i knew it ur topic ws on d way while watchin gunjan;s scene......in gunjan's monologue....wht touchd me d most...n vich is d reality in real life ws...."waqt hi do logo ko milaate hai' n waqt hi do logo ko alag bhi karte hai...hw true!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...........its soooooo soo true...i lovd tht line vry much.....n isiliye i also belive...n had alwz believd....bhale hi films aur serials mein jo dikhate hai vo real nahi ho sakte....bt....bt...d basic things....d emotions r alwz taken frm real lifes....n also art(films,serials,songs)do influence life too...so both r inter-related.....this is my POV....😊😊😊....

thnxx a ton once again for this beautiful topic dear.......👏👏👏.....

awwwwwwwwwwwww luved ur post... especially the way u ended it!.. keep rocking... fab one!!!!!!!!!

Lipsa Thx sweety 😊

exactly the thing u said in the end none is wrong here .. i find there's where the USP of this track lies and I am so loving it for that .. for the fact none is wrong

in other shows we mostly see OTT things were usually one of them goofs up like big time and the couple has issues .. but here.. here the beauty and the irony of the situation is none is wrong

u cant blame either or be partial to anyone both stand correct from their POV' the heart goes 4 Sam and the brain 4 Gunjan.. who do you chose when they clash and how exactly do u co-ordinate them to create a balance is what lies at the crux of it 😳

Hey Aahana!! Nice post....

I simply loved the depth of the SG scenes today..... They were so reflective. Gunjan's monologue and all those flashbacks, how she had always feared the limelight, how Samrat always helped her rise above those fears.... She's been Samrat's girlfriend for most people. She was always behind Samrat, supporting him in every problem of his, though she was always mentally very strong. She realises today, that this is her chance to prove herself to the world, to bring the real Gunjan in front of everyone.

She didn't realise that Samrat was actually battling with his own insecurities, because it was on his insistence that she agreed to do the film. That's why I guess she was confused on seeing him react like that. And now I guess, we'll be seeing a clash of egos, where Gunjan doesn't want to sacrifice the movie and Samrat wants her to become his Chashmish all over again. I think they both will learn something really meaningful from this track, Gunjan realising how it's important to stand up for yourself and Samrat emerging above his insecurities......It's going to be a real role reversal, because even Samrat's already being called the "heroine's boyfriend".....

-Ishita

hii aahana awesoooooooome post as usual dear........
loved ur each and every line to the core.............
even i loved this particular line 'waqt hi do logon ko milaata hai aur waqt hi do logon ko alag karta hai'.............
today gunjan is thinking like maya that now she has found her real identity through this film...........but before this she was addressed as sam's gf...........waise sach bhi hai ek ladki pehle pitaah ke naam se jaani jaati hai aur phir uske [patih ke naam se.....woh khud ki asli pehchaan phir bhi dhoondti rehti hai ki woh kaun hai?
and gunjan's thought is going the same way............so she is right in her place........she wants to have her own individual identity now and that is gunjan bhushan not only chashmish.....that's it........

regarding sam's perspective he is also right on his own place after leading asuperficial life he has found his true love and soulmate in his chashmish and due to this film he is losing his chashmish he thinks that gunjan has overtaken his chashmish and yes it has and these circumstances are creating distance between them it is affecting their relationship and the fear inside samrat is gradually taking the shape of anger on which he has no control bco'z for him his whole world revolves around his chashmish but now gunjan's priorities are gradually changing due to which his life is taking a major u turn.......which is becoming really hard for him to accept.......yes he is being possessive and aggressive but only for his chashmish bco'z now he can't afford to loose her at any cost........

only discussing the matter and his inside fear with chashmish calmly can solve this prob. and can save their beautiful relationship that is a good communication between sajan........

i just hope that the cv's sought out this prob. with care......i want that the cv;s should show a proper balance between personal and proffessional life..........one should not be affected by the other........
this would be a good lesson for those who face the same prob.
As always MJHT does teaches us a lesson at the end of every track......and i also want this track to have a positive ending with my SAJAN together for always.......humesha humesha ke liye......

thanx aahana for this lovely post..........

Originally posted by: aahana86

Charmee

exactly the issue u said .. the word u used .. Self Respect and not Ego.. however i feel what happened today which made samrat mad enough will not be taken as his respect but his ego

hon somehow things may just be starting to get worse esp with Neil trying to play the angel here 🤢

he may later slowly make these things look like sam' ego probs

yes sam has not asked Gunjan to quit the movie as u said.. but may be his blasting it today will make Gunjan say those lines in the precap .. and hence he says those things to her abt making things all wrong in her life

and as far as Mayank making Sam see things diff .. i dont think so.. not so soon if they make it that simple.. the track ends 4 both the couples but it' not gonna at least so soon so nope no chances of that happening
when he says i wont stop u if u wanna quit making that face

gunjan will take sam's blasting in a wrong way...
n neil...he'll make sam's self respect as his ego🤢🤢jus hate dat guy...trying to be an angel bt is not less den devil for sajan😡🤢

may be mayu will help sam to freeze n think abt gunjan n her pov....n may to sum extent sam will get a rough view of gunjan's pov....

i guess dis tym gunjan will create a hurdle by thinking dat it was ll sam's ego...as sam is a clear reflection or carbon copy of raj🤢

first of all wonderful post aahana...as always...👏 👏 👏!!! now coming to the topic...aahana i wont go with who is right or who is wrong...in my view both sam and gunjan are completely right from their povs.today it will be more abt gunjan...coz in my view i saw a new gunjan today..though sam was the same as always....mature...initiating...yet stabbed by circumstantial events.So i saw new gunjan tonite aahana...whom i liked...rather loved As a women....and as a person but somewhere was disappointed with her as samrat's chashmish!!! u know aahana...when sam said taht.."gunjan aaj main tumse apni chashmish wapas mang longa....it was so badly ironical..coz where he wished to get her chashmish back...gunjan was reinventing herself from just "chashmish" to the real "GUNJAN BHUSHAN"!!!
here whats important to note is that gunjan is thinking in this was as she is sorrounded by this very story...maya too wants to live her career...her true identity...but raj's love wants her back...he is satisfied with just her love n her presence in his lyf just like sam...but she THINKS she need MORE. Yes just like maya...or even like gunjan and nupur evry girl needs more...needs to BE more...but that in no way means that being a guys' gf is overshadowing ur identity.Gunjan here is misunderstanding "EXISTENCE" with "IDENTITY"..she needs to understand that sam is not her identity but her existence!!!as someone's bf or gf...being in love with someone we dont lose ourselves but rather we move more closer to our own self. She needs to understand that the very beginning of our identities as individuals is the fact that we are loved by someone who holds us tight.To examplify....a building ...a monument is always known for its beauty its soaring heights...but what actually holds it tegether is the base....here is where lies the point....gunjan wants to reach soaring heights(nothing wrong but rather i feel proud of her)..but she is forgetting the strenght of the base...that base(sam's love)...is not to snatch jher identity from her....but to support her.
Ok i dont know what to say else..u must be confused with my words..even i am though...finding hard to say what i want to...but i think sajan's love is strong enough to overcome this...as sam said..they will treat their love more important than these issues...loved him tonite totally...so mature and so sensible...made me cry with his expressions.