A Bend In The Road - SaJan & SaNu - UPDATED - Page 3

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: aarthi.ramani


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<div>aashi you too have to inculde yourself in that list .... your emotions did flow thru your words hon.. 👏👏

aarthi don't be santy just be honest ok 😆 😆 😆and emotion ki toh bat hi mat karo kuch ajeeb si feeling ho rahi hai like 😭 😕 😆 by the way you have always been kind to me hon 🤗
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sayankgunur

Great topic Aahana 👏 👏,

Today i actually felt what a lonely childhood is like and i thank the CV's for highlighting that.
SaNu are what you call the life of the party, who brighten up everyones mood but are still lonely, people who are really intelligent but don't show it, mature in their own way, responsible in their own way, enjoying life but missing that one point in life, inner satisfaction. Now that is why i relate to Sanu more than Majan because the only things that kind off link me to MaJan are reading, staying alone and wanting to fulfill your parents wishes.
But people like Samrat and Nupur are hard to understand, coz people think we are the most complicated souls on Earth but actually us souls are lost, we are looking for the affection, that one pat on the back when acheiving something, someone to sit wit us at sunset and listen to our problems for a chang, someone to hear out ur feelings and not think that we are stupid. And when we lost souls do find our soulmate, a person without whom its like heaven on Earth we are like wait a minute they deserve someone way better than us, they may be our angels but we can't be selfish to keep them to ourselves. When the get that affection it seems a dream, but how long do dreams shatter.
Samrat may be the hot, cool dude of excel college but there still is that lost child which reflects in his eyes that longs for someone to say, you've always been there for me, now its my turn, for someone to hold their hands the whole lifetime. Now because of his arefree attitude everyone finds him those lofars who wonder the street or a boy who can't be trusted but once you trust him and enter his comfort zone there can never be a much better human than this stupid careless boy, who may seem disrespectful to oths feelings but actally understands them better.He mises his paernts like anything, no wonder he has always had this dream of a happy family but is scared that will he be able to give back the same love which they are providing, is he good enough to be loved by anyone in this cruel world.
Nupuyr maybe the bubbly, chirpy and funloving girl but inside her hides someone who has seen the bad world and has protected her sister in every case when her father goes to work. Now many people say that big sisters try and act like your mothers and boss you around but has anyone asked us how it eels when you wait for your younger brother to come from school and he justs bangs the door on your face, when you want to give your little sister some advice but she wants you to mind your own buisness. it hurts like anything. People may say a girl like Nupur is not mature, intelligent or responsible but i can say there can never be anyone as responsible as her.
Today SaNu were really restless without their better half because they can't imagine life without them but they never can say that there are two halves to a whole which means they also complete their respective partners. The reason why Samrat took ages to realise was becausae he never new this ting called love and never trusted it, all he knew was their is no relationship in this world which could be trusted except friendship, he never thought he could be loved by anyone from their heart that to by an angel like Gunjan, who is he infront of her.
Same with nupur, she never thought that a perfect person like Mayank would fall for a girl like her, that is why during the dasera day she was o heartbroken and there is a scene when she returns to mumbai and compares herself to Mayank which is really painfull to see.
People like Sanu underestimate themselfs when they find out that perfect hearts like Mayank and Gunjan fell in love with them, who have nothing to give in turn. They need to realise that they are beautifull human beings for what they are.
i really hope this track deals with the inssecurities coz it is as true as every other emtion,
Sorry for the long post and if i went off topic.

reeshu @bold perfectly said thats why i relate to them more than Majan...
@ blue being an elder sister like nupur i know what it is and relate to her ... its the fact that we look for a person who can take care of us and pamper us... feel secured with them .. but at the same time we have this insecurties of worthness ... to say truth i have gone thru the same emotions and hence can feel what they are going thru... i can relate to them 100% ...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: aashizin

aarthi don't be santy just be honest ok 😆 😆 😆and emotion ki toh bat hi mat karo kuch ajeeb si feeling ho rahi hai like 😭 😕 😆

aashi i am honest dear ... sayaad santy hone ke karan words expresses nahi kar pa rahi hon... and you know naa how much i relate to sajan..... and this is one more association with them.. so CryCry more out of my mind.... aashi saabdo ko nahi bhavana ko samjo...😆😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@aarthi please bhavanao ko yad mat dilao varana dil bole tunna tunna 🤣 🤣 woh bhi kya din the 😛
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: aarthi.ramani

reeshu @bold perfectly said thats why i relate to them more than Majan...
@ blue being an elder sister like nupur i know what it is and relate to her ... its the fact that we look for a person who can take care of us and pamper us... feel secured with them .. but at the same time we have this insecurties of worthness ... to say truth i have gone thru the same emotions and hence can feel what they are going thru... i can relate to them 100% ...

Thanks for agreeing aarthi,
No wonder i and some people relate more to SaNu because a lonely childhood is something which i wouldn't even mty enemies to have.
My mother is mosty ill and dad works so i know how it feels like to act like a mother but still smile and not moan. People think we're smiling so nothings wrong but nobody ever asks how much pressure we go through, first nahin aye toh humare parents ko kya feel hoga, agar hum ek galat kadam uthate hain tohhumare bhai ya behen pe asar hota hai, agar hum ek din beemar hoge toh mom aure siblings ko kon sambhalege.
Well i think, elder sisters are the one of the most wonderfull creations which i long for, i really want that shelter, pampering but looks like destiny main hi nahin hai.
@ aahana, yaar tu ne toh mujhe senty kar diya 😭
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Posted: 15 years ago
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My heart was wrenched to see the Sanu scene... both were in a terrible pain... I wish things get sorted out soon...
Great post aahana
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sayankgunur

Thanks for agreeing aarthi,
No wonder i and some people relate more to SaNu because a lonely childhood is something which i wouldn't even mty enemies to have.
My mother is mosty ill and dad works so i know how it feels like to act like a mother but still smile and not moan. People think we're smiling so nothings wrong but nobody ever asks how much pressure we go through, first nahin aye toh humare parents ko kya feel hoga, agar hum ek galat kadam uthate hain tohhumare bhai ya behen pe asar hota hai, agar hum ek din beemar hoge toh mom aure siblings ko kon sambhalege.
Well i think, elder sisters are the one of the most wonderfull creations which i long for, i really want that shelter, pampering but looks like destiny main hi nahin hai.
@ aahana, yaar tu ne toh mujhe senty kar diya 😭

Reeshu really don't know how am i going to take this track more.... having working parents i know how much responsibilities you have as an elder siblings at times to have to play a role of mother to your younger sis .. be at times a friend to your mother and more so be responsible son to your father... at times you have to keep your emotions at bay... at times you act as happy go lucky and bindass types, (like Sanu) or turn into a shy , reserved , matured and want to be your own world (like Majan)...

at many situation you have to act as pillars for them, where you yourself need a base to stand... and when we get that base we don't want to move from there, they are your life, our world revolves around them, we want to hold down to them more tightly, with fear of losing them, the more we hold, more you lose the grip.... more they slip from your hand.... and if we don't loosen our grip they will slip from your hand forever....

Reeshu I really hope they don't show too much of these emotions for long....

OMG I can't believe that I can relate and be so much emotional attached to some fiction characters...

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Posted: 15 years ago
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long but lovely post ahaana....and youre first few lines including youre shayari touchyed my heart
and ofcourse i loved the way you put it together,and very very true.....smarat and nupur type people who may seem very aloof,very content,very happy etc need not nessesrily be so.......in yesterdays episode i felt worse for samrat,because as of now gunjan is his only support someonw who he can =call truly his own....but now she too is going away from him.....my heart broke when i saw that!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@ Aarthi, love what you said dear, sometimes you do have to be a son, friend, mother and a daughter. Thats life.
Wonder how the CV's and actors portray these emotions so well that we almost feel its real but when we see it finish we know its a fiction show
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sayankgunur

@ Aarthi, love what you said dear, sometimes you do have to be a son, friend, mother and a daughter. Thats life.

Wonder how the CV's and actors portray these emotions so well that we almost feel its real but when we see it finish we know its a fiction show

its true and more so with Monaya as sajan ....uff i cant get mind out of that scene yaaar and make my mood worse the precap😲

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