sammy hurt me to core today....note pg 11. - Page 4

Originally posted by: princessyashika

guys i can understand what all of u mean...but u all are forgetting from where sam is coming....he actually has went thru the pain of being a leftover child coz his mother just bothere abt her career n her lyf. and we all know that yes its true that women who dont know how to strike a balance between their career n family end up having tormented kids like sam.its just that sam hasnt yet seen a women balancing both home n career equally well...if rather he wud have been shilpa aunty's son...who i see as the biggest example of a successful proffesional and as well as a mother...his pov wud have been surely different.
just to examplify for the world a rose is always beautiful...and thats true as well rose is actually beautiful..but for the one who has bled due to its thorns...rose is never the same...its never that beautiful.

and as far as inspiring gunjan is concerned...he is doing so coz she isnt married n she isnt into a family lyf.thats simple..i know his pov is restricted...coz he may be thinking that a career oriented women ends up not being a gud mother/wife...but his pov is totally justified seeing what he has been thru n what his lyf experiences have shown him.horizons widen with ur experience...and i am sure the day he will get to see a wife handling her career equally well as her family..his horizon too will widen.

Originally posted by: sana_sajan

u mean if gunji would have married to sam,sam would have never encourge her to get her dream i mean to work on film which is not her dream i mean he will simply say NO as she is his wife...

Originally posted by: Neith007

Thanks for making this topic Surbhi. 😊

I think what S said just reflected the internal longing he has for a Motherly figure in his family. Or otherwise it didn't make sense😕. On one side he's supporting G in fulfilling some dream what was initially not Hers, and on other part he's encouraging N Not to watch that Same dream..... His behavior looks contradictory from that point of view.

Obviously he was helping her out but ya, he cu'd have just simply said that--''it's not the end Nupur. Keep on dreaming something newer and bigger.'' or ''Tumhe ye chance nehi mila to kiya hua, there'll be even better chances if you take your dreams seriously like studying dramatics...'' or sort of. That too wu'd bring a smile on her worried face.

Unfortunately, there's still a notion prevailing in society that Working ladies can't make good Homemakers. Which is so not true- we don't even need examples. I wanna believe that S doesn't belong to that school of people. Though the way he talked today barely can make one think of something else.....😒

Hey.... I hope it isn't like... one more Social Message track!🤔😆

Common guys samrat can be given the benefit of doubt here he must have said those things here to cheer her up. All said & done nupur is sensible enough to decide what's best for her. She is an independent girl who can't be influenced easily & does have a mind of her own .she's not the kind to abandon her dreams & samrat also knows this. samrat knew what nupur was doing today was on an impulse so maybe to calm her down he did that. Somewhere samrat has started to realize that a family life is very important & his expressions were telling that somewhere he feels his dream of having a happy family life seems all the more uncertain since gunjan is becoming an actress. That must be the reason why he said those things to nupur somewhere samrat himself is also quite stressed.

Originally posted by: princessyashika

exactly YES....coz he wudnt want his kids to suffer on the account of their mother being into her career completely...thats why i said sana that his pov is restricted..it wud have been same for gunjan as well. cvs have shown it very true...the pain of being a leftover child isnt that easy to overcome u know...n when u have gone thru the same pain u r the most bothered that u n the people around u dont do that same misake to their kids.I am not justifying sam but i am saying that his restricted pov is very well suited to his childhood torment.