Rati Fans Please Read - Page 6

I'm glad you made this post, Rinky. I honestly am just because it clearly depicts what we all feel. Infact I was never brave enough to ever bring this matter to notice fearing the wrath of the members, the forum once again turning into a battlefield, mods leaving and ultimately the forum's demise etc. To be honest though, another reason why I never voiced my opinion on this issue is perhaps because I thought I was the only one who thought along these lines. I have always loved Rati/Nupur but unfortunately I know I don't have equal respect for Mr Arjun Bijlani. Please don't bombard me with missiles-- I dont HATE HATE him but I just don't have respect for him and I have my reasons. I have little or no respect for men who don't bother to think that they should be treating their co-stars in a reasonably cordial way atleast esp the actor who shares the screen space most of the time, if not always, with them. That said, if Mr Arjun and Sanaya are that a great pals, OK fine we get the idea, you've said enough but why are you literally IGNORING your co-star and showing off your friendly gestures on screen when you KNOW you're being watched by millions of ARTI/MAYUR fans all over the world who expect so much off this couple! I don't know about you guys, but when I watch my favorite couple on screen in a candid chit chat, I really am expecting them to also show what great chemistry they share off screen. Sadly, Mr Arjun Bijlani hardly seems to think so.

He TOTALLY ignored Rati on her Bday. I was like Hello? It was Rati's Bday after all and when the entire gang was there, he just totally ignored her! Why the hell was he asking MOHIT to sing for SANAYA? How is that related to Rati's Bday? And when he was singing the Bday song, it was more like he's singing it for Sanaya rather than Rati. And today was the height! He didn't even acknowledge whether she was there or not! Sure Sanaya fed her, and even tried to include her in the convo when they were talking about the tandoori chicken competition or what not but Sanaya's not supposed to do anything- it should have been Mr Arjun! How can he not even acknowledge her presence?! Why did he not even think of saying her NAME atleast?! Let alone to actually playfully feed her. I was never expecting seeing his past record but today I was just stumped. How can a person not care about the umpteenth MaYur/ArTi fans? No fan would like their half of the fav jodi not giving crap to the other half. And just exactly how would a MaYurian feel if Mr AB goes on record uttering how close he is to all other actors BUT Nupur? I'm not saying he should just lie for the heck of the fans concerns. He should just say he's close to everyone pretty much. And please don't even get me started on the "red apple bite" thing. It's just too horrifying and would turn this thread into something I don't intend to. And then he gets SURPRISED when he's rumored to be dating Sanaya and NOT RATI! Hello? Why the surprise Mr AB? Why would anyone EVER think of Rati and Arjun being together after the way you treat her?!

And please, I just won't accept the fact that its Rati not in the mood/tired/upset excuses. No matter how tired my co-star is, I would always be by his/her side still! Try to include her in the convo, be all witty and light just to lighten her mood etc. Rati can't be "down" all the time. If I was in Rati's place, I would always give solo interviews or with Mohit, Sanaya or the rest of the gang, I wouldn't go near a person like Mr AB who hardly seems to care about my screen presence or the hearts of the million fans out there. I can't help but feel he's an egoist. There are alot of people who love Mayank because of NUPUR, and similarly Nupur because of Mayank. The two characters are incomplete without each other. So if he really does care about his fans, according to what he seems to say, why does he not take this MAJOR issue into consideration? He always gives Rati the cold treatment. Blah.

All that said, I enjoy Rati's solo interviews. She's a VERY dignified woman who knows what to do and when to do. I'm glad she decides to go solo. Why bother giving interviews where your better half is all but acknowledging your presence. Go RATI! Your rock!

EDITED: Just something to add before I log off. You know your offscreen chemistry really REALLY does afccet your onscreen chemistry. Thats what I've always thought. Like if your fav Jodi is best pals, best friends, best everything offscreen, you feel THAT high no matter how bad their on screen chemistry is being scripted or whatever. If you kinda know they share an awesome chmietsyr offscreen and are bing given regular doses of this relationship, then you're good to go even if, say, the couple is undergoing a rough phase in the drama itself. The offscreen freindhsip and respect for each other keeps you coming more for them. But this doesnt go the other way. No matter how great the onscreen chemistry is, sizzling, or whatever, if you now all is not well between the duo offscreen, then thats just huge blow as to how one sees them onscreen. I'll be honest, I never really enjoyed MaYur but it wasn't like I detested them or anything but now when I see them together screen I can't help but gag. I always think about how AB treats her offscreen. This has happened to me before. I used to love RoKa (Robbie, Kastur from Kasturi on Star plus) but soon what I thought were rumors about Karan Patel's sour relationship with Shubhangi tunred out to be true I hated KP so much so that I stoopped enjoying RoKa scenes. I couldn't believe it. What I used to love so much, I started hating it. *sigh* going down the memory lane....
Sorry just felt I needed to add this to.

Hira, hats off yaar.

@ Rati Fans: I don't mean to invade here, but you all are making comments on Arjun like you know him inside and out? Arjun is bad, I don't respect him blah blah.. Fine, your own personal perspective, but how have you thought about what happened in the SBS segment? What could have been the issue? Rati sounded really sick, and irrtated at times as well. Arjun was in his own world. He ignored Rati fine, but Rati also didn't exactly give Arjun a great response either.

I am really disappointed to see people all rowding up on Arjun like this. Like how much do you know him to make comments on him like this??

Originally posted by: jenny1000

@ Rati Fans: I don't mean to invade here, but you all are making comments on Arjun like you know him inside and out? Arjun is bad, I don't respect him blah blah.. Fine, your own personal perspective, but how have you thought about what happened in the SBS segment? What could have been the issue? Rati sounded really sick, and irrtated at times as well. Arjun was in his own world. He ignored Rati fine, but Rati also didn't exactly give Arjun a great response either.

I am really disappointed to see people all rowding up on Arjun like this. Like how much do you know him to make comments on him like this??

Originally posted by: jenny1000

@ Rati Fans: I don't mean to invade here, but you all are making comments on Arjun like you know him inside and out? Arjun is bad, I don't respect him blah blah.. Fine, your own personal perspective, but how have you thought about what happened in the SBS segment? What could have been the issue? Rati sounded really sick, and irrtated at times as well. Arjun was in his own world. He ignored Rati fine, but Rati also didn't exactly give Arjun a great response either.

I am really disappointed to see people all rowding up on Arjun like this. Like how much do you know him to make comments on him like this??

Originally posted by: Yamini.Arjun

<FONT color=#ff0066>Hey Jens, i hear from where you are coming, agree that some people don't know Arjun well enough to put all the blame on him, but you should also understand this from the pointview of ArTi fans, im an ardent ArTi fan, thats why i would also want to see Arjun giving his segments with Rati and not Sanaya everytime, agree its not her or anyone's else's fault, and i also understand Rati's irritation, but we as ArTi fans expect a lot from SBS, because as you guys love seeing MonAya in SBS, we also wait to see ArTi, so i think you should also not assume what Rati actually is, may be you know AB well, but im sure you dont know Rati well enough to say that she's irritated at times, she's highly respectable, and doesnt take any kind of nonsense that comes her way. Please dont take this the wrong way, but we are just a little irritated and mad at SBS for not showing Rati in the limelight.</FONT>

I understand where you guys are coming from Yams. Even I had no clue why Rati seemed pissed, and what ArNaya did, ignoring her was totally wrong, but it's stupid for people to raise questions on Arjun being cocky and arrogrant. We don't know when this was shot nor do we know what happened that day so how can anyone can make any comments about this?

I am sure Arjun will clear this in few days since his blog is swamped with just this.

Hey Jens, thanks for understanding, yeah Arjun being blamed is really wrong, he can't really do anything, to me he seems to be a really chilled out guy, yeah i hope he clarifies this soon on his blog, i really wish he does.

Didnt SBS have about 4 solo Rati interviews recently? I don't remember how many but there have been quite a few of them. I am not defending SBS here or anything but its not like she isn't highlighted/shown on SBS at all.

Regarding the actual SBS, I don't think Sanaya was ignoring her. Moreover she was trying to include Rati in the conversations. Even Rati came in a MoNaya SBS (when Rati and Mohit were singing ishq hua) Sanaya herself suggested that Rati come in their segment. I don't know whats happening with ArTi so its really for me to comment on that. Its their personal life, like everyone else said.

umm sorry for intruding...i know this for rati fans but Sanaya is mentioned in alot posts too...

Originally posted by: jenny1000

@ Rati Fans: I don't mean to invade here, but you all are making comments on Arjun like you know him inside and out? Arjun is bad, I don't respect him blah blah.. Fine, your own personal perspective, but how have you thought about what happened in the SBS segment? What could have been the issue? Rati sounded really sick, and irrtated at times as well. Arjun was in his own world. He ignored Rati fine, but Rati also didn't exactly give Arjun a great response either.

I am really disappointed to see people all rowding up on Arjun like this. Like how much do you know him to make comments on him like this??

You're right Jenny. I don't know Arjun. Infact I know zilch about him.
But you know what? I judge a person not by how "much" I know about them but by their actions. Arjun may be a very good person by heart but what he depicts himself as onscreen is how we can judge him. And heck its not about me being someone to "judge" him. Actions speak for themselves. I'm talking about his inability to respect his onscreen better half. I beg to differ but nobody's being ganging up on Arjun. We're all just putting forward our views. ArTi fans are upset, we didn't exactly expect anything else really. The whole point is, Arjun may be a great person but he needs to realize that there are a ton of ArTi fans who expect so much from them. Had he bored this thought in mind, and showed a tad bit of an acknowledgment we wouldn't have seen this day. Its Arjun's life. He's well liable to choose his own circle of friends or what not but when it comes to the expectations of so many people watching out there, he should have been a little considerate.