Rati Fans Please Read - Page 8

Originally posted by: rooj-i

I believe you may be correct there😊 but I have seen in the past such topics did go out of hand and then war happened but I'll take your words here.

But i still believe that we should just leave Rati-Arjun-Sanaya to it because what SBS showed us is not the whole thing if you know what i mean😉 that's what i believe at least

believe me if it does go out of control i will get the topic closed....

and yes even my initial anger has cooled down.... but no i don't think everything is fine.....but i will leave it at that.....

thanx for replying
rinky

Originally posted by: _Hira_89

I'm glad you made this post, Rinky. I honestly am just because it clearly depicts what we all feel. Infact I was never brave enough to ever bring this matter to notice fearing the wrath of the members, the forum once again turning into a battlefield, mods leaving and ultimately the forum's demise etc. To be honest though, another reason why I never voiced my opinion on this issue is perhaps because I thought I was the only one who thought along these lines. I have always loved Rati/Nupur but unfortunately I know I don't have equal respect for Mr Arjun Bijlani. Please don't bombard me with missiles-- I dont HATE HATE him but I just don't have respect for him and I have my reasons. I have little or no respect for men who don't bother to think that they should be treating their co-stars in a reasonably cordial way atleast esp the actor who shares the screen space most of the time, if not always, with them. That said, if Mr Arjun and Sanaya are that a great pals, OK fine we get the idea, you've said enough but why are you literally IGNORING your co-star and showing off your friendly gestures on screen when you KNOW you're being watched by millions of ARTI/MAYUR fans all over the world who expect so much off this couple! I don't know about you guys, but when I watch my favorite couple on screen in a candid chit chat, I really am expecting them to also show what great chemistry they share off screen. Sadly, Mr Arjun Bijlani hardly seems to think so.

He TOTALLY ignored Rati on her Bday. I was like Hello? It was Rati's Bday after all and when the entire gang was there, he just totally ignored her! Why the hell was he asking MOHIT to sing for SANAYA? How is that related to Rati's Bday? And when he was singing the Bday song, it was more like he's singing it for Sanaya rather than Rati. And today was the height! He didn't even acknowledge whether she was there or not! Sure Sanaya fed her, and even tried to include her in the convo when they were talking about the tandoori chicken competition or what not but Sanaya's not supposed to do anything- it should have been Mr Arjun! How can he not even acknowledge her presence?! Why did he not even think of saying her NAME atleast?! Let alone to actually playfully feed her. I was never expecting seeing his past record but today I was just stumped. How can a person not care about the umpteenth MaYur/ArTi fans? No fan would like their half of the fav jodi not giving crap to the other half. And just exactly how would a MaYurian feel if Mr AB goes on record uttering how close he is to all other actors BUT Nupur? I'm not saying he should just lie for the heck of the fans concerns. He should just say he's close to everyone pretty much. And please don't even get me started on the "red apple bite" thing. It's just too horrifying and would turn this thread into something I don't intend to. And then he gets SURPRISED when he's rumored to be dating Sanaya and NOT RATI! Hello? Why the surprise Mr AB? Why would anyone EVER think of Rati and Arjun being together after the way you treat her?!

And please, I just won't accept the fact that its Rati not in the mood/tired/upset excuses. No matter how tired my co-star is, I would always be by his/her side still! Try to include her in the convo, be all witty and light just to lighten her mood etc. Rati can't be "down" all the time. If I was in Rati's place, I would always give solo interviews or with Mohit, Sanaya or the rest of the gang, I wouldn't go near a person like Mr AB who hardly seems to care about my screen presence or the hearts of the million fans out there. I can't help but feel he's an egoist. There are alot of people who love Mayank because of NUPUR, and similarly Nupur because of Mayank. The two characters are incomplete without each other. So if he really does care about his fans, according to what he seems to say, why does he not take this MAJOR issue into consideration? He always gives Rati the cold treatment. Blah.

All that said, I enjoy Rati's solo interviews. She's a VERY dignified woman who knows what to do and when to do. I'm glad she decides to go solo. Why bother giving interviews where your better half is all but acknowledging your presence. Go RATI! Your rock!

EDITED: Just something to add before I log off. You know your offscreen chemistry really REALLY does afccet your onscreen chemistry. Thats what I've always thought. Like if your fav Jodi is best pals, best friends, best everything offscreen, you feel THAT high no matter how bad their on screen chemistry is being scripted or whatever. If you kinda know they share an awesome chmietsyr offscreen and are bing given regular doses of this relationship, then you're good to go even if, say, the couple is undergoing a rough phase in the drama itself. The offscreen freindhsip and respect for each other keeps you coming more for them. But this doesnt go the other way. No matter how great the onscreen chemistry is, sizzling, or whatever, if you now all is not well between the duo offscreen, then thats just huge blow as to how one sees them onscreen. I'll be honest, I never really enjoyed MaYur but it wasn't like I detested them or anything but now when I see them together screen I can't help but gag. I always think about how AB treats her offscreen. This has happened to me before. I used to love RoKa (Robbie, Kastur from Kasturi on Star plus) but soon what I thought were rumors about Karan Patel's sour relationship with Shubhangi tunred out to be true I hated KP so much so that I stoopped enjoying RoKa scenes. I couldn't believe it. What I used to love so much, I started hating it. *sigh* going down the memory lane....
Sorry just felt I needed to add this to.

DITTO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! my thoughtson MR ARJUN BIJLANI.. Cudnt have said it better
Ofcourse ArNaya fans can continue praising him to sky as u guys are not the one he is treating as dirt..

Originally posted by: _Hira_89

I agree. Sanaya didn't ignore her at all. Infact I loved how she tried her level best to incorporate Rati into the convo. But the thing is this point is really irrelevant to the argument here.

Completely agree again.Sanaya is a nice girl who is sweet to every costar..She is kind of bubbly & chirpy around everyone..Even Mohit was shy at the initial interviews then due to Sanaya's companionship & encouragement he became equally involved in all segments,which Mr Arjun has never ever done!!!!!!!

Originally posted by: -Rinky-

believe me if it does go out of control i will get the topic closed....

and yes even my initial anger has cooled down.... but no i don't think everything is fine.....but i will leave it at that.....

thanx for replying
rinky

HI HIra , topic starter and all my amazing RATI FANS..

and In addition : YOU CAN SO CLEARY TELL THAT there is an issue with RATI and ARJUn.. I mean if you rewind SBS.. that chocolate day.. OG MY GOSH.. That was soooooooooooo cute.. They were feeding each other chocolates .. AND laughing and having such a good time tgether.. I mean rewatch that SBS segment and then tday's sbs segment.. There is such a different in their behaviour.. In tday's episode they appeared like total strangers... I wonder how they must be giving their shots tgether.. No wonder the CVS have ruined their Track.. Taking it from AWESOMEEE FANNA HUG TO BANAGLURU...

well i have given up on all these things. our voice is not being heard so what is the pt of screaming..yelling!!!! this has been the topic of discussion frm ages but wht is the outcome???? NOTHING!! so let us all just relax, forget that they even exist and move on in life. we are repeating the same thing day in day out. the other day i was happy and had huge respect 4 arjun 4 actually noticing that they are being sidelined but the following day..he clears the air. i mean these stars are double standard ppl. its difficult 2 understand them!!!

ha rinky..... it hurts to discuss it again and again.... i wonder y rati had agreed at the first place!! well i ws thinking abt tit and its defiantely a publicity stunt...... when mayur confession was going on heaps of interviews with cheerfull arti was shown.....during sajan confession too monaya were shown chirpy and happy....fine with tat...the fans were happy...they got positive publicity.....

Honestly Rinky, I've got nothing to say. Everyone has discussed everything here.

@ALL who feel this is Anti-Arjun- Who ever pointed a finger at him? And duh, Rati DID acknowledge him. She laughed on his stupid PJ as well. That was all she could do since Arjun was practically IGNORING Rati. Why the heck would she go and speak to him then? She has her own self-respect. Howmany of you would go and speak to a person who' s literally ignoring you? I wouldn't call it Ego, I would call it someone's self-respect getting hurt. I have no issues with ArNaya segments. They can show as many ArNaya segments as they want, but atleast show ONE segment where Rati is happy. Not forced. Perhaps show her with MOhit if she ain't on good terms with Arjun. Atleast don't show her so down. It looked evident that Rati was just forcing a smile. Completely faking it. And even the Sanaya-Rati golgappa exchange was initiated by Rati herself. So Rati ain't an egoist here. She laughed on AB's PJ, she DID acknowledge him. she did NOT ignore him AT ALL! But sadly, same can't be said for Arjun. Rati looked at him en number of times, but Arjun didn't. Yeah, I've done my phd on ther segment. You may want to differ, but this is my pov. solely my pov. No offence intended to anyone, especially people who think we're going Anti-Arjun

Originally posted by: MAYURFAN001

and In addition : YOU CAN SO CLEARY TELL THAT there is an issue with RATI and ARJUn.. I mean if you rewind SBS.. that chocolate day.. OG MY GOSH.. That was soooooooooooo cute.. They were feeding each other chocolates .. AND laughing and having such a good time tgether.. I mean rewatch that SBS segment and then tday's sbs segment.. There is such a different in their behaviour.. In tday's episode they appeared like total strangers... I wonder how they must be giving their shots tgether.. No wonder the CVS have ruined their Track.. Taking it from AWESOMEEE FANNA HUG TO BANAGLURU...

The CVs must have been forced to do this because of ARTI issues.. so, ARTI/MAYUR shippers-- BE ready to get some more dissapointing moments.. Anyone here agree with this theory??

I agree..... but am not frustrated any more... just irritated... maybe wont watch MJHT for a few days... huh...