Originally posted by: pakirani
ok, now before you guys all hate me for posting this thread, i just want to say that sheena is right in her perspective...what girl would want her guy to feel another girl is special besides herself?? and someone she loves who gives more importance to another girl rather than herself?? instead of bashing and hating sheena you have to rationally understand that her objective on this "breaking the whole friendship thing" is similar to reality...don't you guys think? every girl feels possessive over her boyrfriend or husband...and in sheena's case, its pretty common for someone to express her jealousy
i know that we all want sajan to be together and we all love them very much but every girl has that insecurity within herself...and thats whats causing sheena to separate gunjan and samrat regardless if they're best friends. if i ever liked a guy like samrat and he had the same relationship with his best (female) friend, similar to gunjan, then i would probably do the same as sheena...yet, for the exception of the precap (because that was really harsh😕) however, sheena did absolutely justice by mentioning this to samrat before they began a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship because it's better for a guy to understand his girlfriend's feelings and insecurity. that way less problems can occur and samrat can give more attention and love to sheena (which of course i don't want either but im saying that its a basic concept among majority of girls 😆) do tell me your views guys! 😳
-maaria 😳
First, nice topic! (i haven't watched the episode yet so these r my comments based on what epis i have seen)
Benig a SaJan fan, I really don't like Sheena and her expectations from Samrat (asking him to forget his friendship with Gunjan) At this point, I identify more with Gunjan's character than Sheena's.
I never really hated Sheena until last week when she knew about Gunjan's feelings but completely neglected them and hugged Samrat so tightly, and let Gunjan standing yet again ! its like she was trying to drive home the point that Samrat is hers and only hers.
As a SaJan/Gunjan fan, that really annoyed me! (A lot more than the Sammy-Sheena hug at the hospital)
Now as for Sheena. I'd say she is acting somewhat realistically and like u said, everyone has their own securities. We can't expect her to act like Gunjan cuz she isn't Gunjan and there would be no difference between her. But don't u think she is acting a bit manipluative now? First she tried to figure out if there was anything going on between SaJan. i think she's got the answer now. But sheeena's starting to acting sneaky now. its kinda like the nice act was all a show, or maybe seeing SaJans gr8 friendship mroe and more made her insecure as she started to like samrat more n more.
she claims to be straightforward but now that she has some answers, she's playing games now.
Today Samrat asked him to break off his friendship tomorrow? what will she ask him tomorrow? in every relationship, compromise is important....understanding the other person is important. But is Sheena really doing this? she wants Samrat to understand her POV but it can't be one way. sheena wants to control him now-- who he is friends with, who he hangs out with. i mean, he already doesn't spend time with his old buddies like before. the foundation of their relationship has been weak from the start and its just getting weaker and weaker. But no complaints as this will lead to Sajan together. her request to Samrat shows her insecurity- in herself n her relationship with Samrat.
anyway, i really feel she's forcing the issue now. but its fine cuz it shows the diff between Sheena and Gunjan (they r poles apart) and sooner or later, Samrat will realize it as well....and he'll realise who is real friends are. the ones who like him for who he is.