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Posted: 16 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: preks

I disagree with you! She was being pure selfish. And this is whatyou expect from aselfish person. On that note, I would alsolike to say I'm happywith what she did even though i personally felt she was wrongcuz i dont want her to play CUPID 🤢



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Posted: 16 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: pyaridilwalino1

I have a hard time justifying Sheena, or even giving her reasoning the benefit of doubt because she knows how Gunjan feels. And she does have hints as to how Samrat feels about Gunjan. When a guy says that Gunjan has changed me and the way she knows me nobody else does, one will obviously understand the importance of the relationship. You can't break good old ties to form new ones.

Sheena knows how Gunjan feels about Samrat, but still has kept that away from Samrat. If she told Samrat that Gunjan likes you and I know you love me, that is why I feel insecure so you should stop being friends with Gunjan...then I would definitely say okay Sheena you are right in your stance. But Sheena has NOT said that...instead she is keeping facts away from the guy she supposedly loves. How can she herself ask Samrat to choose, when she can't even tell him the truth?
I like your topic pakirani! I am enjoying the discussion it is encouraging! 👏
Shweta



i agree with you even though i support sheena's insecurity!!! she is wrong for wanting to break their friendship ties but then again...she feels as though their friendship will turn into something more than that if they remain too close to each other. yes she did not tell samrat the truth about gunjan loving him but even if she does, what will he do? he's not going to love her back instantly nor is he going to reject their friendship...its a catch 22 situation! honestly, you guys may think that i like sheena, but really i don't 😆 i just think her feelings are similar to many people in reality and its understandable

btw, thank you for liking my topic! i love to read your views and support most of them because it makes me realize what i don't understand and what i miss out on! 😊

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Posted: 16 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: preks

I disagree with you! She was being pure selfish. And this is what you expect from a selfish person. On that note, I would also like to say I'm happy with what she did even though i personally felt she was wrong cuz i dont want her to play CUPID 🤢



the only reason she is being selfish is because she likes samrat which is justified...but im also happy with you as it does make samrat realize gunjan's importance 😃
Edited by pakirani - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: pyaridilwalino1

I have a hard time justifying Sheena, or even giving her reasoning the benefit of doubt because she knows how Gunjan feels. And she does have hints as to how Samrat feels about Gunjan. When a guy says that Gunjan has changed me and the way she knows me nobody else does, one will obviously understand the importance of the relationship. You can't break good old ties to form new ones.

Sheena knows how Gunjan feels about Samrat, but still has kept that away from Samrat. If she told Samrat that Gunjan likes you and I know you love me, that is why I feel insecure so you should stop being friends with Gunjan...then I would definitely say okay Sheena you are right in your stance. But Sheena has NOT said that...instead she is keeping facts away from the guy she supposedly loves. How can she herself ask Samrat to choose, when she can't even tell him the truth?
I like your topic pakirani! I am enjoying the discussion it is encouraging! 👏
Shweta



but its not sheenas place to say anything to samrat about gunjans feelings...tho im sure sam will balst her when he finds out she nu.....and tho im always justigying sheena i do agree that she has had signs and i shud understand the depth of their friendship...but she has feelings for this guy...its hard to be so rational...so i dnt thinks he can be called selfish...ur idea of the way she sed it to samrat...wud obv be ideal....but 1)its not her place to say about gunjan....and 2) its easier to think that sitting back and watching...ppl react differently...and i dnt think she can be classified as wrong....not ryt either...but just not wrong...she cud have gone about things differently...but that dusnt make her evil as some ppl think....at least thats how i feell...


im enjoying discussing this too cz everyone has really valid points...no1 is wrong...thats the interesting part...lol
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Posted: 16 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: pakirani

ok, now before you guys all hate me for posting this thread, i just want to say that sheena is right in her perspective...what girl would want her guy to feel another girl is special besides herself?? and someone she loves who gives more importance to another girl rather than herself?? instead of bashing and hating sheena you have to rationally understand that her objective on this "breaking the whole friendship thing" is similar to reality...don't you guys think? every girl feels possessive over her boyrfriend or husband...and in sheena's case, its pretty common for someone to express her jealousy

i know that we all want sajan to be together and we all love them very much but every girl has that insecurity within herself...and thats whats causing sheena to separate gunjan and samrat regardless if they're best friends. if i ever liked a guy like samrat and he had the same relationship with his best (female) friend, similar to gunjan, then i would probably do the same as sheena...yet, for the exception of the precap (because that was really harsh😕) however, sheena did absolutely justice by mentioning this to samrat before they began a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship because it's better for a guy to understand his girlfriend's feelings and insecurity. that way less problems can occur and samrat can give more attention and love to sheena (which of course i don't want either but im saying that its a basic concept among majority of girls 😆) do tell me your views guys! 😳


-maaria 😳




First, nice topic! (i haven't watched the episode yet so these r my comments based on what epis i have seen)

Benig a SaJan fan, I really don't like Sheena and her expectations from Samrat (asking him to forget his friendship with Gunjan) At this point, I identify more with Gunjan's character than Sheena's.
I never really hated Sheena until last week when she knew about Gunjan's feelings but completely neglected them and hugged Samrat so tightly, and let Gunjan standing yet again ! its like she was trying to drive home the point that Samrat is hers and only hers.
As a SaJan/Gunjan fan, that really annoyed me! (A lot more than the Sammy-Sheena hug at the hospital)

Now as for Sheena. I'd say she is acting somewhat realistically and like u said, everyone has their own securities. We can't expect her to act like Gunjan cuz she isn't Gunjan and there would be no difference between her. But don't u think she is acting a bit manipluative now? First she tried to figure out if there was anything going on between SaJan. i think she's got the answer now. But sheeena's starting to acting sneaky now. its kinda like the nice act was all a show, or maybe seeing SaJans gr8 friendship mroe and more made her insecure as she started to like samrat more n more.
she claims to be straightforward but now that she has some answers, she's playing games now.

Today Samrat asked him to break off his friendship tomorrow? what will she ask him tomorrow? in every relationship, compromise is important....understanding the other person is important. But is Sheena really doing this? she wants Samrat to understand her POV but it can't be one way. sheena wants to control him now-- who he is friends with, who he hangs out with. i mean, he already doesn't spend time with his old buddies like before. the foundation of their relationship has been weak from the start and its just getting weaker and weaker. But no complaints as this will lead to Sajan together. her request to Samrat shows her insecurity- in herself n her relationship with Samrat.

anyway, i really feel she's forcing the issue now. but its fine cuz it shows the diff between Sheena and Gunjan (they r poles apart) and sooner or later, Samrat will realize it as well....and he'll realise who is real friends are. the ones who like him for who he is.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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@sona: How come u r ol so early today? :P LOL i didn't made that NY avi. It's free to use so u can use it =)
Umm about her being cupid or not. It can go either way. I would LOVE it if she doesn't play cupid. But they never show wat we want so I'm sure this all sheena's plan to make sam realize
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Posted: 16 years ago
#37

Originally posted by: MohitSanayaFan



First, nice topic! (i haven't watched the episode yet so these r my comments based on what epis i have seen)

Benig a SaJan fan, I really don't like Sheena and her expectations from Samrat (asking him to forget his friendship with Gunjan) At this point, I identify more with Gunjan's character than Sheena's.
I never really hated Sheena until last week when she knew about Gunjan's feelings but completely neglected them and hugged Samrat so tightly, and let Gunjan standing yet again ! its like she was trying to drive home the point that Samrat is hers and only hers.
As a SaJan/Gunjan fan, that really annoyed me! (A lot more than the Sammy-Sheena hug at the hospital)

Now as for Sheena. I'd say she is acting somewhat realistically and like u said, everyone has their own securities. We can't expect her to act like Gunjan cuz she isn't Gunjan and there would be no difference between her. But don't u think she is acting a bit manipluative now? First she tried to figure out if there was anything going on between SaJan. i think she's got the answer now. But sheeena's starting to acting sneaky now. its kinda like the nice act was all a show, or maybe seeing SaJans gr8 friendship mroe and more made her insecure as she started to like samrat more n more.
she claims to be straightforward but now that she has some answers, she's playing games now.

Today Samrat asked him to break off his friendship tomorrow? what will she ask him tomorrow? in every relationship, compromise is important....understanding the other person is important. But is Sheena really doing this? she wants Samrat to understand her POV but it can't be one way. sheena wants to control him now-- who he is friends with, who he hangs out with. i mean, he already doesn't spend time with his old buddies like before. the foundation of their relationship has been weak from the start and its just getting weaker and weaker. But no complaints as this will lead to Sajan together. her request to Samrat shows her insecurity- in herself n her relationship with Samrat.

anyway, i really feel she's forcing the issue now. but its fine cuz it shows the diff between Sheena and Gunjan (they r poles apart) and sooner or later, Samrat will realize it as well....and he'll realise who is real friends are. the ones who like him for who he is.



i like ur reasoning...the bit in bold....yes that was rather insensitive of her...

@red i dnt think she will ask for anything more....compromise is important...and francly speaking i think she has attempted to compromise quite a lot....but on ur second date to be still singing praises of onlygunjan wud make me want to thump him....i dnt think sheena want to control him at all....but hes on a date with her and all he did was talk abt gunjan...how is she ment to feel....2nd date same thing really....is she just ment to take all of this...sit there on a date and listen to how amazing gunjan is?? if sheena backs down..samrat wud follow her and ask her why...then what will she say..i think theres sumin btwn u n gunj..he will say no like he has already done..and poor girl is back to sq 1....yes their foundation is week..and that will b the key to them not working out....as u sed its a good thing....sajan will unite as a result! LOL

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Posted: 16 years ago
#38

Originally posted by: pyaridilwalino1

I have a hard time justifying Sheena, or even giving her reasoning the benefit of doubt because she knows how Gunjan feels. And she does have hints as to how Samrat feels about Gunjan. When a guy says that Gunjan has changed me and the way she knows me nobody else does, one will obviously understand the importance of the relationship. You can't break good old ties to form new ones.

Sheena knows how Gunjan feels about Samrat, but still has kept that away from Samrat. If she told Samrat that Gunjan likes you and I know you love me, that is why I feel insecure so you should stop being friends with Gunjan...then I would definitely say okay Sheena you are right in your stance. But Sheena has NOT said that...instead she is keeping facts away from the guy she supposedly loves. How can she herself ask Samrat to choose, when she can't even tell him the truth?
I like your topic pakirani! I am enjoying the discussion it is encouraging! 👏
Shweta



@red: exactly...

@black: havent seen the episode yet, but a very good point.... if sheena claims on being as straightforward as she says she is, then why not give all the facts? Cuz she knows what will happen after that and she is afraid. i guess from her POV, it is valid but then, i reallly can't say sheeena is right and doing all this for samrat and their relationship's sake.

but whatever she is doing is right for the story.. just hope Sheena isn't playing Cupid...that would be the worst twist.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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wow looking at all the pages..now i come to express my opinion.

starting off i declare that I am a Sajan fan. After 2 weeks into sheena's entry that she has learned about Samrat-Gunjan's friendship with is deeper than the core of the earth (why not😉). She has seen the depth of emotions that samrat and gunjan harbor for each other.

I feel in the last week or so Sheena has realized Gunjan's feelings (we saw her hear from the back😆 no camera can forget that😉). We have seen Sheena feel that Gunjan has some sort of feelings b4 she even heard Gunjan say it directly out of her mouth. Now for me Sheena seems to want to really find out the confused Samrat's feelings.

Yes sheena likes samrat and wants a deep relationship with him. If she is really liking him, then yes her jealously is correct..but the way she presented the idea of breaking that friendship felt to directly to soon. I think she should have given examples or some dose of what she felt directly to him and told him to please try to understand my feelings. If Samrat-Gunjan friendship was still in depth relation and she felt it was effecting her..then she shud then give Samrat the final ultimatium.

For now i feel gunjan will break the friendship. But I think sheena shud have spoken to samrat in detail. I do find it sad to always see Gunjan cry a lot..but i think now sheena-samrat = shammy track needs this major twist warna we will be left with an empty katora.

Luv
Avani

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Edited by sportskp - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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