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maaria

@pakirani

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

ok, now before you guys all hate me for posting this thread, i just want to say that sheena is right in her perspective...what girl would want her guy to feel another girl is special besides herself?? and someone she loves who gives more importance to another girl rather than herself?? instead of bashing and hating sheena you have to rationally understand that her objective on this "breaking the whole friendship thing" is similar to reality...don't you guys think? every girl feels possessive over her boyrfriend or husband...and in sheena's case, its pretty common for someone to express her jealousy

i know that we all want sajan to be together and we all love them very much but every girl has that insecurity within herself...and thats whats causing sheena to separate gunjan and samrat regardless if they're best friends. if i ever liked a guy like samrat and he had the same relationship with his best (female) friend, similar to gunjan, then i would probably do the same as sheena...yet, for the exception of the precap (because that was really harsh😕) however, sheena did absolutely justice by mentioning this to samrat before they began a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship because it's better for a guy to understand his girlfriend's feelings and insecurity. that way less problems can occur and samrat can give more attention and love to sheena (which of course i don't want either but im saying that its a basic concept among majority of girls 😆) do tell me your views guys! 😳

-maaria 😳

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Piya

@piya2025

Stunner

+ 7

Posted: 16 years ago

ok understand ur point but let me know..
U loves a guy & he has a close friend & he gives importance as much sam gives to Ghunjan so 'll u ask ur beloved to break his friendship just 4her sake ?

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astha

@Asthuox

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 16 years ago

Well...

I understand the girl but i would NEVER do this knowing Gunjan's feelings to. I mean if i knew Gunjan loves Samrat, i would never want to make her feel even more hurt by taking Samrat away from her as a friend.

"The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love someone else". I would feel the insecurity but i would never want to break a friendship so strong. I would talk to Samrat about it and tell him how i feel but never do something like this.

I mean if Samrat has told Sheena that there is nothing between him and Gunji then she would understand then force him. I understand she doesnt want another girl to be special in his life then her but then she should know what Gunjan has done for him and why he always addresses her as a special friend in his life. She is his best friend and he really cares for her. How can she just tell him to break all his ties with her. If she is feeling jealous and left out tell him. I mean if they go out, Samrat is going to with her but he doesnt have to 24/7. I mean being in a relationship doesnt always mean you forget the people around you. I just cant believe she spoke she rudely to Gunjan. How is she at fault. Samrat was right, Gunjan isnt the problem. Its Sheena insecurity. The precap is ruined by mood so i dont know how to express my feelings that well.

Half my stuff wouldnt even make sense. 😕

Dont worry babes i dont think no one will hate you for posting this. I think you have done a good job in understanding Sheena. 👏😳

Edited by Asthuox - 16 years ago

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@-SMay31-

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Posted: 16 years ago

but here point is tht sheena have some clue tht both love each other..

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Afraa89

@Afraa89

Inactive

Posted: 16 years ago

if she really loves samrat then she shud trust him

i know evry gal wants his bf to looks at her but it doesnt mean that for her love sake his partner breaks all the rules which he deserved the most

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Shweta

@pyaridilwalino1

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

I really don't think sheena is "right" in her case. She is insecure and the solution to insecurities is not to give your boyfriend an ultimatum. It comes to a point where Sheena isn't insecure of Samrat, but really insecure of herself. If she was confident of herself, and the love she has for Samrat then she wouldn't care if Gunjan and Samrat were best friends. Sheena has a lot of realization to go through.

Shweta

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@-SMay31-

Sparkler

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: Afraa89
if she really loves samrat then she shud trust him

i know evry gal wants his bf to looks at her but it doesnt mean that for her love sake his partner breaks all the rules which he deserved the most

But No gal want his bf 2 be so closed wid other gal Xcept her 😛

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maaria

@pakirani

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: piya2025
ok understand ur point but let me know..
U loves a guy & he has a close friend & he gives importance as much sam gives to Ghunjan so 'll u ask ur beloved to break his friendship just 4her sake ?

well, to be honest, it depends on how the his friend is herself...gunjan is a sweetheart and thats what sheena mentioned herself but if his friend was a total flirt and wanted samrat all for her own sake then yea i would probably have samrat break his friendship with her and if he can't then i would probably leave him...i know that sheena is wrong in wanting to break sajan's friendship but then again i could understand her insecurity...

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maaria

@pakirani

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: Asthuox
Well...

I understand the girl but i would NEVER do this knowing Gunjan's feelings to. I mean if i knew Gunjan loves Samrat, i would never want to make her feel even more hurt by taking Samrat away from her as a friend.

"The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love someone else". I would feel the insecurity but i would never want to break a friendship so strong. I would talk to Samrat about it and tell him how i feel but never do something like this.

I mean if Samrat has told Sheena that there is nothing between him and Gunji then she would understand then force him. I understand she doesnt want another girl to be special in his life then her but then she should know what Gunjan has done for him and why he always addresses her as a special friend in his life. She is his best friend and he really cares for her. How can she just tell him to break all his ties with her. If she is feeling jealous and left out tell him. I mean if they go out, Samrat is going to with her but he doesnt have to 24/7. I mean being in a relationship doesnt always mean you forget the people around you. I just cant believe she spoke she rudely to Gunjan. How is she at fault. Samrat was right, Gunjan isnt the problem. Its Sheena insecurity. The precap is ruined by mood so i dont know how to express my feelings that well.

Half my stuff wouldnt even make sense. 😕

Dont worry babes i dont think no one will hate you for posting this. I think you have done a good job in understanding Sheena. 👏😳

@ red: you know i do understand your point, and yesss sheena is a very insecure person...and her trying to break sajan's friendship is also wrong but im sure a lot of girls would do that maybe even me depending on how his friend is herself and how close he is with her...but then again your right! she should talk to him about her insecurity with samrat not break the friendship...and she shouldn't disregard the people around him and who mean a lot to him...because he isn't hers 24/7...oh and yea, the precap definitely ruined my mood completely...if i guy i liked and he had a best friend like gunjan then i would definitely not treat her like how sheena treated her...and thank you for not hating me 😆 i agree with everyone here in their perspectives 😳

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sonali.19281

@sonali.19281

Sparkler

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Posted: 16 years ago

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First of all I think everyone has their share of insecurities in every relationship. But having said that let me back up a little bit. HOW LONG HAS SHEENA been around really?????

ever since she came she has seen SAJAN together n thee proclaimed BFs. okay she has a crush on Sam..point taken? but then she tries to notice if there is really something more btw them which quite nice and smart coz you'd want to do thar for yourself too if you want to move ahead with the guy. Hope I made sense

till this bit all was fine. Inspite of knowing how Gunjan felt and seeing Samrat react the way he does would you still want to put yourself in this??? I would want to stay away from them coz its quite possible these 2 BF might end up dating. Has she never considered the point what if Sam found out about how Gunjan felt...Sheena is being completely irrational in trying to pursue her chances which is a complete winless situation if you ask me. And asking Sam to keep away from Gunjan is quite a juvenile suggestion..

though we all have insecurites there's a logical and a wasteful way of dealing with it. So I think she is bringing to herself.
wow that was long.. 😆

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