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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Siddi

but here point is tht sheena have some clue tht both love each other..



true, but then again sheena asked samrat if he has any feelings for gunjan and he replied with a "no". i know some of us would back out if we find out that gunjan loves samrat but if he doesn't love her back then i guess its understandable for sheena to pursue a relationship with him.

and at sheena "attempting" to break sajan's friendship, maybe something good will come out of it! i have a strong feeling she just wants to see if samrat really cares for gunjan or not, which clearly shows he does 😃

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Siddi

But No gal want his bf 2 be so closed wid other gal Xcept her 😛



i agree with siddi completely! and afraa89 (nice name btw 😃) a lot of girls have trust issues with their beloved...and its not that she probably doesn't trust samrat its more of gunjan that she thinks is the problem...since their so close and she feels that they might have feelings for each other (even though samrat doesn't realize it) she doesn't want them to be too close so that they end up falling for each other even if gunjan already has...hope i made sense...please don't kill me for saying this 😆
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: pakirani

ok, now before you guys all hate me for posting this thread, i just want to say that sheena is right in her perspective...what girl would want her guy to feel another girl is special besides herself?? and someone she loves who gives more importance to another girl rather than herself?? instead of bashing and hating sheena you have to rationally understand that her objective on this "breaking the whole friendship thing" is similar to reality...don't you guys think? every girl feels possessive over her boyrfriend or husband...and in sheena's case, its pretty common for someone to express her jealousy

u knw wat dey say abt clinging on 2 sumone ...... da more u try n control dem .. da more dey r likely 2 bolt

jealousy, possessiveness , clingy behaviour ...... r da most common reasons for divorce ( trust me on dis one ) ..
every individual ... be it a girl or a guy .... deserve dere freedom ..... being a girl i wud hate my guy telling me dont talk 2 dis guy n dont talk 2 dat guy ...... am insecure ... u treat him better blah blah .. iwud expect him 2 respect me n my space
similarly i wud respect da guy n his space as well ... do unto others as u wud like dem 2 do 2 u ... dats my motto


i know that we all want sajan to be together and we all love them very much but every girl has that insecurity within herself...and thats whats causing sheena to separate gunjan and samrat regardless if they're best friends. if i ever liked a guy like samrat and he had the same relationship with his best (female) friend, similar to gunjan, then i would probably do the same as sheena...yet, for the exception of the precap (because that was really harsh😕)
i dont agree ..... if shes insecure .. den she needs 2 work on being a better person herself before asking him 2 break off with his other friends
she has it in her head ... guys like me only coz of my beauty ... n girls dislike me coz of dat .. dey r jealous .... dude shes a wacko girl .. ne guy in his right senses wudnt stay wit such a bundle of contradictions
however, sheena did absolutely justice by mentioning this to samrat before they began a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship because it's better for a guy to understand his girlfriend's feelings and insecurity. that way less problems can occur and samrat can give more attention and love to sheena (which of course i don't want either but im saying that its a basic concept among majority of girls 😆) do tell me your views guys! 😳
no she didnt clarify things before hand .... she basically kept dat as a condition for dere relationship ..... choose me or her n dats her biggest folly
also sheee-na probably forgot ... distance makes da heart grow fonder ... da more she will keep him away from gnuajn ... da more he will yearn for her
am sorry i jus cant understand crazy females like sheee-na
also da cardinal rule ... no guy likes his girl friend not getting along wit his friends



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Posted: 16 years ago
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Agree with u! but really,if she really likes samrat,she should trust him!
inspite of knowing about gunjan's feelings and what gunjan is doing to bring them together, she's being so narrow-minded!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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yeh i think sheena is right in her view...but i really cnt b arsed to mention all my reasons why as i have been doing so ever since she entered the serial....i feel bad for gunjan...but i think whats wrong is the situation and samrat to some extent not sheena....samrat doesnt understand his own feelings and thats the prob...and tbh sheena will sort that out...even tho unintentionally....so only good will happen in the end. as for sheena doing this knowing gunjans feelings....well i think its wrong to say any decent girl would not step in the way knowing her feelings....because its samrats feelings that matter.....before sajans bash me....im not saying gunjans feelings dont matter and i like seeing her cry...i dont..i cry when she crys and curse sheena too....butttt the point is...sheena likes samrat...gunjan likes samrat...what matters is hu samrat likes....if samrat likes gunjan then yes no girl shud step in the way....but if sam likes sheena then sheena ignoring the fact gunjan likes him shud not make a diff...i know that doesnt sound so nice....im not some saintly sacrificing person...i dnt believe in being selfish but i do believe in standing upfor urself fighting for ur self and thinking about ur self as well as others...as long a no WRONG methods are used. i see no wrong that sheena is thinking about herself....why shud she think about gunjan...why shud she sacrifice her love for her...hu is gunjan to her...no1....i know its not nice that she thinks like this...but it doesnt make her wrong indecent or a nasty selfish person...it makes her a human...who cud still b perfectly sweet and nice....and just not one of those perfect girls that are normally protrayed ias the main leads in indian serials....gunjan as a perfect example....there are v few ppl selfless like gunjan in the world...if any! i admire them but dnt think i cud ever b like them...and i dnt think that makes me a horrible person....at least i hope not

ppl dnt get me wrong im not a sheena fan im a sajan fan...and cry with them...im just saying its a situational problem not sheena problem...in my view...in any case in the end its gna bring gunjan and samrat together...so im happy....lol!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: pyaridilwalino1

I really don't think sheena is "right" in her case. She is insecure and the solution to insecurities is not to give your boyfriend an ultimatum. It comes to a point where Sheena isn't insecure of Samrat, but really insecure of herself. If she was confident of herself, and the love she has for Samrat then she wouldn't care if Gunjan and Samrat were best friends. Sheena has a lot of realization to go through.

Shweta



i agree...she does have a lot to understand especially of sajan's friendship...but im not saying its just her, generally girls have that instinct where they're insecure of their relationship with their boyfriend being too close to their female friends or females in general...however, yes girls should never give the person they love a choice between themselves or their friends, but i can understand her insecurity because obviously she doesn't want to lose him
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Posted: 16 years ago
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The problem lies that Sheena knows Gunjan loves Samrat and even Sheena has some clue that Samrat also harbors same feelings for Gunjan.

See, one thing I never understood is why torture Gunjan Sheena??
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: sonali.19281

First of all I think everyone has their share of insecurities in every relationship. But having said that let me back up a little bit. HOW LONG HAS SHEENA been around really?????

ever since she came she has seen SAJAN together n thee proclaimed BFs. okay she has a crush on Sam..point taken? but then she tries to notice if there is really something more btw them which quite nice and smart coz you'd want to do thar for yourself too if you want to move ahead with the guy. Hope I made sense

till this bit all was fine. Inspite of knowing how Gunjan felt and seeing Samrat react the way he does would you still want to put yourself in this??? I would want to stay away from them coz its quite possible these 2 BF might end up dating. Has she never considered the point what if Sam found out about how Gunjan felt...Sheena is being completely irrational in trying to pursue her chances which is a complete winless situation if you ask me. And asking Sam to keep away from Gunjan is quite a juvenile suggestion..

though we all have insecurites there's a logical and a wasteful way of dealing with it. So I think she is bringing to herself.
wow that was long.. 😆


@bold: yes i do understand her trying to see if there was anything between sajan which is what i would do for sure...but even if she knows that gunjan likes samrat, why is sheena going to back out in the relationship? for now, samrat likes sheena not gunjan...why would sheena sacrifice her love for gunjan's sake? it sounds harsh but in this case, it all depends on who samrat wants 😊
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I'm sorry but I don't agree with you. I don't think Sheena is right in asking Samrat to end his friendship with Gunjan. The problem isnt Gunjan as Samrat rightly said. Its about Sheena's jealousy and insecurity. And a gurl who is jealous and insecure about her before from the beginning of her relationship will always have a problem !! right now she wants samrat to end his friendship with gunjan, then a month later it would be Dia !! when a gurl is that insecure, the list is never ending !! when u love a guy, you have to accept him the way he is but also the ppl in his life. A relationship which starts with an ultimatum, can never be successful !!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: jenny1000

The problem lies that Sheena knows Gunjan loves Samrat and even Sheena has some clue that Samrat also harbors same feelings for Gunjan.

See, one thing I never understood is why torture Gunjan Sheena??



but see when sheena was suspicious over their relationship she questioned both of them...and when she asked samrat if he likes gunjan he said they were only best friends and nothing else...despite all this, he even said he likes sheena and would always flirt with her...i mean, i could understand her feelings for samrat because she knows he doesn't like gunjan...

P.S. i don't like sheena either but im saying that i can understan her jealousy because its very common amongst people in relationships

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