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Rafa.LunaPotter thumbnail
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Posted: 16 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: shamil

First of all, i think Myank is not to be blamed fully...though i think it is still someway his mistakle...he is being rude and taht doesnt solve any problems....He loves Nupur is good enough, But he wants to stay away from her is also fair enough, though I dont understand teh rude element in all this....❓

1. He somehow feels that nups is never gonna accept him as a romantic person. remember how eagerly he awaited her to say his name atleast once while she was trying to find her rajkumar by closing her
eyes ? par nups , the fool she is at times could not realise that every time she closed her eyes, she had visualised mayur along with all those irrelavant ppl. How can we forget his outburst, "sirf main bachaa hoon😆I totally agree with you on this one....he thinks he is too sophisticated to fall in love with her,and also he has this confusion...his books or love, love , something that he has never believed in!!!

2. Now just consider urself in his shoes.. If u have made up in your mind that the girl is not going to return ur love , being the practical guy he is But I think he knows he is being rude to her, only i dont understand why he hurts her then when he loves her and wants to stay away from her???❓❓❓

3. He knows that his mother is right abt suppressing his feelings and becoming a loser in life. par kya kare yaar, if only nupur had been soft towards him instead doing all the nautanki.. and retorting whenever I again agree with you....if she showed some sort of understanding than the usual arguing, he would have known that shhe felt something for him, ....but no Nupur doesnt show her fellings like that and hence Mayank behaves so!!!


My answers in red...:))
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Posted: 16 years ago
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i totally agree wid u...this is d reason which i had in my mind 4 mayank's rudeness...bechaara mayank...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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i think what nureat01 said, was true..
Edited by lovely_lady - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: Aranya

My answers in red...:))

aranya.. I think he doesnt feel that he is hurting her by being rude!! and nups, what is she doing???? frankly if I were in her shoes, I wd just keep away from from him! but no! our nupur cant do it! He must be thinking y is she bothering me when I dont want her to . Actually I feel that , we are more upset with mayu's behaviour than nupur herself😆.. Its high time she think over y she still wants to be friendly with this 'sadoo' .. ( we know the reason😉.)
Remember during the project jagda, she had been very aggressive challenging him like anything ( oh how I miss those moments😔) but now she has softened... and the reason is she knows that though he acts rudely at times , he is good at heart and cares for her ( though she hasnt grasped the fact that he is in love with her.)
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Posted: 16 years ago
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This is not completely Mayank's fault.....

The situation under he is going is also important…….Mayank knows he loves Nupur but when they both talk about Charming Prince of Nupur……Nupur doent even realize about Mayank……The girl he love cant even think of him as her Prince….. and this thing push Mayank Back…. Another thing is , he had set some targets for him self in life and because of this he can not concentrate on that……Avoiding Nupur is not easy for him as he love her….. that's why he is behaving so rude with her….. Hope Nupur soon realize Mayank's feeling and Care for her…..


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Posted: 16 years ago
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i agree with u all..
i think mayu just doesn't want 2 accept the fact that he loves nupur cuz he thinks that nupur is first of all going to effect his studies.he's gonna become irresponsible,not goin 2 payy attention 2 his mom..its actually fear that doesnt let him confess this!in other words he is just not ready for a relationship yet!
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: SidraLuvMayurBL

yaaar he does have reason to b rude and angry..i do agree..but seeeing him all angry like this for ONE MONTH has taken a toll on my health! this frustration came out as anger at him yesterday!😛

i really want to see him smile - not one of those small smiles - i wanna see him give his trademark style..be truly happy...and this is why i was so angry at him - why isn't he accepting this love!! 😭and i understand this takes time for a guy like mayank...but i hate it when he loses his calm composure..like yesterday...and one month is now too much - its time to step out of this denial stage...hope next few weeks show some progress..all i want right now is for him to step out of this denial stage and enter the acceptance stage!!😒

it makes me cry..............😭 ,,poor mayu.........Jhansi ki raani ne to unse......feelingless honeko majbur kar rakha hain!

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Posted: 16 years ago
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thanks a lot for making this post!! well, I was kinda tired abt reading the earlier posts wher all MayUr fans kept on bashing mayank for the way he was behaving wid nupur...n I didnt kno whether to protest or not..coz not being much of a MayUr fan..since I hadnt paid much attention to their storyline..I thought maybe all their die-hard fans wer right...but then after reading ur post I realised that these were the points I was thinking abt as well..!

first of all..he really has his goals set in his life...he wants a good career...n wants his mum to be self-satisfactory..wants to giv his mum the world's happiness...n I guess we should first of all give him 100% credit for being the person that he is..coz many guys his age dont even hav a clue as to wat they want from life...n he already knows wat he wants to achieve and is working towards it.... now, its true that he has fallen in love wid nupour...its not like he hasnt accepted it..he has accepted it, but he doesnt want to accept it..if u guys kno the difference..being the kinda focuseed person he is... it was a ruide shock to him wen he realised that his ambitions n his focus was getting reduced coz of this minor thing in his life...yes, he does consider that as minor..as he has different priorities in life...love is not the wonderful thing for him...it is quite justified that he considers it as an "obstacle" when trying to achieve his goal..any person wud hav reacted in the same manner.... plus, he is not so sure abt nupur's feelings ( here I emphasize that it is NOT her fault at all... she is totally unaware n absolutely right at her part ).. so he believs that maybe, he cannot be the right person for her..esp wen she so openly tells him always that he cannot be her sapno ka rajkumar...

so then, wat is this guy supposed to do? he has no control over his feelings ( who does? )...he cannot ignore her out n out as she is in his college and his class.. he cannot avoid talking to her...she makes sure of that... so he does the only thing that he can...n be rude to her..thinking that maybe he will get over her...which is not happening..he is frustrated inside...n is letting out all the frustration on her...n everyone's thinking he is becoming supere mega rude to her...but why cant anyone see the battle going on inside his heart...I m soo sure some part of his heart wants to be wid nupur..( the part which took care of her during the barn epis..which fought against the goons...which danced wid her in the rain...which told the driver to wait for a moment "kyunki woh hamesha bulati hain".. the drunken part which "goes home wid nupur! ONLY! " ) but the other part's telling him to stay away as it mmight not even lead to anything...n hence he might lose focus from the other important things in life...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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@ mads... i completely agree wid u ...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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wow mads! u have explained it better than me..😊
I love mayur as much as sajan..may be a little more. I can understand y ardent mayank fans are frustrated .. Mayank's character seems to have made a drastic change from what he was at the beginning. All of us were drawn towards his charming smile and attitude which seems to be missing nowadays. Love has made the poor thing a miserable creature! Hope the creative team find an interesting plot to bring back the old charming mayu with whom a lot of girls here have fallen head over heals.😉

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