Is mayank really at fault??!!

hi friends
most of here have been behind bechara mayu for being rude to nups. I would def like to take up the hottie's case and have an arguement😉😳
The question that we have to answer is
1. "why is mayu so rude to nups?"
2. Why is he always trying to run away from her?

I can readily come up with a few answers
hmmm...😆
1. He somehow feels that nups is never gonna accept him as a romantic person. remember how eagerly he awaited her to say his name atleast once while she was trying to find her rajkumar by closing her
eyes ? par nups , the fool she is at times could not realise that every time she closed her eyes, she had visualised mayur along with all those irrelavant ppl. How can we forget his outburst, "sirf main bachaa hoon😆

2. While coming back frm the academic meet, nupur had told him that he can never bhi her rajkumar( whatever lame excuse she gave for that)...

Now just consider urself in his shoes.. If u have made up in your mind that the girl is not going to return ur love ( ahh my poor mayu... how wrong u r there😳), being the practical guy he is, the best think wd be to keep away from her. And it must be really hurting him when he knows ( or as we know 'feels') that she is only trying to be his friend but nothing else)
3. He knows that his mother is right abt suppressing his feelings and becoming a loser in life. par kya kare yaar, if only nupur had been soft towards him instead doing all the nautanki.. and retorting whenever possible. Am sure if she had shown pain at his rudeness he wd have melted like the butterscotch ice cream they both love!😆

i think the reason why he is rude is becuz he himself is not ready to belive that a gys like him can fall for a girl like her, He is trying to persude himself to see that its just plain crazy he admited once that he likes her but these days he is jsut trying to fool himself!

@ komal.. well he has already accepted that he loves nupur to his mother! and the reason he gives for trying to stay away from her is def not that she is no match for him.

i dnt blame mayu either...i was getting quite upset yesterday with every1 turning on him....i really understand him....he knws its one way...so thats why hes staying away frm her...and ignoring her is the only way...its hard to b like gunjan...not many ppl can still b friends with sum1 u love but cant have....give him time to understand himself.....i mean look at the play....he didnt have to act so well in the auditions...if he dusnt wnt to do it then while being nupurs partner her cuda just dun a silly audition but he knws its important to nupur so he did his audition well too.....im saying that looking at the promo and precap!

Originally posted by: xOxMwahxOx

i dnt blame mayu either...i was getting quite upset yesterday with every1 turning on him....i really understand him....he knws its one way...so thats why hes staying away frm her...and ignoring her is the only way...its hard to b like gunjan...not many ppl can still b friends with sum1 u love but cant have....give him time to understand himself.....i mean look at the play....he didnt have to act so well in the auditions...if he dusnt wnt to do it then while being nupurs partner her cuda just dun a silly audition but he knws its important to nupur so he did his audition well too.....im saying that looking at the promo and precap!

thats what I too feel..
He knows very well that nupur is very much interested in being a part of the event. And he is ready to do anything to see her happy . If he is rude to her at present its only bcoz He feels his words and actions are not in anyway hurting nupur, coz she has no love for him. otherwise we would have seen a different mayu. We know how much he cares for her ( the academic meet was the best example).

yaaar he does have reason to b rude and angry..i do agree..but seeeing him all angry like this for ONE MONTH has taken a toll on my health! this frustration came out as anger at him yesterday!😛

Originally posted by: SidraLuvMayurBL

yaaar he does have reason to b rude and angry..i do agree..but seeeing him all angry like this for ONE MONTH has taken a toll on my health! this frustration came out as anger at him yesterday!😛

i really want to see him smile - not one of those small smiles - i wanna see him give his trademark style..be truly happy...and this is why i was so angry at him - why isn't he accepting this love!! 😭 and i understand this takes time for a guy like mayank...but i hate it when he loses his calm composure..like yesterday...and one month is now too much - its time to step out of this denial stage...hope next few weeks show some progress..all i want right now is for him to step out of this denial stage and enter the acceptance stage!!😒

😆sidra, I shd say its hign time they showed our old mayu, the mature, cheerful and sarcastic mayu that all of us love! This mayu is sure acting like a bachha...
But dont know y, I think I belong to that minority group who wdnt mind seeing this kiddish mayu😆 as long as he doesnt forget to flash his trade mark smile and crispy comments.

Originally posted by: SidraLuvMayurBL

yaaar he does have reason to b rude and angry..i do agree..but seeeing him all angry like this for ONE MONTH has taken a toll on my health! this frustration came out as anger at him yesterday!😛

i really want to see him smile - not one of those small smiles - i wanna see him give his trademark style..be truly happy...and this is why i was so angry at him - why isn't he accepting this love!! 😭 and i understand this takes time for a guy like mayank...but i hate it when he loses his calm composure..like yesterday...and one month is now too much - its time to step out of this denial stage...hope next few weeks show some progress..all i want right now is for him to step out of this denial stage and enter the acceptance stage!!😒

I agree with Sidra completely.....no one doubted Mayank's reasoning for running away from Nupur and trying to avoid her....but it's gotten tooooooo much now and it's gone on for too long frankly.....this story needs a change.....a relief.

And I don't think M is running away cuz he feels N won't return his love.....Mayank has STILL not fully even UNDERSTOOD that he's in LOVE! He thinks of it as only a distraction from his goals....the day he realizes the magnitude of his feelings....if that happens to be in this liftetime *rolls eyes* is the day he will set out to win Nupur over I think....

Yaar.... U are the best... U said what i wanted to say... Mayank s correct yaar... Nupur feels Mayank can never be his RajKumar.. This pushed Mayu to be rude to her... That s he wants to stay away from her... he decided to himself that he ll love her forever, achieve all his goals n keep mummy happy...