EVERY1 MUST READ- realistic group conflict!! - Page 6

First off, my name's Borna, so nice to meet you! 😃

I honestly have ALWAYS looked at MJHT as a whole, meaning, the big picture...Even though it may seem like I'm completely a SaJan fanatic, I really love MayUr just as much!

I tend to look at this whole "ingroup-outgroup" thing as a natural yet very unfortunate thing...Naturally we have our own preferences as to which jodi we like most, but I really, really wish people could step back (at least at the end of each week) and look at the show not as a MayUrian or a SaJanian, but as a MJHTian.

If I was to classify myself right now, I'd say that I'm a pure MJHTian at heart. I love everything about the show, from the characters to the storyline to the creatives' keen eye for detailing and their ability to keep the show relatively realistic (more so than the other show that I used to watch regularly, but has now gone so OTT that it's painful to watch).

Let's see...

I do confess that I'm more of a SaJan fan because I can relate to Gunjan's feelings and her personality is a lot like mine...And not in that cliched "seedhi saadhi" way...Genuinely. And it's interesting because when I first considered watching the show, I thought I wouldn't like seeing yet another supposedly "seedhi saadhi" girl onscreen, since I had bad experiences with other shows...But the way that Gunjan's character was handled made me identify with her instantly, and now I absolutely adore her!

I love Nupur primarily because she's such a loving sister! See, there's a different angle to this SaJan-MayUr stuff! 😉 I look forward to Nupur-Gunjan scenes more than anything else, really, because they're just such a wonderful example of a loving sibling relationship!

Nupur is such a great contrast to her little sister, and that's another thing that I really love about this show...Nupur's cheeriness and the way that she differs from Gunjan makes her much more of a flamboyant person, if you can see where I'm coming from.

I tend to look at SaJan and MayUr's relationships from the two sisters' perspectives...The way that their personalities are...And then the fact that SaJan's story is more slow-paced and gradual and the fact that MayUr's is a bit more fast-paced, but not to the point of being unrealistic or over-the-top, in either case, is just much easier to accept rather than crying over screen time - we know they're all going to have their stories told...

Just sit back and enjoy the show, my fellow MJHTians! 😊

(Sorry for the looong post...I tend to write a lot. And see, that didn't even touch on the actual jodis! 😆 If I talked about MayUr and SaJan, then this would go on forever...)

LOL sids you are a terrible friend!!! You're supposed to MAKE me go study!! Apni TRP's ki padi hai tujhe bhi. LOL aj ke liye bahaut TRP's raise hogaye tere yaar ab I really need to study! Haan phir kabhi karungi teri TRP's raise main. ab pyaar se mujhe keh ki bhagoooooo!! *runs away*

I agree with every word you had to say on this topic...we really needed a post like this on this forum.

Its astounding the heights to which the arguments get carried away and then so many warnings and such...

Everyone should understand that the ones supporting the other jodi like them as they do to theirs and thats understandable enough...

Well, I like both Sajan and Mayur but if asked to choose would definitly be more biased towards Mayur but that doesn't mean I would bash Sajan, they are just as cute and adorable...

Frankly speaking I really don't get the fight....I mean, everyone loves the SAME show so there must be something that everyone likes altogether. That's the group we ALL belong to.

So glad you posted this yaar...maybe finally some peacemaking...

Nidhi

I absolutely agree with every word that's bolded, Nidhi! 👏👏👏

That's my view as well...I love the show as a whole, and I just hate seeing fights/complaining pop up because of which jodi is getting more time onscreen and all...

Don't all stories have to be told, anyway? It takes time for that to happen, and with not one but two lead jodis, there needs to be enough patience so that both Nupur's and Gunjan's stories can unfold.

(Yes, I'm referring to MayUr and SaJan in that way, because the show started out with Nupur and Gunjan's journey from Morena...And it's more or less about the people they meet who change their lives significantly...😊)

1st of a very nice post :)
& 2ndly i agree .. saying u wid a example:Which quite match ur theories😉
I guess 2days ago i was talking wid Tanya (Bublypix i guess her username) we talked in Raee di,rahi/sanu fanz topic.Frankly,atleast 4m my side i'd a great time wid her,though i know she's a mayurian so she knew im a sajanian..:) but inspite of this fact we were talking wid each other..was laughing,n all..😆why?coz that time we were talking not as a sajan or mayur fan we were talking as a sanu/Rahi fan😉So this goes wid ur theory..Right?

Now here's my confusion + dont know what:(😕😆

Do u really think ur topic can help all of us to think d way u said?
Im asking this bcoz i'v tried my level best to sort out this problem but me gave up..coz somewhere i read & i'v no problem to say here as ur post meant to be Bindas bol..ok i read that some of u r saying me, samrat nahi rahegha toh koi baat nahin yea hai na MJHT forum k guru🤣🤣
& the another reason that making me think that will this topic help every1 to understand d fact & be friendly wid all members in this forum?
Again wid a example:🤣

I read ..Some1 said who used to be a close friend of mine,coz we knows each other b4 we joined MJHT forum...She write somewhere that Ghunjan song sequence in Monday's epi it was a waste of time & was unnessesarily shown..
Think,If only if ,when u guyz'll get song 4mayur ..& any of us sajan fan say,ahh !yea kya hai waste of time hai..then dont u guyz feel bad..??
I know then u guyz 'll react coz its ovious but i read that , as a fan of that jodi,it hurts me but i didnt react .. coz members doing this continuously till date..
But its not at all right..im sure when mayur song 'll be out..all mayurians would be really happy & 'lkl not think it was a waste of time then y some of u think sajan song was a waste of time..Logic..think..think..
accha i said what was in my mind :) but hopefully all pll 'll get d fact that all of them r important in MJHT..Is just dat u r a fan of a jodi more than the other..but it doesnt mean other one is just not so happening or totally waste of time..

& as zarra said-i totally agree wid u girl..it totally happening everywhere..lol if u r not a fan of a jodi which ur friend like,she 'll like to talk wid u..But dont worry..im a die hard kash fan..but u like kasu,never mind..its just bcoz u r a nice girl..no matter u r a fan of which jodi..it doesnt creat any differences to me :)

Love
piya.