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Kiran--Madiha

@kiran--madi

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Posted: 16 years ago

#61

Sidra i think u rly deserve this.... 🤗 Gurl....!!!! vry honestly wen i strtd 2 read this...i wz lyk...kitna lamba hai?!n all those big big terms...bt as i went on reading didnt evn realize wen i luved da complete idea....
u n ur common sense...😆

But hey no offence...!!!

Gr8 message...👍🏼

N i luv this line...n here it is 4 all MJHTianz...:

"GUYZ LETZ B MJHTianz rather than MaYurianz o SaJan fanz.."

I mean ofcourse have ur favourite pair bt then use ur favourites in a way that make this forum the best forum on IF....😃

I rly hp Sidra's "common sense" 😉, odrz' rplies n my words hlp..

Kiran😳

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Roma

@romiebee2002

Stunner

Posted: 16 years ago

#62

Woah sids😉 what a great topic you have analyzed 👏 i had a feeling you would bring up this theory sooner or later 😆

First of all your post was long ! 😆😆 i have to say ingroup/ outgroup effect forsure exists here & well we psych majors know that this phenomenon is innate & is present everywhere & well it exists in virtual world too 😆😛

Just like mimi said I am on team Switzerland.I am a MJHT fan, i love both SaJan & MayUr and the rest of the cast so I suppose this theory of realistic group or ingroup or outgroup effect does not apply to me 😛 I visit both the mansion & the paradise & I very much enjoy the discussions therefore no bounderies & i think it should be that way also for everyone 🤔

Thanx for creating awareness 🤗

Edited by romiebee2002 - 16 years ago

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Cute_Ash

@Cute_Ash

Stunner

+ 8

Posted: 16 years ago

#63

First of of all sory but didn't get ur teh 1st part quite bad at tht!

But quite understood how it related to mjht!

You ahve said everything from my heart lolz!

Seriously this is the main thing if every member of the mjht forum or anyotehr hsow which has two differnet gropus

undertsnads this no problem at all

Life will be so esy simple teh only thing u have to do is enjoy!

Coz both the couples make a complete show miley jab hum tum which all of us luv to bits!

Every character builds it up even negative characters

O cuming bak to sajan mayur

If both the groups understand this then we will have peace her eno fights will be able to enjoy every moment and also mesmerse it!

Toh bacha log aao ek sweet si Jaadu ki jhappi pa lo!

And sids di great post

and long too lolz!

Luv

ash

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AreYaar

@AreYaar

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+ 19

Posted: 16 years ago

#64

Great analysis, Sidra👏👏 You make some very good points!

However, in my personal opinion...and this is not to bash on anyone....what is needed at a basic level is maturity and atleast some semblance of detachment....this is just a show, for god's sake! But ppl forget that for the most part and then take off into doing OTT things and that leads to conflicts. The saddest groups are those who deliberately sit and PLAN ways to needle at the opposing groups and then try and act like innocent touch me nots😆😆.....Ah well, to each his own.

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@-dramaholic-

Inactive

+ 6

Posted: 16 years ago

#65

Exellecent Job in explaining that its just a show & both couples are important. I hope all members understand this and everyone unites as 1 and make MJHT forum rock.

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Sid

@Sid4TeamCanada

Sparkler

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Posted: 16 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: DramaholicVibes
Exellecent Job in explaining that its just a show & both couples are important. I hope all members understand this and everyone unites as 1 and make MJHT forum rock.

shukriya mod ji😳 for a sec there when i saw ur id here i was scared that maybe my topic was abt to be closed!!😆😆😆

Edited by SidraLuvMayurBL - 16 years ago

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Senny

@Senny

Inactive

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Posted: 16 years ago

#67

hey sidra this is awesome. excellent analysis this is soooo true. It hards to apply but nothing is impossible with a little bit of dedication and hardwork. good job.

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-Grace-

@-Grace-

Rocker

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Posted: 16 years ago

#68

AMazing post siddy. read half of it y'day..lmao...

but the points are good and convincing.

i never felt that way but i understand others' feelings who feel this way.

i hope no more arguments...waise im on both sides...lol

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Sid

@Sid4TeamCanada

Sparkler

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Posted: 16 years ago

#69

Originally posted by: nureat01
Great analysis, Sidra👏👏 You make some very good points!

However, in my personal opinion...and this is not to bash on anyone....what is needed at a basic level is maturity and atleast some semblance of detachment....this is just a show, for god's sake! But ppl forget that for the most part and then take off into doing OTT things and that leads to conflicts. The saddest groups are those who deliberately sit and PLAN ways to needle at the opposing groups and then try and act like innocent touch me nots😆😆.....Ah well, to each his own.

@bold: LMAO!🤣no offense to any1 - but taking out time and PLOTTING against other groups JUST becuz they are fans of the other jodi is just....um....SILLY...truly SAD!!

maturity is a very imp point anu -thnks for bringing it up!😊

yet another aspect of the whole group thing is..in groups v sometimes tend to do things and say things that v wud never say or do when we're alone..because in groups things tend to get carried away at times...wht is imp to remember i that we don't only belong to a certain group! we belong to a variety of groups - abhi beth ke jis group ke against plan kar rahe ho kal ko in another context the same members of that outgroup could become ur ingroup members...

& yes anu u r absolutely right - maturity is needed - very imp to remember that at the end of the day..its just a show!..these are just some characters! ..and these are just some random actors.!..yes its ok to be attached to them...however they aren't worth so many arguments so many conflicts...they arent worth basing our dislike for each other on! judging others just becuz "she's a sajan fan - TYPICAL SAJANIANS"...or "aaah mayur fan hai - mayurians all alike!" ..don't judge ppl based on a jodi they like - remember there r MANY other things to a person than their fav jodi or show!😕

AND - this is a random point i just remembered, i forgot to mention yest: just becuz a sajan fans criticises mayur doesnt really mean they want to HURT MNians..just becuz an MN fan makes fun of sajan's scenes doesnt mean they want to hurt SGians - its just plain immature to take things so personally!😕 (again the topic of maturity - how imp it is , thnkx anu for bring it up😉)

Edited by SidraLuvMayurBL - 16 years ago