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Charu

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Posted: 10 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: ronshaan

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because sarla's kids are very smart, they speak to him share with him, tell him their problems
do his own kids do the same ?? **at home they can't but they can go to his work and share their pain , happiness and any thing (see he complained to his son that he did not tell him)
they say he does not listen, he does, try it out
shivam tried 1st time and raghav listend to him , helped him out to solve this issue

One more thing
when he realize he is wrong
he says he is sorry, he finds it hard to show his feelings but he does when needed, he tried to speak to shivam many times but that time shivam remained silent.

Sarla's kids are not smart bec they share with him, they are smart bec. they FOOL him , like Sarla and Shanti..that's why I always said, the guy is not negative, he has shades his character has no sense of judgement, which he thinks he has..It's not like he doesnt love his wife or kids...He knows nothing abt Sarla and her family and what all they do...he gives his income to his mother, and that's a rule ..whoever earns (Preeti also) gives her salary to Shanti, and Shanti divides it ..obviously leaving Kusiya begging for small things...she loves to dominate her like that...n Ragwa is obviously deaf dumb and blind to the plight of his family...leaving all issues aside, did he never realize how humiliating it is for his wife to beg money from his mother? NO ! he thinks its okay and this is the way they respect elders ! the problem is with this thinking..he wants his children to follow this tradition but all the three of them r trying to be independent n create a space for them..Sarla and Shanti are jealous of Kusiya and her children , n they USE Ragwa against them n have fun at their expense..

my friend, u go on saying that his children don't talk to him...in a family, when somebody doesn't listen to you or trust you, therez no point in arguing with them n trying to make them see/believe something which they r not ready to see/believe...koi bolega when they r heard, not otherwise..secretly or publicly...Kusiya doesnt do it bec. she wants peace and doesnt want her children to be troubled at the hands of Shanti and Ragwa..Do u see how uncomfortable she is when her children are blamed? she KNOWS they r innocent, YET she tries to stop them from revolting or creating a scene ..n her children do the same..for everything they do, their mother is blamed publicly ...so they avoid such confrontations..

Edited by _charu_ - 10 years ago