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Posted: 9 years ago
#51
Don't know what to say other than stay strong and talk to someone if possible.
Hugsss 🤗
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Posted: 9 years ago
#52
Karma will get them back 100% you may or may not find out but it's guaranteed
don't do it back, you are better than them
this interview might make you feel better the person talks about suicidal thoughts and feeling inferior to others https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9hF8veYLYA4
Edited by -Priya- - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#53
God never punishes anyone..
He is too kind n compassionate ..he just does nt
let the nt so kind ppl nt break the cycle of rebirths..
that is how he delivers justice...

bt yes i can tell u this much that the more
ppl bully u hurt u feel free to think urself blessed..
as when something is taken away from u be it even
ur confidence then be assured u shall soon get showered
with happiness double the sadness u feel any day...
just count ur blessings u will know then that ur bullies
unknowingly made u one of the favourites of God ..😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
#54
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Originally posted by: MrsSalmanKhan

Aww 🤗

First of all, know that you're not alone. There are many, many out there who get bullied every day by a bunch of idiots. I did too. My elementary school was fine, my high school was great as well but it started when I moved from a bigger City, to a smaller town populated by people with little mindsets. These people weren't used to welcoming different race.. so their mockery and laughter started, and literally it was every day. My brother and I were the ONLY desis in this school of 500 French Canadians 😆 so imagine

In my case, I didn't mind the bullying because I wasn't even interested in socializing with a bunch of people with whom my life can never relate to. People who I will not need in my future. I'm proud that I've been very practical about life since school days.

I was also laughed at for having a french accent when I spoke English 😲

I can never think of a reason for bullying because there isn't suppose to be any.
I can only label it as stupid immaturity. I can never bully irl. I will continue to bully shahrukh fans on india-forums though 😳

I know, when we are young, bullying does affect you deeply. Obviously, you're young, not as strong and you feel bad about the whole situation and why is it happening to you. You feel alone, sometimes I did too but eventually you learn to overcome it all.

Today, when I look back, I'm glad I never let it affect me. I'm glad I never tried to "blend in". I'm glad I never tried to change my ways to be "friends" with them.

Today, professionally I'm way above them. I stayed focused to what I want, who I care about, which people should matter and who shouldn't matter. I think being practical is the key. Once you convince yourself you don't need these people, neither do their opinion should matter to you even ONE BIT, you will be much happier about yourself.

I know where they are today. I know what they are doing. and now that I should be laughing at them, it's not the case because I feel pity.

I don't know how you felt bullied, the reason why you were bullied, (there is never a reason to be bullied btw) Do they used to laugh at you? Were they indian/pakistani as well? Honestly, be proud of who you are, your likes and dislikes, be proud of your body, the way you dress up, everything. We need to stop thinking "I wanna be like them". The world would be too boring if we were all the same. Tell yourself some people don't matter, you will never need them, and you'll feel much better.

& Don't wish ill for them. Just wish good for yourself.
As for THEM, Life will play its cards. You don't need to worry 😃





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I never knew there was such a strong woman behind the crazy Mrs Salman Khan !! Love you loads Mrs S.

@ Hopeless - I wish you discard this user name asap. You have got plenty advice and this forum is full of amazing people who come and be helpful when someone needs empathy n compassion .

I will answer you question - When will God punish them?

Karma payback is slow and there is no such thing as Instant-payback.

All those bullies affected you soul, so a simple punishment like fail in exam or competition will be too less punishment for them. They will never relate this punishment to what they did to you. So , let them fly high and enjoy life ...for now.
Karma will hit them when they are weak and it'll hit them through those people who they care for , the most. I have seen Karma hitting children of bullies. Sometimes bad deeds of parents are punished to their children...you are just 17, life is too long and God isn't blind to mean people

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PS - In your real id, if I was mean to you forgive me
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Posted: 9 years ago
#55
You guys are too kind to be true!! Thanks alot for all kind words :) Thanks again
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Posted: 9 years ago
#56
@rimi it has been so many years. i have just ended up ruining my life living in a hell but they all are happy with their friends hanging out doing stuff. And left me as a friendless loser. It was years ago but it all began then and today I am here with no life. It would not put all the blame on them because bullying is common but the impact was so strong that I feel trapped till today. I dont think they even realise they were wrong. It must have been normal for them as at the end of the day they emerged as a cool popular gang with lots of friends.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#57
its good to have friends but not the end of the world if you dont everyone has phases in their life when their friendship circle is better/worse
you can always make small steps towards it
even being friendly to your family/relatives is good
focus on your studies. just be a nice person to talk to/be around
hopefully you will make friends. you can start making some on IF
dont quit your studies keep trying, you dont have to be the best just try
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Posted: 9 years ago
#58
"The best revenge is to move on, get over it and continue to succeed. Never give someone the satisfaction of watching u suffer... "

That is all I can say friend... 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
#59
I'm so sorry that you've experienced so much pain at the hands of these people. It isn't right or fair, and you don't deserve it. But please don't give up on yourself. Remember, just because they don't see you as a wonderful person doesn't mean you aren't one, sweetheart.
I hope God will give you willpower and strength to be able to overcome this menace and to be able to forgive. Yes, forgive. So you can move on and live a wonderful life. There is always light at the end of a dark tunnel. You have to keep believing that!
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Posted: 9 years ago
#60
My Ragging at 2nd week of First year in IITKGP,

i was told to remove air from the tyre of few cycles(>5) as i was doing it one peon caught me at took me to HOD of Mechanical Engineering as i was in Mechanical Engineering

The HOD asked me has somebody told me to do or i am i doing some adventure. i remained silent , seeing my firmness the HOD told the peon to bring 20 cycles more and make me fill the air after removing air...

Peon brought all the cycles from near by zone ...while i was removing air the seniors who had told me were seeing this from distance ...as i removed the air from 25 cycles i started filling air from air pump ...when i crossed seven cycle one senior diverted the attention of peon and three seniors came and told me to go canteen and they will feel the rest ...but i didn't moved but stayed with them till they all filled the air of remaining cycle...

they brought me to the canteen and introduced me to all the seniors instantly i became famous ...

my point of saying is i am prepared to play a game according to the mentality of a person throughout me at adverse situation...if you ask how then the answer is simple understand the mentality

Here at IF too there are people who think that they are smart and only they are thick skin but when i played a game on them they got panicked ...and ran away like losers...still they are absconding from IF...

Don't runaway from situation nor fight it without plan...make a plan and execute it

ALL THE BEST 😊

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