When will God punish them?

Hey this is a throwaway account. I have been quite active on this forum since last few years. I wanted to talk my heart out here. This is the place I have felt happy being after being bullied since my childhood.

Have you spoken about it to your parents and school authorities??

I m curious to know what is the reason of u being bullied by all the ppl around u...can u share wid us!D

Wow. It's like looking at my reflection. I completely understand what you went through. But trust me, forget about why they haven't been punished from God. I was like that as well, and sometimes it occurs to me how have they done so well in life and I'm still a bit behind? But then again, I believe in what's written is written. My set of classmates had a lot of girls than guys and I don't want to sound racist or I'm picking on their colour but the bullies I had were black and white-black race it was horrible because they picked on me because I was just rubbish at sports like tennis, badminton, athletics but also I lost my confidence because these girls were big girls who were just so obsessed with competing and winning. EVERYTHING for them had to be WINNING and I wasn't like that so then the teachers had me go down a group (group that were average at sports like me but performed slightly better than me)

I was bullied for 3 years, I was bullied as well from my so called Pakistani friend and an Indian friend who was so nice to me but then became a bully in the presence of this other girl. But now she's married with a baby and Pakistani ex friend I think she is married and she's got a daughter but I don't talk to these people. In fact, since school-college days went I stopped interacting with all my friends.

But my advice is just forget about them. I have. It's not worth thinking why are they in a happy place? God plans in different ways and who knows :) your life might turn for the best. You never know what's around the corner.

Trust me, it's helped me. I work in different schools and helping children, it's brought a lot of confidence in me but the only negative side of it is that my anxiety affects when I work sometimes.

I have just wanting to have an answer when will God actually punish them or make them realise how it feels to live in a hell on this earth.

I'm so sorry you went through that.

I understand where you are coming from but as I said before, God plans and we don't know what's written for us. It's best to leave in God's hands.

I've learnt something about myself. I feel so much in ease when I'm on my own. Of course I have my girl cousins with me but there are just moments where I feel at peace with God and myself.

Originally posted by: hopelesss

I have just wanting to have an answer when will God actually punish them or make them realise how it feels to live in a hell on this earth.

I have this theory that bad people live a happy life cos God wants them to live some moments of happiness cos later they go to hell and suffer for an eternity 😈 so don't worry at all about them suffering, they definitely will!

Thank you ruky and tigress for sharing your personal experience. I guess I have a lot to learn before having such mature positive thinking but I feel far behind.

Shall I tell you something? One of my old classmates who I knew from nursery/infant days, I used to think she would be an athlete since she was so good at sports and next minute years later recently last year I seen her looking absolutely rough with a rucksack and on her own, apparently she has a child as well. I think she works but she lives her own life. She seen me but blanked me.