Confused soul!! Plz help if u can!!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: pulvi16

Hi Jazz,

Since you urself are not ready for this relationship then dont think yaar... and also since your parents will not agree to this marriage it is worthless and go ahead as per your parents wishes..
I would suggest u to stop worrying and relax...

<font size="2" color="#FF0099" face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">one thing i didn't understand is if he really really loves you then he should not have kept ur picture on the FB profile. that it self says he is not truly loving you and all </font><font size="2" color="#FF0099" face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">this </font><font size="2" color="#FF0099" face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">is lust... but not LOVE..

But based on your description i am not liking this guy...(don't take me wrong...)</font>



but please dont stop writing yaar... from the very begining idk why i felt that this story resembles your real life ...

OMG pulvi I just realised it now that my life is turning out to be just like Geet's story or the other way around i don't know!!!

But now that u ve pointed it out it's freaking me out!!!

I started writing this story in the beg of June n at that time I had just started with this relationship, so I had no idea that it's gonna be somewhat like my life!!! But hell it's turning out to be like my life!!!! I'm so scared now!!! What if everything comes true that I wrote for Geet! Omg! Omg!! Omg!!!!

Is my life turning into that movie shabd??!!! 😕

n I will go with ur advice..hell I don't want a monster like maan in my life...actually I hv already broken up with him but it still bothers me when he keeps on calling me again and again!!!!
I'm not the kind of person who can hurts people easily!!! So that's y it's being a bit difficult for me!!!

Originally posted by: angili

First I am angili sweety
My advice would be do not marry him because:
1- you are not even remotely in liking terms with him you were just passing time or filling a void
2- if we suppose you love him (or not) and married him against you parents it will always prick your heart and miss your parents and without the blessings of parents the marriage would never be happy
3- and if you two gets married what about kids how you will raise them which religion which culture you will give them if Sikh may be your husband will not like it and if christianizem you may not like it and plus what if he does something against your religion believes like drinking or eating something is forbidden in Sikh what will do can you live with it
And the kids will be confused what to follow you or him because if they ask you about religion you will give them an answer and if they ask him he will give another answer so
I say don't marry him or talk to him justcut him out you don't love him you will lose your parents love and if he respects you he would never post a picture of you and him on face book he is no good I don't like him for this either so no from me I hope my advise helped

Hi angili
thnx for ur advice
n u r right! I'm not going against my parents at any cost!!! But it bothers me when he keeps on following me, and calling me...it kinda make me feel like I'm being a bitch!!

N lol I wasn't even thinking abt kids 😳 but that's a very good point...

I know my parents would take the right decision for me...

Originally posted by: anshra

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<font size="3">Ok jazz..</font>

<font size="3">Here is my advice..</font>

<font size="3">Believe me life is very
serious</font>

<font size="3">And marriege decision you have
to take carefully it impact ur whole life</font>

<font size="3">And also people involved with
u</font>

<font size="3">Don't just make up any
decision on his pleading..</font>

<font size="3">Just first ask yourself what u
want..?</font>

<font size="3">Are u that serious that u woud
like to leave religion thing and everything behind for him..?</font>

<font size="3">First ask urself..</font>

<font size="3">N if u do love him to that
extent then accept him</font>

<font size="3">I would say Go Gal'.</font>

<font size="3">But if u don't then merely bcs
he is pleading don't accept..</font>

<font size="3">N I can c u r not that
seriously involved </font>

<font size="3">If that is case leave it</font>

<font size="3">He will be like this for few
months then he will move on..</font>

<font size="3">But don't put urself in
problems for a person whom u don't love so much..</font>

<font size="3">And don't think u look like
bitch</font>

<font size="3">Bcs u r just being wise..</font>

<font size="3">Luv ya</font>

<font size="3">Take care</font>

Thx Annie
for such a wonderful advice
I know u r rite!!! I trust my parents very much n I know they will take the rite decision for me!!

As u might hv guessed that I'm very confused person (my mom picks up even the clothes for me) so it's out of question that I'll go with any decision that's against my parents...

But still it hurts u somewhere seeing that u r hurting someone..n that too again n again!!!

Originally posted by: nazsij

take care dear...i will pray 4 u...i am not good in taking decisions...so i am not going to give any suggestion...but try to not hurt ur parents...

Thanx for understanding dear!!!
N I can't even think in my wildest dreams of hurting my parents

Originally posted by: krati5

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<font face="'Times New Roman', Times, serif" size="4" color="#6600cc">dn't consider d proposal... as no guy wuld do such thng of posting ur pic wd him on d fb... for me its a step to make u weak or (sry if i m being too much rude but) blackmail... (sry i knw u wuld be like she doesn't knw me syng nythng , but i jst want to say tht)</font>

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<font face="'Times New Roman', Times, serif" size="4" color="#6600cc">by his ds action . igt is clear tht guy hs no respect for u... nd bugging u every time doesn't mean tht u shld think tht he truly loves u.. (sry again)</font>

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<font face="'Times New Roman', Times, serif" size="4" color="#6600cc">plus u knw(as u said, u r nt sure abt ds ) its jst u like him nd u knw too much abt him... u r hvng doubt ...</font>

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<font face="'Times New Roman', Times, serif" size="4" color="#6600cc">so i think u shld nt consider it...</font>

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<font face="'Times New Roman', Times, serif" size="4" color="#6600cc">love in which there is no respect... is nt a true one... it cn never make u happy...</font>

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Thnx dear
even I was very shocked when I saw that pic on his FB...
Even I thot the same that he's trying to blackmail me!!! Otherwise what's the meaning of putting that pic after the break up???!!!
But I confronted him n he took it off
n yes I'm with u that I shd go with my parents

but it still hurts to refuse him again n again!!! I just hope he lets it go n move on!!!!

Originally posted by: maaneetsangel

hey jazz ,,,,... think about it with a peaceful mind n think what u want ...

coz ,,... its a matter of ur entire life ... n also involves people aroound u .. as in family n frnz ...

so think hard n then decide ...

just dont go with his pleadings ... like k what is my fault he was after me ...

hell nooo .. never do that ...

n a sincere advice ... ur parents wont take any wrong decision 4 u ...

so consider their choice ... n what ever u decide ... take ur parents into consideration n confess to them n do everything by taking their permission ... n confide in them ... they will surely help u out ...

they might get angry at first n scold u or worst slap u ... but at the end of the day ... they love u dearly n care 4 u ...

so believe in them ...

Thnx for ur advice dear!!!

I'm definitely going with my parents

Originally posted by: chubzy

Hi jazz i read ur problem and advices given by most of people n even i agree tat u shld not marry tat guy
Its jst tat his ego have been bruised n he calls his obcession as his love n jst for d sake of frenshp or out of pity u cant gamble wit ur life

Thnx dear for understanding!!!

I think the same too but it still bothers me to refuse him again n again when he's giving all those puppy-dog looks

Hi Jazz,


for ur reply here are my comments:
I just realised it now that my life is turning out to be just like Geet's story or the other way around i don't know!!!
I thaught like that bcoz the way how u potrayed geet's character (no one will get that kind of thaught unless and untill it is really who ur and ur are totally related to geets character thats why ur able to depict her inner self that way...



But now that u ve pointed it out it's freaking me out!!!

Hey Jazzz dont get freaked out... tu tho sherni hain na... u ur self are saying geet doesn't give up so easily...then why should u drift for that kind of person... he doesn't even deserve uu ...if he is trying to contact u then ignore him. as much as u can...


hell I don't want a monster like maan in my life.. ---ur right u cannot have that kind of person into ur life...
.actually I hv already broken up with him but it still bothers me when he keeps on calling me again and again!!!! I'm not the kind of person who can hurts people easily!!! So that's y it's being a bit difficult for me!!! ---- why ru thinking that ur hurting him...its not u who is hurting him it the reverse way...he is hurting u by posting ur pic on FB profile... and trying to call u again and again... ultimately ur suffering and he is enjoying this by seeing u suffer like that...


Don't be that sensitive yaar to let people hurt uu be brave girl and be like a sherniii...halla bol...



<font size="2" color="#FF0099" face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">one thing i didn't understand is if he really really loves you then he should not have kept ur picture on the FB profile. that it self says he is not truly loving you and all </font><font size="2" color="#FF0099" face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">this </font><font size="2" color="#FF0099" face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">is lust... but not LOVE..

But based on your description i am not liking this guy...(don't take me wrong...)</font>



but please dont stop writing yaar... from the very begining idk why i felt that this story resembles your real life ...



OMG pulvi I just realised it now that my life is turning out to be just like Geet's story or the other way around i don't know!!!

But now that u ve pointed it out it's freaking me out!!!

I started writing this story in the beg of June n at that time I had just started with this relationship, so I had no idea that it's gonna be somewhat like my life!!! But hell it's turning out to be like my life!!!! I'm so scared now!!! What if everything comes true that I wrote for Geet! Omg! Omg!! Omg!!!!

Is my life turning into that movie shabd??!!! 😕

n I will go with ur advice..hell I don't want a monster like maan in my life...actually I hv already broken up with him but it still bothers me when he keeps on calling me again and again!!!!
I'm not the kind of person who can hurts people easily!!! So that's y it's being a bit difficult for me!!!

hey gurl,

jazz u r in very tough situation.