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Posted: 13 years ago
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hey jazz...

i am not a relationship expert...but from what u said...i got only 1 thought in my mind...

if u wanted to marry that guy...u wudnt be confused n would not be asking this Q...

this only means u do not like or rather love him to that extent...

he is the one who is after u n making u confuse...

so dont go for it...

discuss this issue with ur parents also...


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Sorry dear...I don't know to give sugesstion..
My advice is don't hurt your parents as well as yourself..
Think twice before taking any step...I will pray for you..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hi dear
u first decide what exacty u want to do..if u dont want to get married with him do not coz its ur life and no one can control it...dear u just make a firm decision and follow ur heart.. and marriage is a big thing it changes our life u choose a partner who understands u and does not give u emotional pressure..so just take time to think in peace..May God fulfill all ur dreams i vl pray for u he vl show u the right path..all the best for future..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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hey jaaz...
i don't think he really luvs u..
otherwise he wouldn't hv put those pic in FB..
i think he s tryiing to blackmail u emotionally..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Jazz
just thnk twice before taking any decision
its about ur whole life yar
you said you had already broke with him
aur haan aise kisi se bhi shadi mat karna jise tum pasand hi nahi karti Ho
kyunki baad mein tumhari parents bhi tum se mooh na mod le
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Posted: 13 years ago
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hii...

its soumi here...


ya i agree ur in a serious problm..


i realy dnt knw wt to suggest...as i myself is a very cnfused persn...bt 1 thing i can say u...


dont hurt ur parents...u r wtevr today only becoz of them...so if they wont accept the guy...try to not to marry him...


nd if u dont hv any prblm wid marriage at ths time..then...wy dont u ask ur parents to find a god person for u...i mean...u can do an arrange marriage...obviously...wid a person u find good...nd loving..



best wishes for ur life dear...hope u wl overcome the odds...



keep writing...


god bless u...:)




~~~soumi~~~
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hey Jazz...my advice to u is u should not marry that guy...

he is Christian u are sikh...that is the matter to consider before u agreed to date him...

u like him or not this matter should be cleared before u says yes to start dating him...

but the main thing is when u said no how dare he used ur pics in fb...that is not so gentleman like...this is sheer blackmailing...this is famous saying that u should marry a person who loves u not the person whom u love...it makes life beautiful... if u have said that he leaves u on ur decision after listening u...I may have told u to marry him...but he is stalking u...blackmailing u that is not love...

Jazz u take ur parents in confidence...they only can help u...now a days all parents know that their children may be having BFor GF so their is no point in hiding...it will increase that boy's guts to blackmail u.


Jazz u are saying that u r taking a break...for how long when are u planning to come back to ur Ffs
Edited by tushti-kiran - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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hey jazz i read ur prob.
well the first n foremost thing that i would like to advice u is plzzz ask urself what u want exactly... after all its ur life n ur decision...n marriage is a lifetime commitment...
so think very deeply about it...
secondly i would req. u too never hurt ur parents...
take care dear...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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hey dont be confuse Parents are more important than any GUY i think u should listen ur parents they always chose best for you
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hey jazz dear,i agree wid mst of d ppl here
If dat guy hav really luvd u,den 4 him ur respect should hav been priority
bcoz no man will evr want smbdy to say things abt his life prtnr
by puttng ur pics n pleadng u,hes emotionally blackmailng u
n u urself not sure of life wid him,so dont get pressurized by his pleadng
trust ur parents dey can never take any wrong decision 4 u n dey hav seen more life den u so dey must b knwng clearly whts gud 4 u
dont hurt ur parents jst 4 4month rltnship in which u r still nt sure abt future of dis rltn
keep ur mind cool n think twice b4 makng any decision,its a matter of lifetime.

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