Maryada is my reality - Page 3

Originally posted by: ratilal22192

omg im sorry,
its true,
people can be brutal - but I say duniya ko laat maaro, do what you need to do to get you where you want to be in life ⭐️

Originally posted by: kiruthikakrisha

i am sorry to say you that you can share such intimate issue with unknown persons and with nobody who are close to you in your real life. it is really strange
you should have felt the shock about the incident at the beginning of your marriage . you didnt mention your husbands pov then is it he doesnt know what is going on in his house or will there be any bride confide with a man on seeing such thing happening around or atleast confronted him for the question of her own marriage life.
if you want to bring in reforms you were waiting for the time a child was born to you and that too woried of a daughter. if you had a son is the situation ok for you.
please dont put fake stories and waste others time

Originally posted by: zarlashta27

Hello everyone,

Just want to share my thoughts. The main reason why women endure rather than fight for justice is because they don't have support to do it. By support, I mean someone behind them and more importantly money support which a woman will need if she leaves her husband because of her husband's bad deeds. Just imagine in today's world and in the past the situation is the same. Women no matter how much they get educated, eventually they have to stay home and take care of their kids. In this process she is at home all the time and is not making any money or security for herself in the event that her husband would do injustice with her. So all of a sudden, how can she fight back because then she will have nowhere to go and nobody to support her. Therefore, she endures everything and stays quiet. In this world everyone out there is looking out for themselves. Nobody can afford to look out for someone extra. Even if the woman's brother took her responsibility, her life would be no better. She will be at the mercy of her sister-in-law. So any way you turn, the loss is your.

DEAD END..

Sorry, If I have offended anyone. Just my opinion.

Originally posted by: Raadhni

Maryada is a much loved program of my mum. She was same as Devyani pretending to the society that she is very happy with her married life. It is not mum never protested but she was too scared to walk out and stay somewhere in Fiji since it is a small place. Dad is just another Brahmanand in Fiji misusing his position in the government. He had numerous affairs like Brahmanand . Mum knew about all and he used to deny all the time. We children craved for his love and support but in vain. Seven years back when mum won the NZ PR lottery close family members encouraged mum to move out and all the problems will stop. But unfortunately after granted the PR dad's affairs with his sister-in-law [bhabhi] became more and more strong. Mum just dumped him and we all flew out of the country secretly. First thing mum did was to write a letter to NZIS and Internal Affairs of all her problems and stopped him from reaching us. Brahmanand and my dad are same as my dad also tried to kill us all by loosing the car's brake , threatened to have us kidnapped by thugs and more. Well its almost 8yrs now and we have not seen his face and we all stand strong and tall with mum.

Originally posted by: JATTISIKHNESS25

I understand what you mean, but also some women stay because after seeing their spouse cheat, they still believe that the husband loves them n not the Saali. My Jija cheated my my cousin with her own sisters. How low can some go.

Originally posted by: psingh3

u r so true, that women stay because they are not ready tobelievethat her husbanddoesn'tlove her. She always kept on waiting that he will realize his love soon or later and traps herself in an emotional trauma. Always tries what should I do to realize him, but ended up hurting her own feeling.

Originally posted by: psingh3

Its the reality of my life too. My life is more like vidya. I got married in london. Difference is that he abuses me and his inhuman behaviour towards me was scary. I got divorce but struggle is still here. People dont respect divorce women.