BEST MAHA SEPISODE EVER!!!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: lifeisloving

I am sorry if u find it offensive dint means to hurt any one feelings...

Originally posted by: AppleBlossom

The homophobia on this forum really needs to stop. It is getting downright offensive now.

Originally posted by: lifeisloving

I have this feeling that gaurav loves vidya and he being gay is just a response to wat his father is and he hated his father may be its his way to take revenge but today's epi was mind blowing gaurav have feelings for vidya i love it when he said " Vidhya maari patni se Aap ko jo baat kerni hai maaray se baat karo"😍

Great MAHA EPISODE👏

Originally posted by: KkavyAngad

I dont think that comment had anything to do with homophobia or being homophebic-its just a fan's creativity.And perhaps,Gaurav is a bisexual character cos it had been revealed that he had girlfriends in college. Homophobia involves extreme and irrational hatred towards the gay community which is hardly evident in that comment made by lifeisloving anyaways.

Originally posted by: KkavyAngad

I dont think that comment had anything to do with homophobia or being homophebic-its just a fan's creativity.And perhaps,Gaurav is a bisexual character cos it had been revealed that he had girlfriends in college. Homophobia involves extreme and irrational hatred towards the gay community which is hardly evident in that comment made by lifeisloving anyaways.

Originally posted by: AppleBlossom

NO. Homophobia is a general term used for intolerance or a range of negative feelings towards homosexuals or their behavior. Being gay is not a choice. That comment clearly tried to imply that Gaurav was pretending to be gay to rebel. Not only is that absurd, it is also homophobic.

And again, the CVs have been drilling the fact that Gaurav is gay ever since the show started. Why would you assume he is a bisexual? Would you be commenting on the possibility of Gaurav being a bisexual if he was portrayed as a heterosexual?

Originally posted by: amoghars

When Gaurav came out in front of Vidya, he made it very clear that there is only one person who can have his love; and that was Karan. It makes the whole thing so irrational when people talk about the possibility of Gaurav being bisexual.

Having girlfriends and wanting them as a life partner is so different. Probably, such attitude of the society is pushing so many young adolescents into suicidal tendency.

Originally posted by: likarsh

Actually those two sentences make the case for sexual fluidity rather than a set sexual preference.

That being said, I do not want Gaurav to be bi-sexual. In American media and entertainment, male bi-sexuality is pretty taboo. And I would welcome such a main character on American television. But in this case, this is the first such portrayal of gay characters on an Indian serial.

Making Gaurav bi-sexual defeats the purpose of sending a social message. If this weren't the first such relationship (involving leads and truly part of the storyline rather than a sideshow), I wouldn't have a problem with making him bi-sexual.

But not only has Gaurav made clear throughout that he truly loves Karan* and considers him his only partner. But making Gaurav suddenly fall for Vidya will just give the message the gay men forced into marriage eventually should and will have fulfilling lives with their wives. That may be true in some cases, but not in cases when the man is solely attracted only to men.

*Side note- Gaurav usually says Karan. Not men, Karan. Take that how you will. But it shouldn't matter. Why shouldn't his love be respected just like the heterosexual parings where someone is adamant about their soulmate/life partner/love or their live,

On another note, about the college girlfriends.

They could've been truly his girlfriends. Or perhaps they were simply girlfriends in name without much physical aspect. It's not exactly an uncommon practice.