Misunderstandings in Love

Hi Friends

Sid has entered Mamta's life for the good. He is trying to help Mamta in all ways he can. He is supporting Mamta financially. He is giving her the support she needs in this court case.

Now we do feel that Sid is a Big Big Mesiah in Mamta's life. Fair enough... We even compare Sid's love and Akshay's love for Mamta. We have also discussed that Akshay has to believe in his love more than the words of others....

But all said and done, do we all really think that Akshay is at fault here? Do we think that Akshay is wrong in not believing Mamta? Yes, i agree that he should not have believed Tanisha to that extent in the beginning. But then, the whole confusion and misunderstanding arose in Akshay's mind with the entry of Mamta's Mami... Now, Akshay saw Mamta's mami coming to his house on her own and stating some bitter facts with solid proof.... My question here is, How on earth would Akshay know that Mamta's mami has been eventually brought by Tanisha there? How on earth will he know the real face of Mamta's Mami? He is a complete stranger to her. Afterall, the lady who came and spoke bad of Mamta was Mamta's own relative. So why should Akshay not believe her? Why are we pointing here, that Akshay is wrong? Akshay never got a faint hint that Tanisha brought Mami to the house. If he had got that, maybe he would not have believed the whole story made by Mami... But Alas, he never knew it!!!

Friends, i am not telling all this bcos i am a staunch supporter of Akshay. But, i just want to put forth certain discussion points where i try to say that, Misunderstandings in Love are bound to happen. It is for the people who are in love to talk it out and clear it. But in the case of Akshay and Mamta, they are buried under big big misunderstandings. Mamta got to know that her Mami came to the house and said something against her only in yesterday's episode. Till then, she never had a clue asto why Akshay started to behave cross with her... The same is with Akshay too... He till date, does not know the involvment of Tanisha in this...

So its just that fate is playing a very bad game with Akshay here... With the entry of Sid, and with Sid supporting Mamta, Akshay will be left all all alone in the fight for Krish's custody... I am sure he is gonna face bad days now.. He might probably lose Krish too... But then, i seriously feel sad for Akshay, bcos he is completely blindfolded and is kept in the dark.... He has been a very very good father and a very very good son. If Tanisha had been nice to him, i am sure he would have been a very very good husband too...

So i conclude here, saying that it is just not fair to compare Sid and Akshay in the same scale... Sid entered Mamta's life is a completely different situation as compared to Akshay... Sid is right and good in his own place. At the same time, we just cannot put the full blame on Akshay for whatever is happening to Mamta... We should always remember that whatever Mamta is going thro, Akshay is also facing the same sorrow....

So what do you have to say about this, friends? I hope we can have many more discussions in this section from now on....

While I did say that it was an excellent defense......that doesn't necessarily imply that I agree with you entirely.

What Akshay could have done was instead of passing judgement so quickly, he could of find out first mami's relationship with Mamta..good?...bad?..

Akshay, with all his wealth and power, could have done some detective work by hiring a detective in trying to verify whether in fact the couple that mami brought in front of Akshay were in fact married.

Through government files, the detective would have been able to verify that in fact that couple were not married in the first place.

He also should have realised that Mamta has never denied anything that she did wrong......so if she is actually denying something then maybe she is telling the truth.

Raj

I LOVED AKSHAY BUT I CANT FEEL SORRY FOR HIM ANYMORE. HIS PROBLEMS ARE HIS OWN LACK OF JUDGEMENT AND FAITH IN HIMSELF AND MAMTA.

SO WHAT IF HER MAMI SAID ALL THOSE THINGS ABOUT MAMTA...HE COULD HAVE TAKEN THE TROUBLE FIND OUT THE TRUTH.

EVEN AS SID'S BEST FRIEND..AKSHAY TOLD HIM TO DISTRUST MAMTA BUT HE BELIEVED IN HIMSELF TO HAVE JUDGED A PERSON RIGHT AND THUS STAND BY HER.

MAMTA ALSO SHUOLD HAVE TAKEN TO EXPLAIN THE TURTH TO AKSHAY BECAUSE END OF THE DAY IT IS LIL KRISH WHO WILL SUFFER.

OFCOURSE WE WILL COMPARE THE LOVE OF SID AND THAT OF AKSHAY TOWARDS MAMTA...FOR A MOMENT FORGET SID AND MAMTA ARE MARRIED AND THEY ARE OBVIOUSLY NOT IN LOVE....SO THERE IS NO COMPARISION IN LOVE BUT WHAT WE CAN COMPARE IS THAT EVEN ID SID AND MAMTA DONT LOVE EACHOTHER HIS RELATIONSHIP IS FAR GREATER THAN THAT OF AKSHAY'S CAUSE SID IS THERE WHEN IT COUNTS!!!

I COULD GO ON AND ON BUT DID U SEE THE SHOW TODAY!!!!WHEN SID ENTERED THE COURT ROOM TODAY I KNEW MAMTA WAS GOING TO BE OK.

Thanks Sree...start of a good discussion. To me it's like I've said before...at times both Akshay and Mamta act dumb. Akshay believing mami is reasonable because Sree like u said how is he to know that Mamta's mami is a Tanisha senior. At the same time he shouldn't be believing of others so easily. Mamta on the other hand...she knows Tanisha and her evil ways. So why not go out to expose her...if she were to expose Tanisha to everyone...and also bring light to Akshay abt her mami then dhoodh ka dhoodh aur pani ka pani ho jaata (given
Mamta is supposed to be the mahaan and great one but sometimes u have to fight for things...so instead of fighting against Akshay and assuring Krish loses his father why not clear his doubts and work with him to rid of ppl like Tanisha and mami---yes some can argue that Akshay can think like this too---but it is VERY well known that shak ka koi ilajh nahi hota-he is under this false belief so only someone else can remove this false belief from his mind). His bad experience w/Tanisha only adds on to his thinking...he tried to make that relationship work so much and it took him to an extreme where his mind slowly developed doubts on all relationships.

In terms of love...I feel Sid can be THE maaseha for Mamta...her absolute life-saver...but that doesn't mean it has to change into love. Love doesn't happen because a person is 'perfect' or 'ideal'...that is the best part of love...loving someone with all of their flaws...and learning from each others misundestandings. Someone else...a girl...an older man...could have been introduced to do the same exact thing Sid is doing...that would've been platonic...so this too can remain platonic all the while having Sid serve as her saviour. It doesn't say much for Mamta or Akshay's love if they just easily succumb and fall for someone else. To take help from someone and develop a high level of respect for them is one thing but to fall in love is another whole ballpark (that is why I get ticked off in Hindi movies and serials where the actress falls for the guy just cuz he helped her out...to become good friends sure...but to just fall in love...no way). Mamta isn't some toy...tossed around everywhere...phele Srivastav ghar aayi...waha Akshay and her got close...now she is at Sid's place...so she and Sid get close...wat a joke. And therefore Sree I am w/u on it not being fair to compare Sid and Akshay...they come from two totally different backgrounds and w/totally different circumstances.

It is apparent that Akshay will lose Krish as Mamta is bound to win him.

But in the end it comes down to wat I've been saying over and over again. In all this it will be Krish's loss the most...poor kid...he can get EITHER his mother OR father not both. And I refuse to believe that Sid can EVER replace Akshay as Krish's father. Whatever else one can blame Akshay for he cannot be blamed for not being a good father. Krish has been the apple of his eye just as Krish has been the apple of Mamta's eye too.

'But then, i seriously feel sad for Akshay, bcos he is completely blindfolded and is kept in the dark.... He has been a very very good father and a very very good son. If Tanisha had been nice to him, i am sure he would have been a very very good husband too...'---I think both Akshay and Mamta know this...that he would've been a very good husband w/an 'ideal' wife like Mamta. Yet neither are willing to do what is necessary to make it happen. Both know that if they were to get together it would make Krish's life!!!

wow good topic and yea i feel the worst for akshay and krish...cause krish should have a mother and a father at this age...but he is lost 😭