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Posted: 11 years ago
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@arummy:in short you are not getting my point,madhu did mess up things and if that makes you feel better in sultaan track too she did some really stupid things but if you just compare these two situations that sultaan track and yesterday's ,with the help of sultaan she wanted to teach rk a lesson but yesterday she did it by herself and made rk realized his mistakes and he admitted too(a fact which you are ignoring completely)yes she did mess up things by not doing it early what she did yesterday.
that is my view and what I said about madhu was in the light of her current actions all this time she did nothing not even she defended her own dignity when rk insulted her in the party and many other examples there are in which madhu acted foolishly,remember what rk said to madhu"mein chahay kuch bhi karlon meri madhu muje maaf kardegi"rk was guilty though but for madhu I did not find any pride in it"mera pyaar maaf kardeta hai"well that was not at all impressive.

P.S.It was nice arguing with you:)

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Mallu
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Posted: 11 years ago
#72
..RK rockxx
Galti phir sorry .. galti phir sorry🤣
but sudhrega nhi🤣
Edited by -naughty_smile- - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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as they say taali ek haath se nahi bajti
RK has done wrong but Madhu is no saint either...if RK is finding solace else where this means he was unable to get the time and emotional support from his wife..otherwise it was always him who prioritize her over everything else
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Poluk


It is not only confronting that was required, she was supposed to be understanding also. When RK was being demeaned by MC and company, when the movie was being made heroine centric and the aftermath of the movie - she never realised the effect all this was going to have on the psyche of her husband.

She could not feel the wounds being inflicted. Now the same wounds are beginning to fester.

A wife's duty is not only to feed her husband or pamper him - it is also to provide the needed emotional/moral support.

Instead of firming up and shutting people when required, instead of letting him feel that he is the number one priority in her life , she continued trying to please everyone.

She took his abuse quietly - but that was never the solution, finding out what was hurting him and trying to prevent/minimize it was.



heroine centric movie was there any other way or hope to save rk and his career?,rk was not in a condition to continue the movie she saved him and his career and if you remember he was all set to die but madhu saved him.

Speaking of wounds,madhu never had any idea about that rk's highly insecure even jealous of her success,she kept him telling that she did it for him and she does not want fame or no desire to become an actress she kept on telling him but did rk ever told her that he does not want her to continue with more films,he simply told her to continue with her pregnancy no one except for rk knows why he did that how suddenly he changed his mind about keeping the baby.

This concludes that not only he was insecure but feared too that if madhu will come to know of his insecurities she will do what he does not want that is doing more films,rk said chawl wali become a star over-night,what to make of that???RK never thought that it was his movie after all which he produced and the praises are for him as well and madhu already told him that she has no desire to become a superstar or to continue with films but rk did not believe that and created a scene in party.It was a wound he inflicted upon himself mahdu has nothing to do with that,all she had to do was to ask him that what actually was bothering him,if he would have told her clearly she would have understood him for sure,but instead of that she became annoyingly submissive and forgiving on her part and rk actually never asked for any forgiveness,until yesterday.

Mallu
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Posted: 11 years ago
#75

Originally posted by: Poluk


It is not only confronting that was required, she was supposed to be understanding also. When RK was being demeaned by MC and company, when the movie was being made heroine centric and the aftermath of the movie - she never realised the effect all this was going to have on the psyche of her husband.

I guess RK should have realized the possible side effects of bringing his wife into movies in the first place since he has been the saner one among the two and not love blind like Madhu.

She could not feel the wounds being inflicted. Now the same wounds are beginning to fester.

I wish RK could have felt the wounds his ego latches on Madhu instead of putting his wife down in front of others time and again ! ofcourse, he apologize to commit the same mistake all over again.

A wife's duty is not only to feed her husband or pamper him - it is also to provide the needed emotional/moral support.

A husband's duty is neither limited to milking his ego but also to provide the warmth when ur partner needs u the most instead of wandering around for some ego booster on road side bars !

Instead of firming up and shutting people when required, instead of letting him feel that he is the number one priority in her life , she continued trying to please everyone.

She took his abuse quietly - but that was never the solution, finding out what was hurting him and trying to prevent/minimize it was.




Some really interesting and thought provoking comments on how a wife needs to behave to deal with an egoistic husband, doesnt matter how the latter one treats his wife !


thanks !
Edited by Manonids - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#76

Originally posted by: Manonids



Some really interesting and thought provoking comments on how a wife needs to behave to deal with an egoistic husband, doesnt matter how the latter one treats his wife !


thanks !


Manoinds selective reading or quoting is wrong.

What you have picked up is my second reply where the concentration was only on MB since it was a furtherance of my discussion with Mallu.

You should have looked up my comment written just before that also wherein I had equally blamed both the parties.

Anyways I am refraining from answering to your comments.

Thanks and bye
Edited by Poluk - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Ms.Wildcherry-

@arummy:in short you are not getting my point,madhu did mess up things and if that makes you feel better in sultaan track too she did some really stupid things but if you just compare these two situations that sultaan track and yesterday's ,with the help of sultaan she wanted to teach rk a lesson but yesterday she did it by herself and made rk realized his mistakes and he admitted too(a fact which you are ignoring completely)yes she did mess up things by not doing it early what she did yesterday.

that is my view and what I said about madhu was in the light of her current actions all this time she did nothing not even she defended her own dignity when rk insulted her in the party and many other examples there are in which madhu acted foolishly,remember what rk said to madhu"mein chahay kuch bhi karlon meri madhu muje maaf kardegi"rk was guilty though but for madhu I did not find any pride in it"mera pyaar maaf kardeta hai"well that was not at all impressive.

P.S.It was nice arguing with you:)

Thanks
Mallu

I got your point . You need not make me feel better as I know there are always different povs. It is not necessary to agree. There is no question on RK, he always accepts his mistakes.

By the way I was not arguing with you.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ForeverForU

as they say taali ek haath se nahi bajti

RK has done wrong but Madhu is no saint either...if RK is finding solace else where this means he was unable to get the time and emotional support from his wife..otherwise it was always him who prioritize her over everything else


Rk and Madhu ek life mein , thali humesha RK bajatha hai woh bhi ek haath se😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -naughty_smile-

..RK rockxx
Galti phir sorry .. galti phir sorry🤣
but sudhrega nhi🤣


More to come very soon 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: subashni

Good post.I am not surprised.It is always R.K's fault. be it Madhu,Sultan or some uncouth chawlwalas it is R.K who should apologize.Read your post in EDT.R.K's real issues or insecurities will never be discussed.because it would point to some of Madhu's actions and her ambiguity.Only R.K's vices would be highlighted or else how could M play Goddess? This is the only show which justified Villain and hint even junior characters like chawl people are better than their hero..

We also had everyone reiterating Madhu goddess position today's d how they expect t her to take care of everything.

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