A life likely to be messed up..?? - Page 5

Originally posted by: Poluk

Just wanted to raise a few points.

You are looking at the situation and analysing it as a woman. A man doesnot think like that.

First and foremost the bond between a father and child develops after it is born. During pregnancy it is the love for his wife that comes to the forefront. And yes a man can be excited at the prospect of a baby. But there is no real love and bonding. ask any father and he will confirm what I am saying

RK is not the one carrying or feeling the child. But the society has some inbuilt rules and expectations which are weighing heavily on him.

He is supposed to be the protector and provider. On both fronts he is finding himself deficient at this point of time. And as he rightly said love is never sufficient.

Anyone who has actually had a child will confirm. Its a big investment of time, money and energy. A child is not a doll. It has real tangible needs - lots of them in fact. And the needs are to be fulfilled if the child has to be given a safe and happy future.

Yes poor people also have kids but he doesnot belong to that background and it is unimaginable for him to bring a child into the world without financial, physical or even health security (afterall everything takes money).

Almost all the couples now a days wait and get financially settled before opting for a kid. In his case his paralysis was sudden and an unplanned twist of the fate which has left him crippled and unable to earn.

It is not a question of who is getting sympathy out of RM.

It is a question of who is looking foolish and emotional. If MB instead of hitting him had listened to him quietly, it would not have looked so odd. MB's behaviour is coming across as a silly emotional woman who is not able to appreciate the hard realities of life. Life does not follow our dreams or desires.

Yes if the problems had come after the child had been born it would have been the child's luck. But right now MB is forcefully creating an unlucky child - by bringing him into such an environment. There is a huge difference.

MB's feeling hurt or emotional is correct. Her crying is correct. But her mulish stance is not.

The fact is : MB is not thinking about what is good for the baby nor is she considering him/her at this point. She is only considering her feelings as a mother, her emotions, her needs - not the child's needs/future.

Originally posted by: _charu_

if it was any other heroine, RK cud have sued her bec. usually, there is a specific "no pregnancy" clause in the contract...but both the producer and the heroine didn't feel the need to plan the baby so they don't have any scapegoat this time 😆

Sorry to say but this is not the first and easiest option, this is the last option to salvage the otherwise non profit making venture..a flop director, RK's role reduced to a cameo, pregnant heroine , debutant heroine centric movie , the movie may work bec. MC says so and Madhubala is starring in it but since RK may be ruined if the film doesn't recover it's investments, he has to take some tough decisions...nobody loses anything except RK, ab toh Madhu ne bhi palla jhaad liya...aur ab toh MC, after making the movie heroine centric, changing the script , ye chahiye ye nahi, has passed the buck to RK to sell the film and market it ! 😆

Originally posted by: rima4ever

nice post

Originally posted by: sadumaneet

nice post so many things r in mind this is war of two ideologies so its way too difficult choose one both r right and wrong on their own way...

on a side note if RK is practical thinker he could have never loose his stardom ...so here in this case he simply don't want child ..obviously because of so many reason but not because he is being practical

if he would have put his point in front of her in more decent way then scenario might be had way too different...Madhu is emotional fool she could have at least give a thought on it but now its simply war...

our CV's r just sadist people that they choose such a sensitive subject its impossible for one decide who is wrong and right and trust me TRP aunties gone support Madhu in this case ...

Originally posted by: Manonids

@ Wild_Desire- ...Abortion in itself is a big issue beyond mere a medical solution ...Its comparatively easy for RK to suggest with his emotions controlled, but not easy for Madhu to accept so easily ...It needs patience dealing... ...u got to give her some time to deal with the harsh truth instead of enforcing ur decision, negating her emotions point blank ! ..Cant blame her for being a terrified mother with RK announcing such harsh decision !

Originally posted by: Arnav90

The biggest sin anybody can ever do in life is killing a unborn baby and Calling the one who is not even born as unlucky is the worst thing one can ever say...