A life likely to be messed up..?? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Poluk

Just one thing I want to say is that I am seeing this situation only from the point of view of the child because in my opinion the parents desires don't matter. What is beneficial for the child only matters.

Guess that is why MB's feelings of her motherhood and happiness are not striking a chord with me while RK who was talking about the child's future did.

If he had wanted abortion because of his public image I would have hated him and justified him being beaten with a stick.

That is why also I am differentiating between a live 8 month old pregnancy and a single cell which cannot hear or feel.

PS: Dont you think writing 'we should agree to disagree' and a closing 'Thanks' after giving your arguments is equal to saying that I shall have the final word. 😊

Anyways this shall be my last post here.😊 Thanks & Bye.

Originally posted by: priyachand

interesting post nids! i do agree with your points. bt as few others point out father's bonding with child comes later not in the earlier part. so he ends up thinking more practically. yes i do agree he needs to look out alternatives instead of just aborting d baby.

but wht do u say of ppl who are told that their baby might be born wth some kind of disablity, go fo r abortion. becos they dont wnt d kid to be born with disability n suffer. so they abort it. it islike d baby is not perfectly made so it ends up aborted. is htat right?

in RK's case it is not physical disability more of financial n may be father's paralysis. bt end thing is his world is not perfect so he does not wnt d baby. so is he wrong?

or shdn't we equate physical disability iwht financial stability?

becos this is one issue i had my differneces.

Originally posted by: Poluk

Just one thing I want to say is that I am seeing this situation only from the point of view of the child because in my opinion the parents desires don't matter. What is beneficial for the child only matters.

Guess that is why MB's feelings of her motherhood and happiness are not striking a chord with me while RK who was talking about the child's future did.

If he had wanted abortion because of his public image I would have hated him and justified him being beaten with a stick.

That is why also I am differentiating between a live 8 month old pregnancy and a single cell which cannot hear or feel.

PS: Dont you think writing 'we should agree to disagree' and a closing 'Thanks' after giving your arguments is equal to saying that I shall have the final word. 😊

Anyways this shall be my last post here.😊 Thanks & Bye.

Originally posted by: pennu

Very Good thoughts Nids...
Ofcourse its not a sympathy gainer for RK or Madhu... RK will have his own reasons and worries and he is not wrong also.. I am not saying RK will feel happy after abortion.. NO he wont.. he will also feel the pain...but its nothing when compared to the pain of Madhu who has already stared living a mother's life... as you mentioned in your post Abortion should be the last option not the first.. that too should be a mutual decision...

Originally posted by: armummy

Agree with you. RK not even thinking of any other option before voicing abortion is in a very bad taste for me. That should be last option if at all but not certainly first option.

I do not call it practical , I call it loser attitude . Practicaldmeans trying to solve the problem not latching onto easiest option available.

What if the heroine was not producers wife , would have RK he have dared to raise the question to heroine. Just because it is his wife and child , he felt he could excercize that option.