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na Anita, that's not possible..She will not align with Dips, and for what reason? right now , she's likeable bec. she can see through Dips and the Bhatia's...she hasn't done anything which went against the interests of RK...she may have felt jealous that Madhu has taken her position in RK's life but that's normal after marriage...what Pabo told Madhu may have sounded like a pre medieval thought but it was not a bad tip..just that it was over dramatized with the heavy dialogues on adarsh bahu...it's better that ghar & aurton ki chic chic doesn't reach men bec. they really don't know how to tackle these issues , they have nothing to contribute nor can they solve these problems so it's better that they stay out of it BUT there should be no rigid rule ..as per circumstances, the wife can share her problems with her husband, afterall he's her biggest support...one can exercise their judgement...Pabo can go on giving lectures on adarsh bahu but what husband and wife do in their bedroom is entirely their business...nobody has the right to dictate the terms and conditions there..it's b/w them..
Charu what I feel is that Pabo is all theoretical and nil practical knowledge. She knows the duties of a Bahu and wife as per book but has zero practical experience or understanding of it.
Having never had a husband she doesn't understand the nuances and needs of a husband wife relationship - which an actually married MIL would have . But her egoistic nature will not allow her to accept her shortcomings. And she has that typical habit that her word is law.
This habit has further been accentuated by RK giving her the love and respect due for a mother. In the house full of fools and opportunists, RK always gave her the most importance and factually she must always have been the smartest of the cartoon characters residing in that house.
Now suddenly she has realised that her position has been usurped by MB. If she had been there since the day of the 4 phere wedding it would have been a gradual change and acceptance for her.
But in this case it is abrupt and sudden. The son who looked upon her as God told her off for making his wife sad. So jealousy has to come into play. With MB becoming a successful heroine this jealousy is slated to increase. And jealousy once it starts eating into a being can make him sink to any depths.
