DP#84-Madhu's ultimate dilemma between 2 paths? - Page 106

I guess I Most of ALL, prefer a Strong Madhu alone first and be independent then fall in love, with anyone else but RK I guess. (UNLESS they give him a proper redemption. For me he is irredeemable but this is fiction. Anything is possible.)

And yes, Sulbala is quite ok with me, provided they take the time to build the love between them properly, from both sides, as the foundation of friendship, trust, and understanding which is the basis of any lasting and strong basis already exists between them.

But, the way they have been handling Sultan these days, I have lost interest in Sulbala or Sultan too. Which is sad, as he could added an additional dimension to this one track vicious circle story and provide us with a diversion, if he was provided a story line of his own. But, still if they build him and their relationship properly I would def. watch it.

And the reason I am against RK or Rishbala r two fold.

First he is a person without morals, scruples or understanding of what is right and wrong or empathy (I discount his behavior from the latest proposal as we don't understand his motivation and purpose .) and the concept of giving and taking respect and consideration for anyone else other than himself.

Such a person cannot and should not be considered for n relationship let alone of husband and wife. And here, he has actually used weapons such as subterfuge, deceit and betrayal and fake love as his weapons to gain the trust and love of an innocent woman to ultimately subjugate her, and break her heart and trust in the most horrendous and public way as possible.

And then he acerbated the situation by gloating in the girl's pain after he has done it and then further continued to humiliate her in every way including getting his own ex love and present bhabi to inflict more pain and humiliation on her.

And then when he thought she was getting close to another man, he forcefully carried her home and handcuffed her to keep her there.

In any love story, the first thing a girl searches or looks for is NOT his profession, but the kind of person is he on the whole, whether he can love, respect and cherish her and safeguard her honor and her well being. And then comes whether he can protect her from outside influences and his profession.

With Sultan, she may have to face the danger to her life at some point of life, and may have to live in fear some time, but at least the fear will be from outside, not from the person, whom u expected u to love u, stand by u and have ur back.

In RK's case that is what we can expect. Not from outside, but from the very place where she is supposed to feel safe, protected, never knowing when she will be thrown to the wolves, when he might turn back to attack her and degrade her, as her wishes really don't hold weight for him, as mainly HIS wishes hold the most imp. For him.

Second reason I don't want Madhu is because of the way Madhu is when she is with him.

She becomes a person with no real, strong char, becomes a malleable person, losing herself totally in her love to the extent she loses the core sense of herself. Becomes a weak, malleable girl who is a shadow of her former self.

With Sultan, she stands on her own feet, still has her own opinions and a person who respect her and her opinions and takes them completely into consideration.

But, again for me a strong Bala is a pleasure to watch, either alone or with Sultan or anyone including RK.

But, since that is not possible with RK , that makes RIshbala absolutely unpalatable and for me.

Originally posted by: swapna555

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Lovely Discussion!! :-)

Hey FIa, Pennu, And any one else around. :-) I am with Fia on this BTW. :-)

Originally posted by: fia21

I don't know about others, but I want to see Sultan and Madhu together (although I would prefer Madhu to be alone too, but since it's an Indian show, we need a guy for her) because I want to see something different in the show. RK and RishBala and been too damn monotonous for months now and their scenes make me want to doze off and never wake up. I am not demanding for a SulBala marriage, I personally find marriage tracks very boring, but if we look at this as a story, a Gangster's has more weight then that of a Superstar's. But that's just my opinion, you don't have to agree with it.

And another reason being that for whatever RK does, people don't take a second to scream their lungs out with "It's a fiction show and his actions are justified" chants, so why don't the same rules apply when it comes to Sultan? I mean if it all comes down to fiction, then even a Gangster deserves to get the girl doesn't he?

Originally posted by: swapna555

Actually<

I guess I Most of ALL, prefer a Strong Madhu alone first and be independent then fall in love, with anyone else but RK I guess. (UNLESS they give him a proper redemption. For me he is irredeemable but this is fiction. Anything is possible.)

And yes, Sulbala is quite ok with me, provided they take the time to build the love between them properly, from both sides, as the foundation of friendship, trust, and understanding which is the basis of any lasting and strong basis already exists between them.

But, the way they have been handling Sultan these days, I have lost interest in Sulbala or Sultan too. Which is sad, as he could added an additional dimension to this one track vicious circle story and provide us with a diversion, if he was provided a story line of his own. But, still if they build him and their relationship properly I would def. watch it.

And the reason I am against RK or Rishbala r two fold.

First he is a person without morals, scruples or understanding of what is right and wrong or empathy (I discount his behavior from the latest proposal as we don't understand his motivation and purpose .) and the concept of giving and taking respect and consideration for anyone else other than himself.

Such a person cannot and should not be considered for n relationship let alone of husband and wife. And here, he has actually used weapons such as subterfuge, deceit and betrayal and fake love as his weapons to gain the trust and love of an innocent woman to ultimately subjugate her, and break her heart and trust in the most horrendous and public way as possible.

And then he acerbated the situation by gloating in the girl's pain after he has done it and then further continued to humiliate her in every way including getting his own ex love and present bhabi to inflict more pain and humiliation on her.

And then when he thought she was getting close to another man, he forcefully carried her home and handcuffed her to keep her there.

In any love story, the first thing a girl searches or looks for is NOT his profession, but the kind of person is he on the whole, whether he can love, respect and cherish her and safeguard her honor and her well being. And then comes whether he can protect her from outside influences and his profession.

With Sultan, she may have to face the danger to her life at some point of life, and may have to live in fear some time, but at least the fear will be from outside, not from the person, whom u expected u to love u, stand by u and have ur back.

In RK's case that is what we can expect. Not from outside, but from the very place where she is supposed to feel safe, protected, never knowing when she will be thrown to the wolves, when he might turn back to attack her and degrade her, as her wishes really don't hold weight for him, as mainly HIS wishes hold the most imp. For him.

Second reason I don't want Madhu is because of the way Madhu is when she is with him.

She becomes a person with no real, strong char, becomes a malleable person, losing herself totally in her love to the extent she loses the core sense of herself. Becomes a weak, malleable girl who is a shadow of her former self.

With Sultan, she stands on her own feet, still has her own opinions and a person who respect her and her opinions and takes them completely into consideration.

But, again for me a strong Bala is a pleasure to watch, either alone or with Sultan or anyone including RK.

But, since that is not possible with RK , that makes RIshbala absolutely unpalatable and for me.

Originally posted by: -GhostOrchid-

hello Fia, Swapna, Pennu, Ankita, Arti and everyone else who is around..

PS: I hate working on Monday
PPS: I am sorry for the disappearing act yesterday night...god punished me for making fun on Fia..the hostel.indeed had a power cut 😭

Originally posted by: fia21

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Originally posted by: -GhostOrchid-

I know Fia we have had this discussion before as well..and I guess we will have to agree to disagree..I also understand that people defend RK's actions using this is fiction excuse but then I have seen people defending Sultan using the same excuse aswell..especially after preaching about morality...agreed its less than what people use to defend RK but its used as an excuse none the less

and I dont like seeing RK Madhu scenes either any more..atleast as of now..yes they are monotonous..totally agree upon that..but then I find Sultan-Madhu scenes very tepid and monotonous aswell..
and same goes for Sultan as a character..he doesnt interest me..neither does RK anymore( but he did once upon a time)

and the reason I put forth the question was not because of all these but because I couldnt understand the logic that Madhu should end up marrying Sultan just because RK is undeserving..
that is not reason enough to convince me..wishing she marries someone else just to ensure RK doesnt win is ...

if she is truly over RK and chooses Sultan in future, I may not watch it if I find it uninteresting but I wont complain either..yes she has complete right to move on and chose another man if she wishes..but I will complqin if she still loves RK but is made to marry Sultan by some lame twist..

heck I wil complain if she is made to marry RK against her wish aswell..

I dont want any marriage to happen..everyone needs a time out

Originally posted by: -GhostOrchid-

it positively sucks..
no.electricity in so much heat..no wifi and the mobile network in my room is practically nil..

I solemnly swear never to make fun of electricity cuts

Originally posted by: swapna555

Actually<

I guess I Most of ALL, prefer a Strong Madhu alone first and be independent then fall in love, with anyone else but RK I guess. (UNLESS they give him a proper redemption. For me he is irredeemable but this is fiction. Anything is possible.)

And yes, Sulbala is quite ok with me, provided they take the time to build the love between them properly, from both sides, as the foundation of friendship, trust, and understanding which is the basis of any lasting and strong basis already exists between them.

But, the way they have been handling Sultan these days, I have lost interest in Sulbala or Sultan too. Which is sad, as he could added an additional dimension to this one track vicious circle story and provide us with a diversion, if he was provided a story line of his own. But, still if they build him and their relationship properly I would def. watch it.

And the reason I am against RK or Rishbala r two fold.

First he is a person without morals, scruples or understanding of what is right and wrong or empathy (I discount his behavior from the latest proposal as we don't understand his motivation and purpose .) and the concept of giving and taking respect and consideration for anyone else other than himself.

Such a person cannot and should not be considered for n relationship let alone of husband and wife. And here, he has actually used weapons such as subterfuge, deceit and betrayal and fake love as his weapons to gain the trust and love of an innocent woman to ultimately subjugate her, and break her heart and trust in the most horrendous and public way as possible.

And then he acerbated the situation by gloating in the girl's pain after he has done it and then further continued to humiliate her in every way including getting his own ex love and present bhabi to inflict more pain and humiliation on her.

And then when he thought she was getting close to another man, he forcefully carried her home and handcuffed her to keep her there.

In any love story, the first thing a girl searches or looks for is NOT his profession, but the kind of person is he on the whole, whether he can love, respect and cherish her and safeguard her honor and her well being. And then comes whether he can protect her from outside influences and his profession.

With Sultan, she may have to face the danger to her life at some point of life, and may have to live in fear some time, but at least the fear will be from outside, not from the person, whom u expected u to love u, stand by u and have ur back.

In RK's case that is what we can expect. Not from outside, but from the very place where she is supposed to feel safe, protected, never knowing when she will be thrown to the wolves, when he might turn back to attack her and degrade her, as her wishes really don't hold weight for him, as mainly HIS wishes hold the most imp. For him.

Second reason I don't want Madhu is because of the way Madhu is when she is with him.

She becomes a person with no real, strong char, becomes a malleable person, losing herself totally in her love to the extent she loses the core sense of herself. Becomes a weak, malleable girl who is a shadow of her former self.

With Sultan, she stands on her own feet, still has her own opinions and a person who respect her and her opinions and takes them completely into consideration.

But, again for me a strong Bala is a pleasure to watch, either alone or with Sultan or anyone including RK.

But, since that is not possible with RK , that makes RIshbala absolutely unpalatable and for me.

U spoke my Mind Swapna 👍🏼