DP#84-Madhu's ultimate dilemma between 2 paths? - Page 107

Originally posted by: fia21

LOVED how you summed it all up Swapna 👏

Exactly my thoughts. I have nothing more to add.

@Red: Complete agree with you on this one. A girl needs someone she feels safe with, whom she knows will protect her from the world. RK can never be that man because it's him that Madhu needs protection from.

And just like you, I always say that I admire a person or character for his personality traits, not his resume!
😆

Thnx Fia. 😊 We r always in sync looks like. 😆 I like that. :-)

Originally posted by: -GhostOrchid-

hello Fia, Swapna, Pennu, Ankita, Arti and everyone else who is around..

PS: I hate working on Monday
PPS: I am sorry for the disappearing act yesterday night...god punished me for making fun on Fia..the hostel.indeed had a power cut 😭

Heyyy Ami :-) and Udhay :-)

Aww... 🤗 Hopefully this is a one time thing. Fia, Hope for u too!! I will keep my fingers crossed for both of u.

Originally posted by: fia21

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Lol okay I kinda feel bad for you now 😳

Actually not so much. Hahaha 😆

How long was it out though? What happened?

That reminds me, I am about to have another one in a couple of minutes 😭
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there was some problem.with the underground wires..
the generators were enough to supply power to the wards but not enough for hostel..
power returned at 4.30 in.morning

will miss you if you disappear

Originally posted by: swapna555

Thnx Fia. 😊 We r always in sync looks like. 😆 I like that. :-)

Like? I'm loving it 😉😆

Originally posted by: -GhostOrchid-

there was some problem.with the underground wires..
the generators were enough to supply power to the wards but not enough for hostel..
power returned at 4.30 in.morning

will miss you if you disappear

Oh boy that sucks.
Once we didn't have any power for 22 hours. And it was July. Bloody hot. It was a BAD experience

You better

Originally posted by: --Udhay--

U spoke my Mind Swapna 👍🏼

This is for u 👏.👏.👏.👏.👏.👏.👏.👏.👏.👏.👏.👏.👏.👏.👏.

Thank u Udhay!! 😊

Originally posted by: swapna555

<font color="#0000CC">Actually<
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<font color="#0000CC">I guess I Most of ALL, prefer a Strong Madhu alone first and
be independent then fall in love, with anyone else but RK I guess.

(UNLESS they
give him a proper redemption. For me he is irredeemable but this is fiction.
Anything is possible.)</font>

<font color="#0000CC">And yes, Sulbala is quite ok with me, provided they take the
time to build the love between them properly, from both sides, as the
foundation of friendship, trust, and understanding which is the basis of any
lasting and strong basis already exists between them.</font>

<font color="#0000CC">But, the way they have been handling Sultan these days, I
have lost interest in Sulbala or Sultan too. Which is sad, as he could added an
additional dimension to this one track vicious circle story and provide us with
a diversion, if he was provided a story line of his own. But, still if they
build him and their relationship properly I would def. watch it.</font>

<font color="#0000CC">And the reason I am against RK or Rishbala r two fold.</font>

<font color="#0000CC">First he is a person
without morals, scruples or understanding of what is right and wrong or empathy
(I discount his behavior from the latest proposal as we don't understand his motivation
and purpose .) and the concept of giving and taking respect and consideration
for anyone else other than himself. </font>

<font color="#0000CC">Such a person cannot and should not be considered for n
relationship let alone of husband and wife. And here, he has actually used
weapons such as subterfuge, deceit and betrayal and fake love as his weapons
to gain the trust and love of an innocent
woman to ultimately subjugate her, and break her heart and trust in the most horrendous
and public way as possible.</font>

<font color="#0000CC">And then he acerbated the situation by gloating in the girl's
pain after he has done it and then further continued to humiliate her in every
way including getting his own ex love and present bhabi to inflict more pain
and humiliation on her. </font>

<font color="#0000CC">And then when he thought she was getting close to another man,
he forcefully carried her home and handcuffed her to keep her there.</font>

<font color="#0000CC">In any love story, the first thing a girl searches or looks
for is NOT his profession, but the kind of person is he on the whole, whether
he can love, respect and cherish her and safeguard her honor and her well
being. And then comes whether he can
protect her from outside influences and his profession.</font>

<font color="#0000CC">With Sultan, she may have to face the danger to her life at
some point of life, and may have to live in fear some time, but at least the
fear will be from outside, not from the person, whom u expected u to love u, stand
by u and have ur back.</font>

<font color="#0000CC">In RK's case that is
what we can expect. Not from outside, but from the very place where she is supposed
to feel safe, protected, never knowing when she will be thrown to the wolves,
when he might turn back to attack her and degrade her, as her wishes really don't
hold weight for him, as mainly HIS wishes hold the most imp. For him.</font>

<font color="#0000CC">Second reason I don't want Madhu is because of the way Madhu
is when she is with him.</font>

<font color="#0000CC">She becomes a person
with no real, strong char, becomes a malleable person, losing herself totally
in her love to the extent she loses the core sense of herself. Becomes a weak,
malleable girl who is a shadow of her former self.</font>

<font color="#0000CC">With Sultan, she stands on her own feet, still has her own
opinions and a person who respect her and her opinions and takes them completely
into consideration. </font>

<font color="#0000CC">But, again for me a strong Bala is a pleasure to watch,
either alone or with Sultan or anyone including RK.</font>

<font color="#0000CC">But, since that is not possible with RK , that makes
RIshbala absolutely unpalatable and for
me.</font>

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Wow!! :) U said all what my opinion exactly is! 😊

@Bold - BANG ON!! Exactly !

How is MB treating my friends from DP!😊

Originally posted by: Preethi-Premi

How is MB treating my friends from DP!😊

Hola DPians!😊😆

Hey Preethi. Where have you been?

Originally posted by: fia21

Like? I'm loving it 😉😆

Hi-FI!!🤗😆

Ok guys., it nearing 5 am here, gotta get back to bed, or won't be able to get anything done tomorrow.
See u tomorrow or rather today.😆

. Have fun !! :-) Good nite!!😃 OR Good Morning depending on ur time zones!! 😆

Final Ciao!! 😳